11/10/2009 04:28:52
Waiting...that's what the Christmas story is all about. God bless the two of you. "In His Time" you will be blessed.
Legacy of an Adopted Child
Once there were two women, neither knew the other
One you do not remember, the other you call mother.
One gave you a nationality, the other gave you a name
One gave you the seed of talent, the other gave you an aim.
Two very different lives shaped yours into one
One became your guiding star, the other was your sun.
One gave you emotions, and one calmed your fears
One saw your first sweet smile, the other dried your tears.
The first gave you life, the second taught you to live it.
The first gave you a need for love, the second was there to give it.
One gave you up—it was all that she could do,
The other prayed for a child—God led her straight to you.
And now you ask me through your tears,
The age-old question of all the years,
Heredity or Environment, which are you a product of?
Neither darling, neither ... just two different kinds of Love.
~Unknown
--- Kristi Larson
TRANSRACIAL ADOPTION: Adopting a child of another race
INTERCOUNTRY ADOPTION: Adopting a child from one country by a family of another country
TRANSCULTURAL ADOPTION: Adopting across national, ethnic, and/or racial lines.
~the Whole Life Adoption Book
"All children who need to be looked after outside their own homes, for whatever reason, are children at risk....The people who adopt them are in a unique position to prevent life crises from becoming pathogenic, to prevent separation experiences from developing into deprivation, to provide the kind of upbringing for each child that will make good his past deficiencies."
~Sula Wolff, "Children Under Stress"
NATURAL CHILD: any child who is not artificial
REAL PARENT: any parent who is not imaginary
YOUR OWN CHILD: any child who is not someone else's child
ADOPTED CHILD: a natural child with a real parent, who is all my own
~ Rita Law
"Adoptive families differ only from other families because of the circumstances that brought them together. The needs of adopted children are just like those of children who enter the family by birth. We all need to belong."
~ Family Ties
--- Matthew 25:35,40
--- James 1:27