Introduction

My name is Bob Carnevali. On January 3rd, 2004, my life was destroyed by the sudden death of my partner, Scott Wagner. We were together for almost 24 years and shared everything together. We built a life for ourselves, and had started to make plans for our future retirement and all the things we would do together. Even now, three weeks later, my mind cannot fully accept the fact that everything is gone. Scott was my soulmate. We had grown so close together, that many times one of us would be thinking of something, and the other would verbalize it.

I searched on the Internet, and found very little for gay men (or women) who has lost their partner. I decided to start this site up to not only offer something to other people, but to also maybe help my healing process along and maybe, just maybe, memorialize Scott.