Marlowe

Marlowe John Knutson . A story

 

Marlowe  John Knutson was born on May 6, 1903 to Nels J. and Jennie Knutson at Lake Preston, South Dakota . At the age of about 3 years old, his parents, along with his older brother and two sisters, moved to a homestead near Moenville, South Dakota. It appears from conversations that this involved a sod house, as it was on the prairie, but later on a wooden house was built. 

I am going to type a story my Aunt Esther wrote dated May 1, 1992 about Marlowe as she remembers living on the homestead  near Moenville . 

"Marlowe’s birthday is coming soon and I am remembering him as the imaginative brother of my childhood.  As you may know Nels and Jennie had 4 children born in the Lake Preston area.  I was the fourth and only a few months old when they moved  “West of the river”. Marlowe was 3 ¾ years older than I and Raymond almost five. Alice was 15 months older than I.

1907

Raymond,5 Marlowe,4

Alice,3 Esther,1

 I remember Raymond as solemn and bossy. Why not ? He had to help from an early age in all ways  including being held responsible in those few times he was left in charge of us. But Marlowe was fun and always knew some interesting thing to do.  He had ready help from Alice and I was a tagalong.  I understand Aunt Nellie (Kopperud) taught school at age 16 (so did my mother). Nellie was Raymond’s first teacher and Marlowe “visited’ school; to learn the alphabet. When we moved to Stanley County (later Haakon county) he was old enough for school probably early so Raymond did not have to walk alone 2 miles across the prairie.

                         ~1909                            

     Marlowe                    Raymond       

Road was a wagon track winding over hills and “draws” or coulees.  No fences nor nearby houses.  I remember we could see Slengas buildings -house, 1 story barns, granary and corrals but from a distance.  There was a wire fence about a quarter of a mile before we reached the schoolhouse.  It stood on a hill and Uncle Nuties place was below the hill farther on. Cattle ran the range and “wild” horses-really range horses some were branded-including mares and colts.  They were no problem but range bulls  frightened us.  Usually we only saw gophers, prairie dog villages with them standing up chattering at us.  Sometimes a coyote skulking around but as afraid of us as I was of them. Aunt Nellie’s permissiveness with Marlowe caused him to have a number of spankings as the teacher “Brownie” Milene wouldn’t tolerate his talking. I don’t think she enjoyed his imagination either. I remember her but she was not my first teacher. We had a new, young teacher named Louella Graham, I believe.  We read about Rose running and her dog Rover.  I  believe Myrtle Knutson (Lakness) was an eager audience and instigator of their activities. Marlowe and she were about the same age.  Alice too was an eager helper.   

I know he was a great reader and adopted ideas from fairy tales to Robin Hood.  My memories are of playing outside- Marlowe, Alice and I and probably Wilfred.  No trees - just dry grass, no flowers except when it had rained.  Some small sage. Occasional cacti-usually pincushion type.  We learned to avoid them as we went barefoot except winter.  The house was on a level hilltop so we were in sight of my mother.  Father worked out a lot. Everyone rode horses but we usually rode in a wagon-kids in the back on a quilt over hay.  All our  water was hauled from Duck’s Pond in a barrel on a stone sled with one horse usually.  There at home was a dug well with a pail pulled up by a pulley - very alkali but used for the animals and washing clothes.  

Maybe you heard about our dog.  Marlowe told us Rover was a hero because once we were playing quite a ways from the house.  Marlowe stepped on a pincushion cactus and it stuck on the bottom of his foot. They  couldn’t get it off so we started for the  house with him crawling on his hands and knees and no doubt bawling.  He wanted Alice and Myrtle to find a stick to poke it off.  No stalk to be found, anyway Rover grabbed it in his mouth and pulled it off. Then he managed to hop home with their help hopping on one foot.  Then there the rattlesnake incident when Alice and Marlowe carried  a bushel basket between themselves and we all picked cow chips for fuel. Wilfred and I and possibly Clarence picked the dry cow chips.  Mother used them for the cook stove.  They gave a quick hot fire, you’d better be sure they were dry though.  Suddenly there was a rattle of a snake already coiled.  I was there too but not too near. They dropped the basket, yelled “Snake” and we all ran for the house.  Mother had been sitting on the doorsill as it was very hot,  She didn’t want a rattlesnake so close to the house so she grabbed a pitchfork  and rake and killed him. I think she pinned him with the fork and pounded his head with the rake handle.  Those women learned to do many things.  Then she retrieved the basket.  

Then we moved to Minnesota when I was 6 and suppose Marlowe was nearly 9 or 10.  Raymond went with Dad on the stock train with livestock to help water and feed them as it took more than a week enroute . So we  kids at Lake Preston saw big houses with upstairs bedrooms and many rooms with big windows and lots of furniture. Marlowe and Alice were a help on the train with six children.  We stayed a couple of weeks partly at Art Kopperuds-Aunt Nellie.  She had Alice (Lossing) and Herbert. What fun it must have been with that houseful to cook for.  Mother was sick in bed for several days.  Judy was about 15 months old and also had a cold.  Brother Arthur was born about 4 months later at Fertile.  He only lived 6 weeks. Grandpa Nels B. Knutson was there too.  I was frightened of stairs but Alice and I had to sleep in his bedroom so I had to go upstairs but took awhile before I could walk upstairs and longer before I could walk down.  Didn’t bother Alice and Marlowe much.  Aunt Nellie let us stand by the table and make little biscuits when she baked bread  but so did my mother.  They had a chandelier in the dining room with glass pendants but the lamp burned kerosene and a heater with isinglass windows where the fire showed through. Aunt Nellie got a kick out if Marlowe saying “Come on kids lets go into the other shack (room)”.  

Life at Fertile was much different from homestead days.  Lots of green grass and a big grove of trees with hazel bush and other underbrush.  Bog branched willow tree to climb.  Big barn with a haymow and wire fences all around. Garden with fresh vegetables.  We had a garden in South Dakota but poor success. It was watered with was water in S.D.  Marlowe and Raymond were good help.  Dad had brought quite a few horses along from S.D. and some other stock. We were there about 2 ½ years before moving to Clearbrook to the farm you remember.  

By the time Judith , Arnold and Norman remembers Marlowe and Raymond were no longer playing. Raymond started to work out about the age 17  but Marlowe had to stay at home on the farm until Wilfred was big enough to take his place.  Some years he was allowed to go North Dakota to work in the harvest fields and potato picking so he met your mother.  I hope this will help you understand Marlowe better.  Aunt Esther sent the handwritten story to Norton Knutson who made copies for Harlan , Sheldon, Arline and Donna.  

The family moved to the farm near Clearbrook on September 1915, where Raymond and Marlowe had to help Nels with considerable woodcutting and the clearing of rocks and stumps. In addition their father would have taught them  how to be carpenters and other trades required to operate a dairy farm.  

  As the younger brothers became older, Marlowe started working out in the summer months. In particular, the harvesting crews of North Dakota, near Hoople and Park River. Returning to the farm during the winter season, he continued to help clear  the land and cut timber,  It was during one of theses winters, he cut off a thumb at the first joint.  He said he tried to find the piece, but no luck. During one of the threshing season in North Dakota, he met Mabel and her sister Ilah, who was a threshing crew cook, in a cook wagon, that  traveled with the crew. It was also during this time that Marlowe worked longer seasons in North Dakota on a farm owned by Henry Jackson, near Hoople. They met while both worked on this farm, where Mabel was the “hired girl” making $5.00 a week.

 

         

On December 21,1926, Marlowe and Mabel Elida Haugland were married in Grafton, North Dakota, at age of 23 and 22 respectively. They returned to Clearbrook, Minnesota and rented a farm, across the road from Nels place. This farm was called the Hedberg’s place, after the owner.  This consisted of 160 acres, with a large house and barn.  They received a cow from Nels as a wedding gift.

 

 

 

Marlowe and Mabel lived on the Hedberg place from 1927 to September 1932, at which time they were  forced to move , as the owner desired to return farming.

Therefore, Marlowe found another farm to rent  about two miles away , called the DeBoer place.

This move involved using a hayrack with a team of horses to move the household effects, with cows tied at the end.  This farm consisted of 120 acres, with a tarpaper covered house and a frame barn with only a rough lumber covering.  The well did not work, so drinking water had to be obtained from neighbors named Kucera. 

This trip to Kucera’s became a happy event, with Marlowe and Mr. Kucera discussing many subjects and the children playing games.  

1933

 At the time of moving to the DeBoer place, 4 children had been born, Norton age 4, Harlan age 3, Sheldon age 1, and Arline only a baby of a few weeks old.  The house was very small. Involving two rooms and a lean to kitchen.  As the kitchen was very cold in the winter, the whole family lived in the two rooms.  In order to keep warm, the house was banked with straw and manure.  Enough cows and horses were in the barn, so that their body heat kept them reasonably warm.  

As the roads were jammed with snow, only horses and sleighs could make the three mile trip to town once  a week to sell cream and obtain the necessary groceries not grown or furnished by the farm.  The mailman made  his rounds with a horse and cutter.

Back: Norman, Wilfred, Marlowe, Nels J.

Front: Norton, Harlan, Sheldon, Arline.  

All of this time the United States was in the depths of the Great Depression. Therefore as the children got older, chores were assigned, first taking care of a younger child, later  gathering the wood for heating and cooking.  Progressively, this involved milking cows with Marlowe, splitting wood  and in the summer getting the  cows home for milking, weeding gardens, hauling water for washing clothes, etc.  When a wooden tub with a hand operated agitator was obtained, the children had operate it,  under the supervision of Mabel.  During the summer months the children all went barefoot,  even though they had to help Mabel in the picking of wild berries throughout the surrounding forest, until school started. 

Weather permitting, in the winter, occasional trips were made to Grandparents (Nels and Jennie).  This was a great experience as some of Marlowe’s brothers were usually home and of course their house seemed big and contained a battery operated radio. During the  summer, including part of spring and fall  we all went to church in Clearbrook, first in a 2 door coupe and later in a car called a “Whippet”.

The school was only  ¾  of a mile away through the woods and was the same one our  uncles and aunts had attended, namely, Dist. 53, Pine Dale.  This one room school covered grades one through eight.  Most of the teachers only served one or two terms before moving on, but our schooling was closely monitored by a County School Superintendent, named Mrs. Mae Barness  and State Boards had to be passed before obtaining an eight grade diploma.

1939

 Because of the Depression, Marlowe had to work in the Dakota harvest. Mabel along with the children, which were now six, namely Dean and Donna had joined the family, had to continue the chores involved with the cows and calves, as well as the horses, pigs and chickens, during his absence.

 

1941

  During the spring of 1941, Marlowe had to rent another farm, as the DeBoer place had been sold.  He located another farm to rent, which was about 3 miles away and was located at the corner of Highway 92 and  the Leonard Road, called the Bexell place.

 

This place had a large house with an unfinished upstairs, but seemed like a mansion compared to what the DeBoer place had been.  Even a good well and barn.  In addition, this place had a raspberry patch which had been planted by the owners along with a large garden.

   

1941

 Marlowe stayed at this place until the fall of 1942, when he took over the farm from his brother Norman.  In the meantime Marlowe continued to work out in order to continue farming and if the opportunity had not arisen for taking over the farm, he would have tried to obtain work in the Defense  Plants in the Twin Cities. 

 

Layout of the Nels J. farm buildings -fall 1942

      

When the move to the farm took place in the fall of 1942, the children were older, namely Norton 14, Harlan 13, Sheldon 11, Arline 10, Dean 6, and Donna 5. With the help of the older children, the additional cows, horses, calves, pigs, etc. a large enough farming enterprise was obtained to enable Marlowe to support the family without doing outside work. 

 Norton had started High School in 1941 and continued on with it.  This meant he was not available to help during the school season, except after school. In the meantime Harlan did not go High School, but stayed on the farm to help Marlowe.  As time progressed Marlowe and Mabel were able to operate the farm alone  as electricity was installed and used to operate machinery needed to run a dairy operation. This in addition to  obtaining a tractor and the means to bale hay instead of the making large haystacks in outlying areas of the farm .  Horses were no longer a part of the operation as the tractor was used to haul  hay, wood and all the field work required for the planting  and harvesting  of grain.

 

                                                                  1950  

During the next thirty years (1942-1972)  Marlowe continued to operate the farm until he  suffered a massive heart attack and died on December 8, 1972.  As none of the son‘s desired to farm  and the farm was not large enough operation during the 1970‘s to support a young family, Mabel sold the farm and retired to Clearbrook, Minnesota, where she continued to live  until she moved to a nursing home in Coon Rapids, Minnesota.  She lived there until her death on September 6, 1987.

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1966

 

 

Favorite place to relax

 

 


  

The children all left the farm at various times as follows:  

Norton

Completed High School in 1945, entered the US Army ,as a draftee, in January 1946 and returned to the farm March 1947.  Helped with farm work until going to work in North Dakota on farms until the spring planting was completed. Returned to the farm for the haying season and left again for the harvest in North Dakota. Started going to the Minnesota School of Business in Minneapolis in September 1947 and only worked on the farm during summer haying season before going to harvest fields in North Dakota.. Returned to the Minnesota School of Business in the fall  of 1948 and did not return to the farm after completing the course in accounting in the first part of June 1949.  


 

Harlan- 

Continued to work on the farm and started working outside on various farms in the  North Dakota. With the start of the Korean War , he enlisted in the AIR Force in 1950.  He served overseas in Munich, Germany, later Bitburg, Germany in the 36th Medical Group of the 36th Fighter Bomber Squadron until October 1954.  During his service time, he had obtained his high school diploma through correspondence courses.  In 1955-1956 he attended the Duluth Business University, while staying with his brother, Norton.  Upon graduation, he attained a  bookkeeping position with a large gas station in Minneapolis, which he later left to take a position with Land O’ Lakes where he continued to work until he retired 1991. Harlan married Donna Mae Storley on October 2,1971.

They have two children named Brian and Brenda.  


 

Sheldon- 

Attended Clearbrook High School and graduated with Arline in 1950.  He enlisted in the Air  Force in 1951  and served overseas in Germany as a heavy duty mechanic.  Upon his return in 1955 he took a job sailing on Ore Boats in and out of Duluth.  He later took courses in mechanics, specializing in heavy duty transmissions .  Upon graduation he obtained a job with Glendenning Motorways for which he worked until the early 1980’s, which went out of business.  He obtained work with other heavy duty trucks requiring his type of experience. He continued with this work until he retired in 1993.  He married Sharon R Ruth (Vannett)   on June 2, 1958 and they have three children, namely :

 Sherry Lynn, David Jon, and Raymond Jerome.  


 

Arline- 

  Attended Clearbrook High School, graduating with top honors in 1950.  She then attended Fairview Hospital in Minneapolis to obtain her nurses training and attained certification as a Registered Nurse. She worked at Fairview and later married Roy G. Bratvold on October 2, 1954.  They moved around during the early days of their marriage, but later settled in Minneapolis, where Arline worked at Unity Hospital in Fridley until she retired in 1994.  They have four children, namely: Mark, Dale, Diane and Wayne.  


 
Dean-

 Attended Clearbrook High School graduating  in 1952.  After graduation he enlisted in the Air Force and served overseas in England until 1956.  He returned to the farm and helped Marlowe  and also worked outside the farm. He later moved to  Montana, where he worked on farms and grain elevators before being employed by Anaconda Smelter in  Great Falls, Montana.  He worked there until it was shut down in 1980.  He married Patricia Enevold on June 10, 1967, and adopted her two children, namely: Gareth and Jamie. They had one child named Dean, who died within a few days after being born on July 7, 1969. Dean suffered a massive heart attack on August 17, 1981 and died immediately.  


 

Donna-

 Attended Clearbrook High School until her marriage to  Bobby Prestebak on April 2, 1954. Two children were born , Gene and Jon.  She later divorced Bobby Prestebak and on June 10, 1961 married James Vig. They had three children namely: Steven, Michael and Sally. Gene and Jon were adopted by James Vig, therefore all have the Vig name. James Vig is a farmer, along with his brother, of a large farm they own together, located near Fosston, Minnesota.  Jim and Donna have retired to a home they purchased in Fosston."  


 

 

 

Edited June 29, 2004                                                        Norton Knutson  November 18, 2002