Workout #8: Season Finale

I find this image of Cheo and Brian Peeler very comforting. Brian had just told Cheo about a hummingbird that had landed on his hand a few days before Doug's memorial. That little bird represented the memory of Doug. “I’ll probably never find somebody like him in my entire life,” said Brian as he tried to fight the tears. Cheo couldn’t help it and started to cry. He instinctively approached Brian and both men embraced each other.

Brian has a strong personality, and he rubs people the wrong way. But from the very beginning, it was clear he had a lot of heart. Throughout this season, we saw him grow as a human being. I was moved by everything he had to say about Doug.

Jackie Warner and her trainers decided to have a memorial bike ride for Doug, who was passionate about cycling. They made their way to the beach and talked about their beloved friend, Doug Blasdell.

They all had stories tell. Doug was a great friend, a good listener, a gentle soul, and so much more. Even Jesse contributed some wonderful words, which was a pleasant surprise.

Listening to the trainers share their stories and watching the various clips of Doug reminds one of how fleeting life can be. But it also reminds one that life is a gift that should be enjoyed. Happiness is an emotional state that should never be taken for granted. Life doesn’t always make sense, but that shouldn’t stop us from enjoying every minute of it. Although I don’t think Jackie should date an employee, I can understand her desire to be with Rebecca. She seemed happy with Rebecca.

Helping a friend and others in need is another beautiful thing that can bring immense satisfaction to everyone involved. Jesse made every effort to help a friend, and that kind of emotional support is worth so much.

The episode ended on a high note. The Skylab participants had their final weigh-ins, and Jackie proudly announced that the group had done a phenomenal job. Sure, they lost weight, but I think the best reward was showing everyone how hard they were willing to work to achieve a goal. And that’s really what matters the most.

So, life is a journey that has ups and downs. We often complain about the bad and fail to appreciate the good. I think Doug was someone who tried to see the best in everyone and everything. I was very pleased that the producers decided to save the best for last. Doug’s compassion is truly inspirational.

The fine folks at Bravissimo have posted some wonderful pictures of Doug, as well as some very kind words. Click here to read their post.
Labels: Bravo, Celebrities, Gay, Television, Workout

1 Comments:
You are the best at summing up Work Out, Marius. These photos rock. Brian's sadness brought tears to my eyes, and Jesse came way up in my estimation as a result of this episode. I think Bravo did justice to Doug in this final episode.
Ms. Place
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