Hands.
Hands folded,
twiddling the thumbs. Not a positive picture, is it?
Last week, we
focused on the freedom to offer our hands to God in prayer and praise. I hope
you had a chance to experiment over the last week, and I hope today youÕll continue
to feel freedom to offer your hands to God in prayer and praise throughout the
service.
Today, we want to
look at a different way of offering our hands to God. How do we offer the work
of our hands, the work that we do, to God?
ItÕs a challenge,
because weÕre all in such different places.
This passage we
just heard is for people who need a little bit of a kick. Proverbs tells truth
about life: if we donÕt put in effort, if we donÕt work hard, weÕre going to
suffer.
Some of us need
that little kick. We need to be reminded that part of serving God is being
diligent, hard workers.
Some of us are at
the other extreme, and our entire focus is work. Workaholics are sitting next
to you even as we speak. DonÕt look!
Actually, the truth
is that most of the workaholics are at the office or checking e-mail right now.
Others work only
for the rewards it brings; their real focus is the money, the lifestyle, the
reward.
The other thing
that adds to the complexity of this issue is that the work of our hands is much
broader than just the work we do at a job. Those who are retired still have
skills and energy and wisdom to contribute to the world as the work of your
hands, as do those without a job, as do those who stay home with their
children. All of us have work, a calling, something to contribute to the world.
How do we offer that to God?
Would you be
willing to pray a prayer silently right now?
ÒGod, make it clear
to me today what I need to do to better offer my hands to you in my work.Ó
When I think of
working hard, I think of my grandpa.
He lived as if he
were trying to make his life a living example of so much of the book of
Proverbs. [READ Prov. 6: 10-11, 10:4; 12:24, CEV]
As a kid, I
remember being at my grandparentÕs house and finding it a little weird that I
got to stay up later than my grandpa! He always went to bed early, because he
was up at 4:30 every day, heading out early to his job as a mail carrier.
Like so many people
who lived through the depression, he knew the importance of hard work. He LIVED
the post office motto: ÒNeither rain, nor snow, nor sleet, nor hail shall keep
the postmen from their appointed rounds.Ó
The only sick days
my grandpa ever took in 30 years with the postal service were when his appendix
burst and he had to be in the hospital. When he retired, he had so much accrued
sick leave that he could retire a year ahead of schedule! He got this pin,
honoring his 2500 days of sick leave accruedÉand my grandma wrote on it with
pride, Òactually, it was over 2800 daysÓ! [Show it]
He loved his job,
delivering mail on foot to residents near the Rose Garden in San Jose,
California. And the people he brought mail to every day loved him. They gave
him presents at Christmas! When he retired, he got dozens of cards and gifts,
with amazing things written inside. [Show book and read some]
How many of you
have ever given something to your mail carrier? I didnÕt think so!
When I think of
offering my hands to God in prayer, heÕs one of the images that comes to mind.
Working hard, even
sacrificially hard. Enjoying what you do. Making a difference in peopleÕs
lives, no matter what it is that you work at.
HereÕs whatÕs
weird: thatÕs not a common image to strive for in our world anymore. WeÕre sort
of intrigued with slackers. We tend to get annoyed with people who enjoy their
jobs. ItÕs almost a requirement in a social gathering to talk about how hard
work is, how much you donÕt really like it.
If someone does an
assignment and does it well, we often think of them as a brown-noser, or
someone simply trying to impress the boss. Have you noticed this?
And, some of the
places we work actually reward you for NOT working hard.
IÕve mentioned
before that I worked for UPS for a few months in college, working early in the
morning, loading the trucks for delivery.
Worst job IÕve ever
had in my life. I have no idea what itÕs like now, but the whole culture of the
place then made no sense.
I started out
loading three trucks. There was a big conveyor belt in the middle, and as the
packages came down, us loaders would learn which addresses belonged on our
trucks WeÕd put a routing number on it, and load it in the appropriate place on
the appropriate truck.
At first, when I
was learning, I had all kinds of Òblow-bysÓ. Those were the packages that I
SHOULD have picked up and loaded on my truck, but I missed them. They blew past
me, and the loader right below me would pull them off the belt and pile them on
the ground. At first, that pile was huge and daunting.
But I got better. I
mean, I had a reputation to live up to! My grandpa was a mail carrier! Over
time, I got better and better. The Òblow-byÓ pile became miniscule. I had time
to banter and joke with the other loaders. I got confident and proud of how
fast I could work.
Then my manager
came to me.
He began by puffing
up my pride. ÒYouÕre a great worker! We love what youÕre doing! YouÕve picked
it up faster than most!Ó Blah, blah, blah. I felt my chest swelling and my head
getting bigger. Then the bombshell.
ÒYouÕre doing such
a great job, we want to add a fourth truck to your responsibilities. YouÕre
good enough to load 4 trucks!Ó
I smiledÉand then
stopped. My brain started piecing this together.
ÒWait a minute,Ó I
said. ÒJason over there is only loading two trucks. You want him to load two, and me to load four?Ó
ÒWell, JasonÕs
slower. ThatÕs all he can do.Ó
At that moment
Jason popped out of his truck, caught my eye, and grinned, without my manager
noticing a thing.
And I realized
Jason had figured UPS out.
Why work hard? He
did enough to get by, got the same paycheck I did. When they needed to add
another truck, they wouldnÕt give it to him-theyÕd give it to me!
The incentive was
to be a little bit lazy!
IÕm sure many of
you can think of examples in places youÕve worked, examples of subtle and not
so subtle encouragement not to
work hard, not to excel, not to exceed.
The truth is, there
are some parts of our culture that donÕt live up to Proverbs. Working hard
isnÕt always rewarded. If hard work is only done for its external rewards,
weÕll get frustrated because life doesnÕt always work that way.
In a world where
thereÕs a lottery and where IPOÕs can skyrocket in value simply on promise, we
arenÕt always rewarded for hard work.
So thatÕs part of
why our culture doesnÕt really value people like my grandpa as highly as it
used to.
Some of us, and
some of the places we serve and work, could stand to learn from Proverbs and my
grandpa. ThereÕs value in working hard, in sacrificing, in loving what you do.
Some need to learn the value of hard work, even if the rewards for it arenÕt
there.
But then thereÕs
the other side of the coin. Some of us struggle with finding our value only in what we do. We ARE rewarded for our hard work, for
what our hands can accomplish. ItÕs so important to us, that we become addicted
to what we do, unable to stop or find balance. Some of us struggle not with
laziness, but in being a workaholic.
I wouldnÕt say I
fit that image perfectly.
IÕm a weird mix.
IÕm not a ÒType AÓ person. IÕm not driven, and people donÕt tend to make
remarks about how hard of a worker I am. I like to think of myself as relaxed.
But when I look a
little deeper, I see internal battles I face of needing to Òperform,Ó needing
to work hard to find value and acceptance.
A year and a half
ago, I had the privilege of going to the coast for a week in January to the
Center for Personal Growth in Christ. It was a week to unwind and be in GodÕs
presence.
I was surprised to
find that it took me 3 full days to unwind and relax!
I think the key to
offering our hands to God is NOT found simply in the amount of work we do.
ItÕs not just
making sure we work more, or work less, or about getting the hours of work just
right.
I think the key is
in our purpose or our motivation for doing work. To find that in the bible, we
need to move out of Proverbs and to Colossians.
Would you pull out
your worship folder, and join me in reading Col. 3: 16-17? This gets us closer
to the key of offering the work of our hands to God. [READ]
Why are we doing
what weÕre doing, and who are we doing it for?
In some ways, this
is so simple, it feels a little silly saying it. Whatever we do, do it for God,
not people. Be diligent at it. Do the right things for the right reasons, and
you might even find some joy in that!
But everything IÕve
said so far reminds us why it isnÕt silly to say something this simple.
Some of us do what
we do (and remember, IÕm not just talking about what we do for work, but
anything we give our time and energy and talents to)ÉSome of us do what we do
for the rewards it gets us and for the approval of other people.
We make those great
pies for the oohs and aaahs others give us. We become a lawyer because thatÕs
what Dad really wants us to do. We coach the baseball team because people
praise us for giving to kids.
Anytime we do what
we do for other people, we run the risk of having the tables turned on us. The
boss may give you another truck to load, and thatÕs the only way youÕll win his
approval. Somebody else might bake a better tasting pie. You may coach a team
that canÕt win a game if their lives depended on it.
If we can discover
how to do what we do for God, it opens new avenues of thought.
We want to do it
well, even if nobody else notices or cares, because weÕre doing it for the God
who sees everything done in secret.
When we get a right
view of God, this is also incredibly freeing. We donÕt have to win GodÕs
approval! He isnÕt constantly raising the bar of performance for us, waiting to
love us until we make it over some ever-unreachable threshold.
He loves us! He
invites us to join what heÕs doing in the world, and to let our part, the work
of our hands, gain significance by being a part of the infinite significance of
what God is doing in the world.
Imagine the typical
playground scene, where thereÕs the kid who is always picked last for the team
because he or she is so uncoordinated. Picture the team captain, instead,
choosing the last kid first, and with a big smile, saying to the last kid:
ÒHey, I donÕt care how you do. I just really want to hang out with you and have
you on my team!Ó
DonÕt you think
that kid would probably try harder, and perform better, than ever before,
knowing sheÕs loved and wanted and accepted?
ThatÕs the picture
of giving our all for God who loves us, instead of for people who are so
fickle.
Another avenue this
line of thinking opens is fairly obvious: Am I using what I have for God? Are
my gifts and talents being used for the things God wants?
What might change,
if you asked God what heÕd like you to do with the things you love to do?
ItÕs really pretty
simple. Are you and I doing the right things for the right reasons? Offering
the work of our hands to God means doing what God wants us to do, and doing it
for God, not the approval or rewards of others.
In our time of open
worship, think about and listen for the way God is answering the prayer we
prayed earlier:
ÒGod, make it clear
to me today what I need to do to better offer my hands to you in my work.Ó