Think back to your
mailbox over the past several weeks.
What organizations
have asked you for their financial support? What causes have you been asked to
give money to recently, either by mail, e-mail, in person, or by phone? [ASK]
Show and share
mine: World Vision, SamaritanÕs purse, piano, etc.
One reality of the
world we live in, a reality of computers and databases and marketers and
development offices, is this: we have many more organizations to give to, and
many more people asking us to give, than ever before. Who wants to hear more
about giving at church?
The stereotype of
churches and money is not a particularly flattering one.
What are some
things youÕve heard people say about churches and money? What range of
responses come when we talk about giving, money, and churches? [ASK]
So, into that huge
range of responses, I am going to tread. This week and next week, weÕll be
talking about what the New Testament says about financial giving.
It isnÕt easy to
talk about, or to hear.
IÕve been thinking
and praying about this for weeks, and given a lot of time to it this past week.
IÕve looked for a good joke to soften the blow; IÕve wanted to make
disclaimers; IÕve written several different introductions and tried to cover
all the bases.
But I canÕt say it
all. So before we begin, IÕll tell you what I know for sure. IÕll tell you what
process IÕve gone through. And IÕll tell you some reasons you might think IÕm doing this, but IÕm that IÕm really NOT!
I know for sure
that giving and money are an important part of our life with God.
Jesus talked about
money all the time. The bible talks about giving in all kinds of places and in
all kinds of ways, but in every instance it assumes that GodÕs people will
give, willingly, some of what they have to others. Giving and money are an
important part of life with Jesus.
I also know for
sure that a right perspective on giving and money involves the word stewardship.
Talle Malmstrom
said it last week as we asked her about her trip to Nicaragua. She said, about
the money it cost to go on the trip, that ÒitÕs all GodÕs anyway.Ó
Stewardship is the
belief found all through the bible that says every material and financial thing
we have is not our own, but GodÕs. Now, thatÕs a pretty radical thought. It
goes against our economic system of capitalism, which says private ownership is
the key to everything.
Stewardship is the
biblical belief that I donÕt own a single thing. Everything is GodÕs, and I am
a steward of it. I take care of it, on GodÕs behalf. IÕm supposed to be using what God gives me as God
wants it to be used.
If we take the
bible seriously, weÕre the mutual fund manager of all our stuff, working on our
investorÕs behalf, on GodÕs
behalf. WeÕve been given durable power of attorney over a living trust of the
money we have, managing it on behalf of God!
If you and I are
going to be brave enough to follow what the bible says about money and giving,
it will take a willingness to change what we do with what we have. We arenÕt
off the hook if we give God some and do what we want with the rest. Rightly
viewing giving and money from GodÕs perspective means using all we have as God
intends.
Those are the
things I know for sure.
Since itÕs
important to regularly talk about giving and money as a part of our lives with
God, I penciled these two weeks in to the schedule of themes for worship. Then
I started looking at what the New Testament said about giving.
It was a wake up
call! Most of how the New Testament talks about giving isnÕt what we think. The
word ÒtitheÓ, the idea of giving 10% of our money to the church, is not
mentioned. The only time a ÒtenthÓ is
mentioned, itÕs in a negative way about the Pharisees legalism.
Giving in the New
Testament centers around supporting the poor and needy, and around supporting
those who minister in GodÕs church, here and around the world. So today, weÕll
talk about giving to the poor and needy, and next week, about giving as a way
of making ministry happen.
Finally, some
reasons IÕm NOT talking about this, even though some might think I am.
IÕm not trying to
make you feel guilty. IÕm not fund-raising for our church. IÕm not wanting a
bigger salary. IÕm not wanting to build a big empire or institution. I donÕt
want my face plastered on any television near you.
I want us to be
faithful to hear the words in the bible that challenge our selfishness with
money.
I want us to break
the hold that money has on us by learning to give freely and generously. I want
our community to give in ways that tangibly help the poor and needy within our
church and outside of our church, those in our community and around the world.
And next week, I
hope we can change our view of our budget here at NFC, see it less as building
an institution, and see it more as joining together to pool our resources to do
what God asks in our world.
I wonÕt say it all.
I wonÕt get it
perfect. But my prayer is this helps us more faithfully follow Jesus, as
individuals and as a church.
Standing up in
front of people and saying itÕs a good thing to give away money borders on
being ridiculous.
Why give? Why help
other people?
IÕve had to begin
with some assumptions, and itÕs probably good to just get them out in the open.
For me, giving doesnÕt make any sense except to think of it as a way of living
in response to God. It comes out of what the bible says is true: that God gives
us every good gift, including our money and the ability to earn it.
So IÕm speaking
today to people who have made the decision that you want to live like God
intends.
If you havenÕt
given your life to Jesus, then what I say today will simply help you understand
what it means to follow Jesus. You arenÕt being asked to give anything until
you decide following Jesus is what you want to do with your life.
If you follow Jesus
but arenÕt convinced that everything
you have is GodÕs, today and next week might be a little frustrating, because
IÕm assuming that it IS all GodÕs. You can talk with me or others or search the
internet for more thoughts on stewardship and what it means.
LetÕs start by
looking at just some of the many places in the bible that talk about giving.
When Paul talks
about money in his letters, itÕs often when heÕs gathering financial support
for the poor and needy people in the church in Jerusalem. He traveled all over
the Roman empire, and in most of those places, he asked the churches to give
money to support people they had never met and most likely never would meet.
Paul seems to think
that being a part of the family of God means having a responsibility to care
for other members of the family, whether we know them or not. In asking people
to give money to support others, he challenges them to excel in giving as a
mark of how they are living for God. Paul says all kinds of challenging things,
without any disclaimers, without any fear of being seen as a
manipulatorÉwithout even a good joke!
YouÕve heard some
of these verses already earlier in the service, but listen to the strength of
PaulÕs words on giving to those in need:
2 Cor. 8:1-8, NLT
Rom. 12: 6-8, 13;
NLT
Paul doesnÕt mince
words at all when he writes to Timothy about what to teach on giving.
1 Timothy 6:17-19
NLT
ThereÕs utter
confidence that God will provide for what we need. ThereÕs a challenge to those
who might think theyÕve protected themselves by earning a lot of money, asking
us to recognize itÕs God who provides for us.
And these strong
words to use our money to do good take us beyond caring for our brothers and
sisters in GodÕs family. Paul extends it to anyone in the world who is in need.
Paul is echoing JesusÕ love and concern for the poor and needy, JesusÕ love and
concern that led him to teach things like these words found in the book of
Luke:
Luke 14: 12-14 NLT
Luke 18: 18-25 NLT
Our responsibility
to care for each other, especially to care for the poor and needy among us, is
all over the place in the bible. If you use a bible search program or a
concordance and look up words like ÒgivingÓ, and ÒpoorÓÉitÕs overwhelming.
I even learned
something about what Jesus said in Matthew 26: 11. One time people were
critical of a woman who poured expensive perfume on JesusÕ feet, and he said,
ÒThe poor you will always have with you, but you will not always have me.Ó
IÕve heard people
give that as evidence that weÕll never conquer poverty in our world.
IÕve even heard
some use that as a justification for moving the church away from giving to the poor and needy and toward focusing only on Jesus, only on what might be called
Òspiritual things.Ó
JesusÕ words sound a
lot like something from the Old Testament. Perhaps Jesus was hoping to remind
his hearers about Deuteronomy 15:11, which starts very much the same way:
ÒThere will always be some among you who are poor.Ó There will always be poor
among, soÉwhatÕs our responsibility? Let me read the whole of Deuteronomy
15:11: ÒThere will always be some among you who are poor. That is why I am
commanding you to share your resources freely with the poor and with other
Israelites in need.Ó
One of the big
things God wants for us to do with our money is to do something good with it.
He wants us to give it to those in need.
All through these
verses, it doesnÕt matter if people are poor or rich, theyÕre asked to give
something. God doesnÕt measure our giving by amounts. Our gift isnÕt less
important if we ourselves have little. Our gift isnÕt more impressive simply
because it is large. God will take care of our needs, often through other
peopleÕs generosity.
But itÕs all GodÕs
money. What we give is in proportion to what we earn (1 Cor. 16:2), but we all are to give and to share.
WhatÕs hard about
the whole topic of giving really isnÕt understanding what the bible says.
The bible is clear:
what we have is GodÕs, and GodÕs plan is for us to help take care of each other
by giving to those who need it.
WhatÕs hard isnÕt understanding. WhatÕs hard is that the needs in our world truly are
overwhelming. Just in my mailbox alone, there is more need for giving then all
of our combined incomes times 10. You and I know all kinds of individuals who
struggle to make ends meet.
To steal Dawn
ToddÕs words last week, ÒWe canÕt do it allÉbut we can help some.Ó
We can help some, and we are helping. We gave over $7500 to hurricane relief a few
months ago. Every month, people give to our Compassionate Care fund, and that
money is used to help pay gas and electric bills, buy food, help with rentÉitÕs
used to help those within our congregation who are in need.
As a church, we
give each month to FISH, a local agency that gives food and clothing to those in
need. We give to Faith in Action, who coordinate money and time and volunteers
to help the elderly in our community.
Many of you
personally help others in amazing ways.
I know some of you
buy groceries and do laundry for other people in need. Some of you provide
services like plumbing and doctorÕs care and counseling. Some of you have
bought computers and even cars for people whoÕve needed them.
We are a generous
group of people! And, we can learn from each other. IÕd like to give some
examples of things that our church is already doing, examples of things that
individuals are already doing, as practical suggestions for how we might help some even though we canÕt fix it all.
I want to ask you
to write down several simple two word action steps. These are two word phrases
that IÕm hoping spark practical ideas for how we can care for the poor and
needy around the world.
ItÕs not
everything-you can probably come up with others, and I hope you will! You donÕt
have to do them all; but I want to ask if youÕll write them all down and give
God a chance to bring one or two of them to the front of your mind as practical
steps to be taken now to give to the poor and needy.
Ready? Here are the
first two words. ÒCookie JarÓ
Anyone and everyone
in your house can put loose change, extra money, or a certain amount each month
into the jar. And anyone and everyone can use it to give to or buy something
for people you run into who have needs.
We used it at our
house to give groceries to a family we know who need it, and to give scholarship
money for outdoor school last year, among other things. Cookie jar!
ÒCompassionate
CareÓ
This year, our
church has given more than $12,000 to church attenders who need help with rent,
food, or other needs. That money isnÕt in our budget, but only comes when
someone designates a gift to Compassionate Care. You could make a one-time
gift, or regular gifts to compassionate care.
ÒFaith PromiseÓ
Dawn reminded us
last week that our Faith Promise program is money designated specifically for
Missions outside of our regular budget. So many of our missionaries are helping
the poor and needy in tangible ways; the Stanfields at a hospital, the ThomasÕs
planting trees for nutrition, Ann Mansfield at an orphanageÉ
Through Faith
Promise, we can support people we know and love in their work to help the poor
and needy. Next week, weÕll collect the pledges for 2006; the cards are in the
racks in front of you. On any Sunday, any check marked ÒFaith PromiseÓ will go
toward supporting poor and needy around the world.
ÒRemember NhuÓ
Josh Reid, our
youth pastor, as well as several others in his small group, is finding ways to
do something about human trafficking in our world, particularly in the sex
slave trade in Cambodia and Thailand.
Josh will be
visiting those countries in January, with Carl Ralston, who is the founder of
ÒRemember Nhu.Ó ÒRemember NhuÓ is a non profit organization giving physical,
spiritual, educational, and emotional help to victims of the sex slave trade
industry. ItÕs staffed by volunteers, and every dollar goes directly to support
the work there. Josh will need financial support for his trip in January, and
you can also give directly to the organization by marking your check ÒRemember
NhuÓ and placing it in the offering plate any timeÉor up here at the end of the
service.
ÒRight SharingÓ
A Quaker
organization called ÒRight Sharing of World ResourcesÓ gives micro-loans to
poor people, primarily women, around the world, loans which help them start
businesses to support themselves. ItÕs having tremendous results with
relatively small dollar amounts. ÒRight SharingÓ is a way to give, and again,
weÕll get it to the right place if you designate it and put in the offering
plate.
ÒSign upÓ
Giving isnÕt all
about money! You can sign up to volunteer with Love INC or Faith in Action or
Habitat for Humanity here in town, and give your time to help those in need
right around us.
Our own Bob Hampton
has this big idea of our church supporting local ÒExtreme Home MakeoversÓ. He
dreams about plumbers and electricians and people willing to sling a hammer and
paint a wall pooling our resources together to improve the home of someone
really in need in our own community. If you want more information on how to
sign up, use a community card, put your name and what youÕre interested in, and
drop it up here on the pulpit. ÒSign up.Ó
So thereÕs just a
few two word things on a list:
Cookie Jar,
Compassionate Care, Faith Promise, Remember Nhu, Right Sharing, and Sign Up.
Maybe you have something else specifically you want to add to your list. My
hope is that with all of the bible verses and talk about giving today, that
one, practical thing will emerge as a way for you to increase your giving.
HereÕs the last
thing I want to say before we spend some time in GodÕs presence.
You may believe God
wants you to give. You may want to give. You may really, really want to be able
to practically help someone else.
But, youÕre afraid
because you yourself canÕt make ends meet every month.
The scary statistic
right now is that our country has a negative savings rate. When you add us all
up, we are spending more money than we are taking in. Many of us look at our
bank statements, and say, ÒHow, God? I want to. But how?Ó
It is a huge risk
to give when it feels like thereÕs nothing to give.
Can we ask God to
help us take that risk?
Can we ask God to
help us risk giving something at
the beginning of the month, rather than the end? Can we ask God to show us
specifically how and what he would like us to give to help others?
If we take the
risk, we might find amazing ways God provides. If we take the risk at the
beginning of the month, we might find that God is better able to help us say no
to an extra expenditure that we donÕt really need in the middle of the month.
Can we ask God to
help us risk giving something to others?
[Open
Worship]
Closing Prayer from
Dan McCracken
Gregg asked me if I
would give the closing prayer after the sermon. ÒFools rush in . . .Ó—I
actually told him I would do it if I were going to be in town. I expect the
prayer would have taken the form of a personal confession.
I confess, Lord,
that IÕm comfortable with the thing I should be afraid of and afraid of what
should be normal. I use the wrong preposition. IÕm arrogant, self-centered, and
middle class.
I donÕt want to be
arrogant and self-centered, but I do want to be middle class. I like my
comfortable house, new-enough cars, medical insurance, and my retirement
account. IÕm not thinking about giving these up. If you see it different Lord,
you better bring a big stick, a really big stick.
Now about that
self-centered arrogance: I think IÕd like myself better if I were quicker to
think of others. In the background I have a self-interest calculator that
figures: If I do ÒthisÓ then ultimately I will receive Òthat.Ó IÕd like to be less concerned about the balance of
trade.
I work at hiding my
arrogance, but you see right through me. I confess I look down on some people.
Lord, I think I can
handle ministry to the poor. IÕll
give to the canned food drives, IÕll make tax-deductible contributions, and
IÕll talk the talk about helping the needy. But I get scared when I think about
ministry with the poor. IÕm not
sure what that means, but it sounds messy.
Prayer of
Confession by Howard Childers: ÒO
Lord, that we dare confess anything at all to You before our brothers and
sisters here in this church today is proof that we believe that You already
know us as we are; that we believe that You are able to do something about it;
and that we are willing to step from our worlds of pretense, fantasy and
illusion into a kind of Òfacing-up-to-things-as-they-areÓ where You can touch
us, and forgive us, and love us, and accept us and make us new. This is hard,
Lord, but here we are.Ó
Assurance of
Pardon by Kenneth Working: ÒThis
statement is completely reliable and should be universally accepted: Christ
Jesus entered the world to rescue sinners. He personally bore our sins in His
body on the cross, so that we might be dead to sin and be alive to all that is
good. GodÕs mercy never ends. I tell you, in the name of Jesus Christ, we are
forgiven.Ó