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Craig R Lang Certified Hypnotherapist
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Unexplained Phenomena and Extraordinary Experiences
The Light and the Dark Side of the Sky - The Wonder and Trauma of
Contact
(c)2000 by Craig R. Lang MS, CHt
On a beautiful afternoon, I sometimes find it to be a wonderful
experience just sit on my front porch and stare at the deep blue of a cloudless
sly. As an avid skywatcher,
I love the sky - deep blue by day, dark and infinite by night. But to some, the sky has a deeper, more
sinister meaning - associated with things less friendly. It can be a source of wonder and of menace,
of a phenomenon which periodically visits them - frightening, unpredictable,
and uninvited.
For many in society, an undercurrent of encounters with the unexplained
pervades their lives. The recent Roper poll of unusual personal experiences
estimated that this occurs to about one percent of us. It is a long-standing thread of unexplainable
events which colors one's relationships, alters one's views of the world and
changes one's very health.
To some it is just a series of interesting mysteries and strange
half-remembered events, a barely discernable blip on the radar screen of
life. But to others it is a source of
pain - an encounter with events beyond one's understanding and outside of one's
control. To them, contact with an
extraordinary is a curse - a cross to be borne every day of life. Bryant and Seebach's book "Healing
Shattered Reality" describes the latter as "Post Contact
Syndrome" (abbreviated as PCS), the shattering of one's personal reality
due to an encounter with the extraordinary.
There are many potential indicators of the phenomenon in one's
life. But some of the most telling are:
- Missing
Time, or a sudden, unaccounted for change in location - often betrayed by the
question: What happened?
How did I get here? This can be, but is not necessarily,
associated with a UFO sighting.
A consistent theme of anomaly sightings - ghosts,
UFO's, Monsters - which permeates the life of the experiencer
Fear of, or obsession with, a particular
location. This might be a stretch of
road, an open field, or similar place.
There is often a simultaneous sense of fear and fascination with this
particular place, and a sense that something
extraordinary occurred there.
A sudden, unexplained change in beliefs, behavior,
thought patterns, or health - changes with no discernable cause. Often they seem to be of external, and perhaps mysterious origin.
A deep, over-riding sense of mystery or menace, often associated with the sky, or with late-nights.
Fear of, or obsession with topics such as life on
other worlds, astronomy, the environment, UFO's and Aliens. One experiencer described how she
got cold chills any time she saw the cover of the book "Communion",
by Whitley Strieber, with its picture
of an alien face on the cover.
Sudden onset of psychic abilities and/or paranormal
activities
No one knows what the phenomenon really is. Perhaps it is mental, metaphysical, or
spiritual in nature. Or perhaps it is a
physical presence on Earth of entities from elsewhere. We don't know. At today's level of understanding, the best
that can be done when beset by this wonder/curse, is to somehow come to terms
with it. And one can come
to terms with it and heal the darker side of its effects.
The quickest way to come to terms with possible contact is to associate
with others who have experienced the same thing. Often this can be done by attending UFO
interest groups, such as Minnesota MUFON, or the local CSETI (Center for the Study
of Extraterrestrial Intelligence) chapter.
This can help to alleviate the sense of isolation that many experiencers
feel. The experiencer is not alone -
others share his/her beliefs and experiences.
In addition to attending UFO and contact interest groups, the
experiencer may wish to find individual assistance in healing with the effects
of contact. There are many ways in which
this can be done, including sometimes simply finding an understanding, trusted
ear. The most understanding ear
available sometimes can be that of the
UFO researcher - especially if that person focuses on the close encounter
phenomenon. Research
organizations such as the Intruders Foundation, MUFON, etc. can help you find a
researcher in your area. In the best of cases, the researcher may be a trained
or certified therapist, with an active interest in the phenomenon.
Contacting a researcher can have the benefit both of helping to heal,
and of providing the research community with valuable data to help understand
the phenomenon. Depending upon your
degree of comfort with sharing your experiences, you will probably want to
insist on either anonymity (withholding the experiencer's name) or
confidentiality (strictly between experiencer and researcher) regarding any
research data that results from your experiences. Many counsellors,
psychologists, and therapists are very understanding regarding the effects of
the unexplained. A professional, trained
in dealing with the inner workings of the human psyche can be a valuable aid in
coming to terms with contact effects.
However, one needs to be aware of the degree to which the therapist is
open to the phenomenon. Be discerning,
but be open to whatever help they can offer.
Contact trauma often responds well to healing modalities such as
hypnotherapy. The biggest benefit that
this can offer is to help the experiencer to overcome the fear, and to open
their encounters up to the light of understanding - allowing the experiencer to
come to terms with them in his/her own way.
Each of us has our own perceptual filters, and in some cases, some of
the negative post-contact effects may be the result of the subconscious ways in
which the mind perceives an experience.
A particularly meaningful example is a case with which I was involved a
couple of years ago, in which an experiencer had developed a number of fear
reactions subsequent to a series of close encounters. This person had undergone a series of classic
UFO events, clearly remembered close-up UFO sightings and a partially remembered
scenario in which she had been removed from her home by entities. She filed a UFO sighting report with MUFON,
and was interviewed by MUFON field investigators, providing a large amount of
valuable data on these events. In the
process of describing her encounters, she also described a number of cases in
which she found herself fearful of things which in some way reminded her of
them. We conducted a hypnotic regression
in order to help her better understand the these events. However, each time her mind approached
the events, she found herself paralyzed by fear.
During followup hypnotic work, other factors, not directly related to
her experiences, emerged as contributors to her fear reaction. A part of her mind, associated with normal
childhood memories and religious beliefs, perceived the close encounter
phenomenon as evil - a thing to be feared.
In trance, we were able to use a series of hypnotic techniques that
helped her to reduce this fear factor.
This permitted her to get past this obstacle and continue with the
regression. As a result, she was able to
uncover and explore the long and very meaningful series of close encounters
that had permeated her life. With the
new understanding which emerged from these regressions, and her now greatly
reduced levels of fear, she has experienced a wonderful healing that has
continued to grow to this day.
Whatever the true nature of the phenomenon may be, for about one percent
of us close encounters with the unknown are very, very real. And to some, there is a tremendous need for
healing, a resolution of the darker effects of contact. Often this can best be gained by shining the
light of understanding on the stage of their life. And in the light, the experiencer can then
come to terms with the extraordinary events which have both blessed and cursed
them - the wonder and trauma of contact.
