"Sagging" Attitudes & Behavior
by Marty Smith

(Mr. Danny O'Malia replied to my email about this incident within 48 hours, apologizing and noting that "sagging" has been a problem at that store. A meeting with the store manager had already been scheduled and my email had brought the problem to the top of their agenda. Mr. O'Malia's response, attitude and personal attention is what customers have come to expect from O'Malia's Food Stores... all very much appreciated in a business world that seems to lack common sense and common courtesy.)

Do you know what "sagging" is??? Likely you do...  the fashion among the youth of today that requires showing off one's underwear with the crotch of the outer pants allowed to "sag" down to the knees?  This is a story about two respected grocery store chains, the disgusting attire of a young man and the seemingly apathetic attitude of a customer service representative.

O'Malia's (http://www.omalias.com) has the deserved reputation of being a classy grocery store catering to the comfort and specialty desires of it's customers, offering amenities such as free coffee and carpeted floors. Marsh Supermarkets (http://www.marsh.net) has an equally fine reputation as part of the community and though larger and more generic in nature, the stores and employees are great to do business with.  O'Malia's was recently acquired by Marsh and overall, the merger has been good for the customers. Having written all of that, I was shocked by my experiences at the O'Malia's store on 56th Street in northeast Indianapolis.

Both companies have employee uniforms and dress codes but there was one young man at this store who preferred to make a fashion statement rather than wear the approved attire. My attention was first drawn to him as I saw him carrying two bags of groceries out to a waiting customer's car, walking slowly in small steps as the waist of his pants were sagging almost below his crotch. Since both hands were occupied he couldn't hold his pants up as he walked. After the groceries were loaded into the car, the young man turned to return to the store and as he walked he first pulled up his pants and then put his hand inside of his pants to adjust his boxer shorts beneath the jeans. Up to this point, I had assumed he was the customer's son and not an employee! I personally do NOT want someone who has just had his hands inside of his pants to handle my groceries.

I returned to the store, resolved to bring this to a manager's attention and found a woman in uniform at the customer service desk. I must admit that I was rather harsh when I asked if she was aware that there were out of uniform "thugs" working in her store. I explained that one of the bag boys was "sagging" when she asked what I meant and to my
amazement, she asked which one and commented that they were both "sagging". The second young man, seen in the photo, did have his pants low but was wearing a store uniform with the shirt tucked in and a belt holding up his pants. The young man in the black coat and stocking cap was not even close to being presentable as an employee as the photos show.

The customer service representative was polite but apparently saw little wrong with the young man's attire or his action of putting his hands inside of his pants and then having direct physical contact with customers and product. Yes, she said, she would mention something to the manager...  but her attitude and expression made it clear that she could not understand why I was upset and making a complaint.

I suppose that in the context of larger issues such as winter weather, taxes and the war on terrorism, this episode is of little consequence. Still, it is sad commentary on the prevailing attitudes and general apathy of some when a fine store allows it's customers to be subjected to such disgusting behavior by an employee in blatant contradiction to the store's own rules and policies.

This opinion article was also posted on the IndyStar.com forums...  generating 8 pages of posts!  Click here to read the IndyStar.com forum posts.
There has been some wild feedback from my story and opinions about "sagging" lower on this page. I received this email from a Webring Ringmaster and tried to reply but the Ringmaster doesn't list a reply email address on their Webring profile and Webring Help hasn't responded to my request for a way to contact the Ringmaster.  Maybe the Ringmaster will see my reply here...
-----Original Message-----
From: webring@F.webring-inc.com [mailto:webring@F.webring-inc.com]
Sent: Tuesday, February 10, 2004 1:24 PM
To: crazycatmaninorangehat@comcast.net
Subject: Your site submission to Equal Rights has been denied.

The web site you submitted to Equal Rights Ring has been denied due to the reasons cited below by the RingMaster.

I have visited the page which you submitted, and found your reaction to the boy with the sagging pants to not be in keeping with our theme of equal rights. The boy has the right to dress as he chooses, and the store has the right to employ anyone they want. This ring is dedicated to the preservation of individual rights. In the world which we envision, what one wears and how one looks would not matter at all, and we all would be tolerant of differences in each other. The attitude displayed on the web page in question is an attitude of intolerance.

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My Reply...
The issue presented was NOT the "boy's" equal rights (he is a young man with a job, not a boy)...  the issue I was complaining about was the decline of standards by the company and the apathy of the customer service representative.  It's your ring but please consider this...  what about my equal rights to have clean hands handling the lettuce that I purchase? Yes, the company may hire who they wish but the stated company policy is that employees wear a uniform so why was this employee allowed in contact with customers while disobeying company policy? If you have visited the site recently you will see that that a company executive agrees with my argument. Yes, the young man has the right to dress as he wishes but I simply made the observation that such attire was impairing his job performance and posed a potential health issue. If he wishes to dress that way, please do not handle my groceries. My verbal statements to the customer service representative were intended to shock to make it clear that such attire was incongruous with the other employees so as to appear that in fact someone was posing as an employee. My approach to the "CSR" was the only derogatory aspect or statement in the entire editorial, so why am I being intolerant if I am only presenting issues?
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