
Christmas, my family's best holiday
by Hope Gunter
As I grow older, Christmas is the greatest holiday for my
family and me. The powerful feeling of family is never any stronger
than on Christmas Day. The stress of the time between Thanksgiving
and Christmas Eve all seeps away as our children come running
into our bedroom to see if we are awake yet. Even though our children
are teenagers, the tradition doesn't change; Santa is real if
you believe in him.
I've seen our children wake up as early as 5:00 a.m. As our
children awake us, my husband tries to draw out the anticipation
by telling them he needs to take a shower first. After much begging
and grumbling, they agree and the three of us make our way into
the kitchen to bake cinnamon rolls. While my husband is showering,
we are in the kitchen preparing the cinnamon rolls. By the time
he is done, the smell of the gooey sweet cinnamon rolls is drifting
through the house.
As I pull the rolls out of the oven, my daughters are tearing
into the stockings Santa filled while visiting the night before.
Santa always remembers Mom and Dad, too. With the typical candy
and fruit, Santa never forgets the favorite compact disc or perfume.
I believe that this is our daughters' favorite part, although
they would never admit it. Santa also brings one gift for everyone.
It always amazes me how he always knows just what to bring.
Whether it is the beautiful birthstone necklaces for our daughters,
or the brown leather rodeo equipment for my husband or the most
awesome mother's ring for me, Santa's gifts are always the most
thoughtful.
After all the bright, cheerful paper has been torn off the last
of the gifts, the cinnamon rolls are cooled down enough to devour.
By the time our breakfast treat is demolished and all the paper
and gifts put back under the tree, we all rush into our bedrooms
to get ready to travel to my husband's parents' home for brunch
and more gifts.
When we arrive at my in-laws' house in Pinole, we open the door
and the smell of eggs, bacon, biscuits and gravy float to our
noses. Once again, my mother-in-law out did herself. What an
incredible brunch she has made. Of course all of my husband's
family are there, his parents and his sister and her family.
Even though there are only eleven of us, you would think there
were at least twice that many. The living room looks as if Macy's
exploded in it. Cheerfully wrapped Christmas presents are everywhere.
Of course the children's grandparents spoil them rotten. They
also spoil their children. With tons of presents to open, the
fun begins. By the time all the gifts are opened, the room looks
like a cyclone hit it. While the children and dads are straightening
up the room, my mother-in-law, sister-in-law and I start into
the kitchen to arrange the unbelievable brunch on the table.
By now, we are all lying around the living room ready to explode.
Everything is perfect; we are with our family and happy. But
it's not over yet. After relaxing for a while, we are ready to
head back to our house; we will be serving a late Christmas Day
buffet to our next round of family this evening.
By the time we arrive home, we have only a few minutes to prepare
for the next exciting part of the day. My parents and my husband's
grandparents arrive to spend the rest of the day with us. After
more gifts, we watch my favorite movie, "It's a Wonderful
Life". That movie touches a warm and fuzzy spot in my heart
and makes Christmas special by showing what a family's love can
accomplish.
After the movie, my mom and I set the table for our buffet.
We try to keep it simple, as this day is to visit and reminisce,
not to wilt in the kitchen. Our wonderful buffet includes honey-baked
ham, sliced smoked turkey, potato salad, fruit salad, and rolls.
Of course the buffet wouldn't be complete without the dessert:
pie and cool whip or homemade fudge and chocolate chip cookies.
By now, we are all lounging around, ready to fall asleep, but
Christmas Day wouldn't be the same without playing card games
or dominoes. The rest of the evening is spent lovingly fighting
with each other over the games.
As everyone leaves to go home, I can't help but wish the day
had not gone by so fast. It's hard to believe it's over for another
year, but at least I have the memories of the magnificent day
that I spent with my extraordinary family.