"Quotations help us remember the simple yet profound truths that give life perspective and meaning. When it comes to life's most important lessons, we can all use gentle reminders."--Chriswell Freeman
Be Happy
- "Laughter is the shortest thing between two people"--Victor Borge
- "A good laugh makes us better friends with ourselves and everybody around us."--O.S. Marden
- "A good laugh is sunshine in the house."--William Makepeace Thackeray
- "Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face."--Victor Hugo
- "A day without laughter is a day wasted."--Charlie Chaplin
- "I live by this credo: Have a little laugh at life and look around you for happiness instead of sadness. Laughter has always brought me out of unhappy situations. Even in your darkest moment, you usually can find something to laugh about if you try hard enough."--Red Skelton
- "People who laugh actually live longer than those who don't laugh. Few persons realize that health actually varies according to the amount of laughter."--James J. Walsh
- "The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter."--Mark Twain
- "The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us."--Ashley Montagu
- "You'll always find what you look for; so look for Happiness.--Unknown
- "Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action."--Benjamin Disraeli
- "Happiness is a how, not a what; a talent, not an object."--Herman Hesse
- "Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life."--Austin O'Malley
- "Happiness is not a station to arrive at, but a manner of traveling."--Margaret Lee Runbeck
- "Happiness, not in another place, but this place...not for another hour, but this hour..."--Walt Whitman
- "Happiness, at best, is an illusory goal. It is not a destination; it is a manner of traveling. Happiness is not an end in itself. It is a by-product of working, playing, loving, living."--Haim Ginott
- "Happiness is not found at the end of the road, it is experienced along the way. So take not for granted each moment of your life and you will find a reason to be happy each day. Don't worry so much about tomorrow that you forget to live today."--Unknown
- "My happiness is not the means to any end. It is the end."--Ayn Rand
- "A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes."--Hugh Downs
- "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature."--Marcus Aureleus
- "A mind always employed is always happy. This is the true secret, the grand recipe for felicity."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Happiness depends upon ourselves."--Aristotle
- "Joy is not in things; it is in us."--Richard Wagner
- "Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself."--Og Mandino
- "There are hundreds of languages in the world, but a smile speaks them all."--Anonymous
- "In the sphere of material things, giving means being rich. Not he who has much is rich, but he who gives much."--Erich Fromm
- "Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose."--Helen Keller
- "Happiness is a conscious choice, not an automated response."--Mildred Barthel
- "The foolish person seeks happiness in the distance, the wise person grows it under his feet."--James Oppenheim
- "It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness."--Charles H. Spurgeon
- "It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about."--Dale Carnegie
- "No man can tell whether he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has."--Henry Ward Beecher
- "Be thankful for what you have you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Happiness consists not in having, but of being, not of possessing, but of enjoying. It is the warm glow of a heart at peace with itself."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything."--unknown
- "Keep humor alive and you stay alive longer, too."--Kellie Curtiss
- "The most wasted of all days is that on which one has not laughed."--Nicolas Chamfort
- "The kind of humor I like is the thing that makes me laugh for five seconds and think for ten minutes."--William Davis
- "The constitution only gives people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself."--Ben Franklin
- "Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within. It is not what we see and touch or that which others do for us which makes us happy; it is that which we think and feel and do, first for the other fellow and then for ourselves."--Helen Keller
- "Happiness is like a cat. If you try to coax it or call it, it will avoid you. It will never come. But if you pay no attention to it and go about your business, you'll find it rubbing up against your legs and jumping into your lap."--William Bennett
- "Happiness is a butterfly which when pursued is just out of grasp... But if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."--Nathaniel Hawthorne
- "Happiness is not found by searching for it, because you find it only when you realize you already have it."--David Charles
- "My opinion is that you never find happiness until you stop looking for it."--Chuang Tzu
- "Plenty of people miss their share of happiness. Not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it."--William Feather
- "Now and then it's good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy."--Guillaume Apollinaire
- "It is one of the strange ironies of this strange life [that] those who work the hardest, who subject themselves to the strictest discipline, who give up certain pleasurable things in order to achieve a goal, are the happiest people."--Brutus Hamilton
- "Every exit is an entry somewhere else."--Tom Stoppard
- "Smile... It increases your face value!"--Robert Harling
- "Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared."--Buddha
- "Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for yourself. In giving it, you will accumulate a deposit of joy greater than you ever believed possible."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "Happiness is not so much in having as in sharing. We make a living by what we get but we make a life out of what we give."--Norman MacEwan
- "We cannot hold a torch to light another's path without brightening our own."--Ben Sweetland
- "Getters generally don't get happiness; givers get it. You simply give to others a bit of yourself a thoughtful act, a helpful idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart, and put it into the other fellow's mind and heart."--Charles H. Burr
- "The gift of happiness belongs to those who unwrap it."--Andrew Dunbar
- "Someday you will find out that there is far more happiness in another's happiness than in your own. It is something I cannot explain, something within that sends a glow of warmth all through you."--Honore de Balzac
- "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion."--Dalai Lama
- "Wealth consists not in having great possessions but in having few wants."--Esther de Waal
- "Happiness is not having what you want, it's wanting what you have."--Spencer Johnson
- "Happiness does not consist in things themselves but in the relish we have of them...."--Francois, duc de La Rochefoucauld
- "Simply put, you believe that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate. You make yourself unhappy."--Wayne Dyer
- "I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance. People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. Yet true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultivation of altruism, of love and compassion, and elimination of ignorance, selfishness, and greed."--Dalai Lama
- "I think I began learning long ago that those who are happiest are those who do the most for others."--Booker T. Washington
- "You find yourself refreshed in the presence of cheerful people. Why not make an honest effort to confer that pleasure on others? Half the battle is gained if you never allow yourself to say anything gloomy."--Lydia M. Child
- "Cheerfulness: the more it is spent, the more of it remains."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody."--Chinese proverb
- "Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. So long as you can sweeten another's pain, life is not in vain."--Helen Keller
- "Children are a poor man's riches."--English proverb
- "Children have neither a past nor a future. Thus they enjoy the present -- which seldom happens to us."--Jean De La BruyFre
- "Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been."--Mark Twain
- "To show a child what once delighted you, to find the child’s delight added to your own, this is happiness."--J.B. Priestley
- "We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won't need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don't fire cannons to call attention to their shining--they just shine."--Dwight L. Moody
- "It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. I take pleasure from everything I do."--Oprah Winfrey
- "One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats."--Iris Murdoch
- "Declare a happiness day. Do what makes you feel good, useful, and fulfilled. Save unpleasant tasks, difficult people, and negative thoughts for tomorrow."--Unknown
- "The greatest happiness in the world is to make others happy."--Luther Burbank
- "Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people brings happiness."--Rabbi Harold Kushner
- "Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."--Groucho Marx
- "There are two days in the week about which and upon which I never worry. Two carefree days, kept sacredly free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is Yesterday...And the other ... is Tomorrow."--Robert Jones Burdette
- "Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes is certain for those who are friends."--Richard Bach
- "Become a connoisseur of happiness. Hang out with optimistic people. Watch how they respond to life. Ask them what makes them happy."--Unknown
Friends
- "A friend is a gift you give yourself."--Robert Louis Stevenson
- "Hold a true friend with both hands."--Nigerian proverb
- "In my friend, I find a second self."--Isabel Norton
- "We need old friends to help us grow old and new friends to help us stay young."--Lettie Cottin Pogrebin
- "I don't believe that there is any true friendship without a bond of honor, and the honor in friendship is the respect you give the other that she also gives you."--Dorothy Allison
- "Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend."--Albert Camus
- "Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved."--George Sand
- "I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine."--Bruce Lee
- "Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget."--G. Randolf
- "True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable."--Dave Tyson Gentry
- "Good friendships are fragile things and require as much care as any other fragile and precious thing."--Randolph Bourne
- "Good friends are good for your health."--Irwin Sarason, PhD
- "We should not let grass grow on the path of friendship."--Marie Therese Rodet Geoffrin
- "Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together."--Woodrow Wilson
- "The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it's the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friendship."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."--Walter Winchell
- "When you struggle, that's when you realize what you're made of, and that's when you realize what the people around you can do. You learn who you'd want to take with you to a war, and who you'd only want to take to lunch."--Chamique Holdsclaw
- "A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway."--Fr. Jerome Cummings
- "Friendship is one mind in two bodies."--Mencius
- "To be trusted is a greater accomplishment than to be loved."--George MacDonald
- "Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by doubling our joys and dividing our grief."--Joseph Addison
- "The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love."--Hubert Humphrey
- "Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with."--Mark Twain
- "Trouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough."--Dinah Shore
- "Every man rejoices twice when he has a partner in his joy. He who shares tears with us wipes them away. He divides them in two, and he who laughs with us makes the joy double."--Bishop Fulton J. Sheen
- "True friendship brings sunshine to the shade, and shade to the sunshine."--Thomas Burke
- "A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart."--Heather Pryor
- "It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter"--Marlene Dietrich
- "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."--Carl Jung
- "We find comfort among those who agree with us--growth among those who don't."--Frank A. Clark
- "Love, friendship , respect, do not unite people as much as a common hatred from something."--Anton Chekhov
- "Hatred is never anything but fear – if you feared no one, you would hate no one."--Hugh Downs
- "It takes a lot of time, understanding, and trust to gain a close friendship with someone. My friends are my most precious asset."--Erynn Miller
- "A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend."--William Blake
- "You can make more friends in two months by becoming really interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."--Dale Carnegie
- "It seems to me that trying to live without friends is like milking a bear to get cream for your morning coffee. It is a whole lot of trouble, and then not worth much after you get it."--Zora Neale Hurston
- "Choose your socks by their color and your friends by their character, because choosing your socks by their character makes no sense, and neither does choosing your friends by their color."--Unknown
- "When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends."--Japanese Proverb
- "Let us make one point... that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile ... Smile at each other, make time for each other."--Mother Teresa
- "Do you consider time spent with friends and family a luxury or a necessity? No matter how busy you are, make time for those you love. Anything less is shortchanging yourself."--Unknown
- "Empathy is the natural outgrowth of charity...Empathy is not sympathy but understanding and caring. It is the basis of true friendship."--Lynn A. Mickelsen
- "To know another, and to be known by another--that is everything."--Florida Scott-Maxwell
- "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same."--Flavia Weedn
- "Reconnect with someone you love but haven't seen for some time. What you do--brunch, holiday shopping--isn't as important as making sure your attention is undivided while you do it."--Unknown
- "I have learned that to be with those I like is enough."--Walt Whitman
- "The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining."--John F. Kennedy
- "Do you treat your friends as valued commodities? Think of something you can do for each person in your inner circle to show how much you care. It doesn't have to be grand or expensive, just thoughtful."--Unknown
- "The kindest thing you can do for the people you care about is to become a happy, joyous person."--Brian Tracey
- "Value the friends you have while they're around; you never know when they'll be gone."--Darin Gosling
- "Treasure each other in the recognition that we do not know how long we shall have each other."--Joshua Loth Liebman
- "Never shall I forget the times I spent with you; continue to be my friend, as you will always find me yours."--Ludwig van Beethoven
Live Life
- If you don't like the news, go out and make some of your own.
- "The main thing is to make history, not to write it"--Otto Von Bismark
- "It is not the length of life, but depth of life."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "We have no choice of what color we're born or who our parents are or whether we're rich or poor. What we do have is some choice over what we make of our lives once we're here."--Mildred D. Taylor
- "The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time."--James Taylor
- "I'd rather have 30 minutes of wonderful than a whole lifetime of nothing special."--Julia Roberts
- "In health there is freedom. Health is the first of all liberties."--Henri Frederic Amiel
- "Live as if you like yourself, and it may happen."--Marge Piercy
- "All I can say about life is, Oh God, enjoy it!"--Bob Newhart
- "Your work is to discover your world and then with all your heart give yourself to it."--The Buddha
- "You only live once, but if you work it right, once is enough."--Joe E. Lewis
- "It's time to start living the life you've imagined."--Henry James
- "Tomorrow's life is too late. Live today."--Martial
- "Seize the day, put no trust in the morrow! [Carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero.]"--Horace
- "I live in the present. I only remember the past, and anticipate the future. I love to live."--Henry David Thoreau
- "My future starts when I wake up every morning... Every day I find something creative to do with my life."--Miles Davis
- "Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live..."--Dorothy Thompson
- "People living deeply have no fear of death."--Anais Nin
- "It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live."--Marcus Aelius Aurelius
- "Live deep instead of fast."--Henry Seidel Canby
- "Life is good to those who know how to live. I do not ever hope to accumulate great funds of worldly wealth, but I shall accumulate something far more valuable, a store of wonderful memories. When I reach the twilight of life I shall look back and say I'm glad I lived as I did, life has been good to me."--Sigurd F. Olson
- "We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us."--E.M. Forster
- "Live and work but do not forget to play, to have fun in life and really enjoy it."--Eileen Caddy
- "Money is spent and forgotten, while unforgettable memories live on."--Justine Kerfoot
- "No man is rich enough to buy back his past."--Oscar Wilde
- "You should live that the world may be better by your having lived in it."--Clara A. Howard
- "Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create that fact."--William James
- "Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated."--Confucius
- "Think it more satisfactory to live richly than die rich."--Sir Thomas Browne
- "Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today."--James Dean
- "Stuff your eyes with wonder...live as if you'd drop dead in ten seconds. See the world. It's more fantastic than any dream made or paid for in factories."--Ray Bradbury
- "Dare to live the life you have dreamed for yourself. Go forward and make your dreams come true."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler."--Henry David Thoreau
- "Don't let anyone rob you of your imagination, your creativity, or your curiosity. It's your place in the world; it's your life. Go on and do all you can with it, and make it the life you want to live."--Mae Jemison
- "Live so that when your children think of fairness and integrity, they think of you."--H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
- "Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you may still exist, but you have ceased to live."--Mark Twain
- "Live as though it were your last day on earth. Some day you will be right."--Robert Anthony
- "Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever."--Mahatma Gandhi
- "You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when. You can only decide how you're going to live. Now."--Joan Baez
- "In order to live free and happily you must sacrifice boredom. It is not always an easy sacrifice."--Richard Bach
- "The dedicated life is the life worth living. You must give with your whole heart."--Annie Dillard
- "From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life."--Arthur Ashe
- "Life is not what you expect. It's what you don't expect that makes life worth living."--Lauren Cairns
- "I am interested only in stretching myself, on living as fully as I can."--Doris Lessing
- "Remember, life is not what happens to you but what you make of what happens to you. Everyone dies, but not everyone fully lives. Too many people are having "near-life experiences."--Anonymous
- "Life is just a mirror, and what you see out there, you must first see inside of you."--Wally 'Famous' Amos
- "Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out."--Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.
- "I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well."--Diane Ackerman
- "You can't do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth."--H.L. Mencken
- "Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment, because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived."--Captain Jean Luc Picard
- "Don't forget until too late that the business of life is not business, but living."--Bertie Charles Forbes
- "There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up."--John Andrew Holmes
- "Never look down on anybody unless you're helping them up."--Rev. Jesse Jackson
- "A man can't ride your back unless it's bent."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "You're never too old to become younger."--Mae West
- "You will stay young as long as you learn, form new habits and don't mind being contradicted."--Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
- "As you grow older, you'll discover that you have two hands: One for helping yourself, the second for helping others."--Unknown
- "If you can imagine it, you can achieve it. If you can dream it, you can become it."--William Arthur Ward
- "If you can dream it, you can do it."--Walt [Walter Elias] Disney
- "If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want."--Zig Zigler
- "I don't think anything is unrealistic if you believe you can do it."--Richard L. Evans
- "Look, there are no shortcuts in golf, and there are no shortcuts in life. You have to work for it. Dream big and keep your dreams for yourself. Because the dreams that you have are those things that separate you from others. If you give up your dream, you give up hope. And without hope, you are nothing."--Tiger Woods
- "When a dream takes hold of you, what can you do? You can run with it, let it run your life, or let it go and think for the rest of your life about what might have been."--Patch Adams
- "We know what we are, but know not what we may be."--William Shakespeare
- "It's never too late to become what you might have been."--George Elliot
- "We cannot tear out a single page of our life, but we can throw the whole book in the fire."--George Sand
- "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."--Albert Einstein
- "Each of my days are miracles. I won't waste my day; I won't throw away miracle."--Kelley Vicstrom
- "Yesterday is a dream, tomorrow but a vision. But today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness, and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Look well, therefore to this day."--Sanskrit Proverb
- "Vision is where tomorrow begins, for it expresses what you and others who share the vision will be working hard to create. Since most people don't take the time to think systematically about the future, those who do, and who base their strategies and actions on their visions, have inordinate power to shape the future."--Burt Nanus
- "Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday."--John Wayne
- "Do the right thing. It will gratify some people and astonish the rest."--Mark Twain
- "Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive."--Harold Whitman
- "Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance toward the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vantage point. Climb slowly, steadily, enjoying each passing moment; and the view from the summit will serve as a fitting climax for the journey."--Harold B. Melchart
- "It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end."--Ursula K. LeGuin
- "Enjoy the journey, enjoy ever moment, and quit worrying about winning and losing."--Matt Biondi
- "When you were born you alone cried, and everybody else was happy. So live that when you die, you alone are happy, and everybody else is crying."--Unknown
- "There'll be two dates on your tombstone and all your friends will read 'em. But all that's gonna matter is that little dash between 'em."--Kevin Welch
- "Do not seek death. Death will find you. But seek the road which makes death a fulfillment."--Dag Hammarskjöld
- "Live your life so that when you come to die, even the undertaker will be sorry."--Mark Twain
- "If I should die...I have left no immortal work behind me -- nothing to make my friends proud of my memory -- but I have loved the principle of beauty in all things, and if I had had time I would have made myself remembered."--John Keats
- "And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."--Unknown
- "If you aren't happy, you aren't really living. People say you should judge whether or not you're alive by whether or not you're breathing, but I disagree with that. I think, in order to judge if you are truly alive, you must look at the moments in your life that have taken your breath away."--Michele Metych
- "Living in the moment means letting go of the past and not waiting for the future. It means living your life consciously, aware that each moment you breathe is a gift."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Worry not that no one knows of you; seek to be worth knowing."--Confucius
- "Develop your willpower so that you can make yourself do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not."--Brian Tracy
- "Life consists of problems, living is solving those problems. You should live life to its fullest and never look back on the past."--Unknown
- "All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Chaos often breeds life, when order breeds habit."--Henry Brooks Adams
- "Never run away from the past, face it and learn from it."--Irene Mecchi, Jonathan Roberts, and Linda Woolverton
- "You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Danger -- if you meet it promptly and without flinching -- you will reduce the danger by half. Never run away from anything. Never!"--Winston Churchill
- "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it."--George Santayana
- "You can never plan the future by the past."--Edmund Burke
- "I suppose real old age begins when one looks backward rather than forward."--May Sarton
- "Just remember, once you're over the hill you begin to pick up speed."--Charles M. Schulz
- "At every occasion in your life, do not forget to commune with yourself and ask of yourself how you can profit by it."--Epictetus
- "Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got a hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it onto future generations."--George Bernard Shaw
- "I was in darkness, but I took three steps and found myself in paradise. The first step was a good thought, the second, a good word; and the third, a good deed."--Nietzche
- "With every deed you are sowing a seed, though the harvest you may not see."--Ella Wheeler Wilcox
- "One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon, instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today."--Dale Carnegie
- "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop every now and then and look around, you could miss it."--Ferris Beuler
- "Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way."--Unknown
- "Slow down and enjoy life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast - you also miss the sense of where you are going and why."--Eddie Canto
- "One doesn't recognize the really important moments in one's life until it's too late."--Agatha Christie
- "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give."--Winston Churchill
- "Who will, can; Who tries, does; and Who loves, lives."--Anne McCaffrey
- "Live all you can; it's a mistake not to. It doesn't much matter what you do in particular, so long as you have had your life. If you haven't had that, what have you had?"--Henry James
- "Our life is what our thoughts make of it."--Marcus Aurelius
- "The one person who most blocks you from a full, happy, and successful life is you. He is therefore wise who makes himself an asset. We can be our own worst enemy or best friend. We can be a source of trouble or a cure for trouble. So if you feel empty, as many do, start by getting free from yourself as a first stop to vibrant living."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "Think excitement, talk excitement, act out excitement, and you are bound to become an excited person. Life will take on a new zest, deeper interest and greater meaning. You can think, talk and act yourself into dullness or into monotony or into unhappiness. By the same process you can build up inspiration, excitement and surging depth of joy."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "Without death, our lives would have no meaning. Death frames our end for us and also puts a value on things."--Richard J. Leider and David A. Shapiro
- "What you give becomes an investment that will return to you multiplied at some point in the future."--Jim Rohn
- "Paint a portrait of life to be proud of that could not be sold for all the money on earth. Hang that portrait in your mind and understand its ever presence. Reflect on every brush stroke that makes all the mountains and valleys and rivers and skies the most beautiful in the land. Share your portrait with others but beware their brushes. Select only those whose brush will add to the beauty and structure of your masterpiece."--Chris Ensor
- "You have a masterpiece inside you, you know. One unlike any that has ever been created, or ever will be. If you go to your grave without painting your masterpiece, it will not get painted. No one else can paint it. Only you."--Gordon MacKenzie
- "Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be."--Marsha Petrie Sue
- "If you want your life to be a magnificent story, then begin by realizing that you are the author and every day you have the opportunity to write a new page."--Mark Houlahan
- "Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things."--Antonio Smith
- "Think big thoughts, but relish small pleasures."--H. Jackson Browne, Jr.
- "Life is made up of small pleasures. Happiness is made up of those tiny successes the big ones come too infrequently. If you don't have all of those zillions of tiny successes, the big ones don't mean anything."--Norman Lear
- "You're only here for a short visit. Don't hurry. Don't worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way."--Walter C Hagen
- "Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything."--Mary Hemingway
- "You don't get ulcers from what you eat. You get them from what's eating you."--Vicki Baum
- "It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped."--Anthony Robbins
- "Sooner or later we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip."--Robert J. Hastings
- "Nothing in life is so hard that you can't make it easier by the way you take it."--Ellen Glasgow
- "Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it."--Ben Franklin
- "And life is what we make it, always has been and always will be."--Grandma Moses
- "Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans."--John Lennon
- "Make your life a mission - not an intermission."--Arnold H. Glasgow
- "It all comes down to one very simple choice... Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'."--Andy Dufrain, "The Shawshank Redemption"
- "If we take care of the minutes, the years will take care of themselves."--Ben Franklin
- "Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint on it you can."--Danny Kaye
- "Life does not accommodate you, it shatters you... Every seed destroys its container or else there would be no fruition."--Florida Scott-Maxwell
- "Most people are so busy knocking themselves out trying to do everything they think they should do, they never get around to what they want to do."--Kathleen Winsor
- "If standard of living is our major objective, quality of life almost never improves, but if quality of life is your number one objective, your standard of living almost always improves."--Zig Ziglar
- "Be true to your work, your word, and your friend."--Henry David Thoreau
- "Your whole life is a rehearsal for the moment you are in now"--Judith Malina
- "The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes"--Frank Lloyd Wright
- "You know that old joke about the guy who lives to be 104? The punch line goes something like 'If I knew I was gonna get this old, I'd have taken much better care of myself.' Well, guess what? We actually are living longer, and the time to start taking care of ourselves is right this minute."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live."--Jim Rohn
- "No one can listen to your body for you. To grow and heal, you have to take responsibility for listening to it yourself."--Jon Kabat-Zinn
- "The will to change begins in the body, not in the mind."--Adrienne Rich
- "Have regular hours for work and play; make each day both useful and pleasant, and prove that you understand the worth of time by employing it well. Then youth will be delightful, old age will bring few regrets, and life will become a beautiful success."--Louisa May Alcott
- "Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame."--Erica Jong
- "Write your '10 things to do before I die' list. When you have a free hour a day--or week's vacation--you can check off an item."--Unknown
- "Committing to a lifetime of wellness is not a luxury--it's a necessity. You'll never have enough time; you have to make the time."--Oprah Winfrey
- "The first law of dietetics seems to be if it tastes good, its bad for you."--Isaac Asimov
- "Those who think they have not time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness."--Edward Stanley
- "You complain that you don't have the time to exercise, and that's fine. But just do one sit-up. While you're down there, do 29 more."--Unknown
- "Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise."--Benjamin Franklin
- "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives."--Annie Dillard
Self
- "Each person must live their life as a model for others."--Rosa Lee Parks
- "Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are."--John Wooden
- "To the world you may be just one person, but to one person, you are the world."--Unknown
- "Know yourself, like yourself, be yourself."--Chuck Swindoll
- "Be spontaneous, be truthful, be free, and thus be individuals!"--Lydia Maria Child
- "Whatever you are, be a good one."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Those who stand for nothing fall for anything."--Alexander Hamilton
- "It's important that people should know what you stand for. It's equally important that they know what you won't stand for."--Mary H. Waldrip
- "If you stand up and be counted, from time to time you may get yourself knocked down. But remember this: A man flattened by an opponent can get up again. A man flattened by conformity stays down for good."--Thomas J. Watson, Jr.
- "In matters of style, swim with the current, In matters of principle, stand like a rock."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Here I stand, I could not do otherwise."--Martin Luther
- "The true value of a human being is determined primarily by how he has attained liberation from the self."--Albert Einstein
- "I'm not concerned with your liking or disliking me. All I ask is that you respect me as a human being."--Jackie Robinson
- "I know that I am more than my personality, my body, and my body image."--Oprah Winfrey
- "To love one's self is the beginning of a life-long romance."--Oscar Wilde
- "If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself."--Barbara de Angelis
- "Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it."--Dr. M. Scott Peck
- "Don't be afraid if things seem difficult in the beginning. That's only the initial impression. The important thing is not to retreat; you have to master yourself."--Olga Korbut
- "The greatest of all faults is to be conscious of none."--Thomas Carlyle
- "There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving and that is your own self."--Aldous Huxley
- "There's always room for improvement, you know--it's the biggest room in the house."--Louise Heath Leber
- "Our lives improve only when we take chances -- and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves."--Walter Anderson
- "If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about others."--Virginia Woolf
- "Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive -- the risk to be alive and express what we really are."--Don Miguel Ruiz
- "The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind."--William James
- "I am a big believer in the 'mirror test.' All that matters is if you can look in the mirror and honestly tell the person you see there, that you've done your best."--John McKay
- "How desperately difficult it is to be honest with oneself. It is much easier to be honest with other people."--Edward White Benson
- "I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is the victory over self."--Aristotle
- "It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves."--Sir Edmund Hillary
- "The experienced mountain climber is not intimidated by a mountain--he is inspired by it. The persistent winner is not discouraged by a problem--he is challenged by it. Mountains are created to be conquered; adversities are designed to be defeated; problems are sent to be solved. It is better to master one mountain than a thousand foothills."--William Arthur Ward
- "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough."--Frank Crane
- "I always prefer to believe the best of everybody – it saves so much trouble."--Joseph Rudyard Kipling
- "You never find yourself until you face the truth."--Pearl Bailey
- "A man who lies to himself, and believes his own lies, becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in anyone else, and he ends up losing respect for himself and for others."--Fyodor Mikhaylovich Dostoyevsky
- "To thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou can’t not then be false to any man."--William Shakespeare
- "You can be true to the character all you want but you've got to go home with yourself."--Julia Roberts
- "Winning takes talent, to repeat takes character."--John Wooden
- "Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open."--Elmer G. Letterman
- "You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one."--James A. Froude
- "Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Every man is the builder of a temple, called his body...."--Henry David Thoreau
- "If any thing is sacred the human body is sacred."--Walt Whitman
- "You grow up the day you have your first real laugh -- at yourself."--Ethel Barrymore
- "He that loseth his honesty hath nothing else to lose."--John Lyly
- "It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are."--Roy Disney
- "Whenever anyone has offended me, I try to raise my soul so high that the offense cannot reach it."--Rene Descartes
- "You can outdistance that which is running after you, but not what is running inside you."--Rwandan proverb
- "You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire Universe, deserve your love and affection."--Buddha
- "I have learned silence from the talkative; tolerance from the intolerant and kindness from the unkind. I should not be ungrateful to those teachers."--Kahlil Gibran
- "Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power. If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich."--Tao Te Ching
- "Understanding is knowing what to do; wisdom is knowing what to do next; virtue is actually doing it."--Tristan Gylberd
- "Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance."--Confucius
- "There is only one good -- knowledge; and only one evil -- ignorance."--Socrates
- "Like water which can clearly mirror the sky and the trees only so long as its surface is undisturbed, the mind can only reflect the true image of the Self when it is tranquil and wholly relaxed."--Indra Devi
- "If it is peace you want, seek to change yourself, not other people. It is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to carpet the whole of the earth."--Anthony de Mello
- "It comes down to this: What kind of father are you? What kind of husband are you? What kind of coach or teammate are you? What kind of son are you? What kind of friend are you? Success comes in terms of relationships."--Joe Erhmann
- "Develop a cause beyond yourself. Try to leave the world a better place because you were here."--Joe Erhmann
- "At the end of our life, we ought to be able to look back over it from our deathbed and know somehow the world is a better place because we lived, we loved, we were other-centered, other-focused."--Joe Erhmann
- "Clothes and manners do not make the man; but when he is made, they greatly improve his appearance."--Henry Ward Beecher
Integrity
- "Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody's going to know whether you did it or not."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got."--Janis Joplin
- "Nothing happens until you decide."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Your gut is your inner compass."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Conscience is a man's compass."--Vincent Van Gogh
- "Wherever you go, go with all your heart."--Confucius
- "Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself."--Henry Ward Beecher
- "If you have integrity, nothing else matters. If you don't have integrity, nothing else matters."--Alan Simpson
- "Real confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself--your strengths and your limitations--in contrast to depending on affirmation from others."--Judith M. Bardwick
- "It is better to be defeated on principle than to win on lies."--Arthur Calwell
- "Keep true, never be ashamed of doing right, decide on what you think is right and stick to it."--George Eliot
- "If a man does his best, what else is there?"--General George S. Patton
- "Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "No bird soars too high if he soars with his own wings."--William Blake
- "The time is always right to do what is right."--Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "The first thing is to love your sport. Never do it to please someone else. It has to be yours."--Peggy Fleming
- "You have enemies? Good! It means you've stood up for something at least once in your life."--Anon
- "They're certainly entitled to think that, and they're entitled to full respect for their opinions, but before I can live with other folks I've got to live with myself. The one thing that doesn't abide by majority rule is a person's conscience."--Harper Lee (Atticus)
- "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."--Bill Cosby
- "Know when to tune out. If you listen to too much advice, you may wind up making other people's mistakes."--Ann Landers
- "Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value."--Albert Einstein
- "I should love to satisfy all, if I possibly can; but in trying to satisfy all, I may be able to satisfy none. I have, therefore, arrived at the conclusion that the best course is to satisfy one's own conscience and leave the world to form its own judgment, favorable or otherwise."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- "The goal of compassion is not to care because someone is like us but to care because they are themselves."--Mary Lou Randour
- "Best be yourself, imperial, plain and true!"--Elizabeth Barret Browning
- "Our greatest responsibility is to be good ancestors."--Jonas Salk
- "Self-confidence is so relaxing. There is no strain or stress when one is self-confident. Our lack of self-confidence comes from trying to be someone we aren't."--Anne Wilson Schaef
- "Self-confidence is a good thing to develop, after you are sure you have something to be confident about."--Fred Van Amburgh
- "To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, - that is genius."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you?"--Fanny Brice
- "Be careful what you pretend to be because you are what you pretend to be."--Kurt Vonnegut
- "If all flowers wanted to be roses, nature would lose her springtime beauty, and the fields would no longer be decked out with little wildflowers."--Saint Therese of Lisieux
- "Originality does not consist in saying what no one has ever said before, but in saying what you think yourself."--James Stephens
- "Originality is unexplored territory. You get there by carrying a canoe--you can't take a taxi."--Alan Alda
- "Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of someone else."--Judy Garland
- "It doesn't matter what you believe just so long as you're sincere."--Charles M. Schulz
- "Defining myself, as opposed to being defined by others, is one of the most difficult challenges I face."--Carol Mosely-Braun
- "They will say you are on the wrong road, if it is your own."--Antonio Porchi
- "Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "You will make a lousy anybody else, but you will be the best "you" in existence."--Zig Ziglar
- "Some people will like me and some won't. So I might as well be myself, and then at least I'll know that the people who like me, like me."--Hugh Prather
- "We must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define us."--Virginia Satir
- "When thinking about the future, make sure you're not trying to fulfill someone else's dreams. You're more likely to succeed if you stick to your own agenda."--Unknown
- "A great thing about getting older is getting your priorities straight. You can stop tap-dancing to everybody else's tune and focus on perfecting your own routine."--Unknown
- "In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place."--Gandhi
- "Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Words may show a man's wit, but actions his meaning."--Benjamin Franklin
- "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not."--Andre Gide
- "When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you."--Lao Tzu
- "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Theodor Seuss Geisel, "Dr. Seuss"
- "I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence."--Frederick Douglass
- "Whatever games are played with us, we must play no games with ourselves, but deal in our privacy with the last honesty and truth."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "The most common sort of lie is the one uttered to one's self."--Friedrich Nietzsche
- "The heart has its reasons which reason does not know."--Blaise Pascal
- "The heart is wiser than the intellect."--Josiah Holland
- "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye."--Antoine de Saint-Exupery
- "One learns people through the heart, not the eyes or the intellect."--Mark Twain
- "Reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never does."--Josh Billings
- "The voice of conscience is so delicate that it is easy to stifle it; but it is also so clear that it is impossible to mistake it."--Madame De Stael
- "What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Others can give you a name or a number, but they can never tell you who you really are. That is something you yourself can only discover from within."--Thomas Merton
- "The true perfection of man lies, not in what man has, but in what man is....Nothing should be able to harm a man but himself....What is outside of him should be a matter of no importance."--Oscar Wilde
- "We get so caught up in what a man isn't. It's what he is that counts."--Gloria Naylor
- "It is funny about life: if you refuse to accept anything but the very best you will very often get it."--W. Somerset Maugham
- "As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live."--Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
- "And virtue, though in rags, will keep you warm."--John Drylan
- "If you look into your own heart, and you find nothing wrong there, what is there to worry about? What is there to fear?"--Confucius
- "See, you don't have to think about doing the right thing. If you're for the right thing, then you do it without thinking."--Maya Angelou
- "Failures are divided into two classes: Those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought."--John Charles Salak
- "The pendulum of the mind alternates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong."--Carl Jung
- "Success follows doing what you want to do. There is no other way to be successful."--Malcolm Forbes
- "If you always do what interests you, then at least one person is pleased."--Katharine Hepburn
- "We will always tend to fulfill our own expectation of ourselves."--Brian Tracy
- "Success is that peace of mind that comes from knowing you've done everything in your power to become the very best you're capable of becoming."--John Wooden
- "Naturalness is the easiest thing in the world to acquire, if you will forget yourself - forget about the impression you are trying to make."--Dale Carnegie
- "Cowardice asks the question, "Is it safe?" Expediency asks the question, "Is it politic?" Vanity asks the question, "Is it popular?" But, conscience asks the question, "Is it right?" And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but one must take it because one's conscience tells one that it is right."--Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, even if I have said it - unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense."--Buddha
- "The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within--strength, courage, dignity."--Ruby Dee
- "Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lies comes to such a pass that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, around him, and so loses all respect for himself and others."--Fyodor Doestoyevsky
- "A man should never be ashamed to own that he is wrong, which is but saying in other words that he is wiser today than he was yesterday."--Alexander Pope
- "Better to die ten thousand deaths than wound my honor."--Joseph Addison
- "It is always easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them."--Alfred Adler
- "When you know who you are and what you stand for, you stand in wisdom."--Oprah Winfrey
Self-Esteem
- "Show me someone without an ego, and I'll show you a loser."--Donald Trump
- "You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can be a victor without having victims."--Harriet Woods
- "Self-esteem must be earned! When you dare to dream, dare to follow that dream, dare to suffer through the pain, sacrifice, self-doubts, and friction from the world, you will genuinely impress yourself."--Dr. Laura Schlessinger
- "Whoever you are, there is some younger person who thinks you are perfect. There is some work that will never be done if you don't do it. There is someone who would miss you if you were gone. There is a place that you alone can fill."--Jacob M. Braude
- "Be good at something, good enough so that you can take quiet pride in knowing that you are a valuable person, that you can do at least one thing well."--David H. Campbell, Jr
- "I’ve learned that the important thing is to know that you’ve tried your very hardest, gave 100 percent on every play."--George Rogers
- "It's lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believe in myself."--Muhammad Ali
- "[W]e must believe in ourselves or no one else will believe in us; we must match our aspirations with the competence, courage and determination to succeed."--Rosalyn Sussman Yalow
- "You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them."--Michael Jordan
- "I was thought to be 'stuck up.' I wasn't. I was just sure of myself. This is and always has been an unforgivable quality to the unsure."--Bette Davis
- "The first great step is to like yourself enough to pick someone who likes you, too."--Jane O'Reilly
- "The longest journey is the journey inwards of him who has chosen his destiny."--Dag Hammarskjold
Attitude
- "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain."--Maya Angelou
- "The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to that person's commitment to excellence, regardless of the chosen field of endeavor."--Vince Lombardi
- "It's not enough to be good if you have the ability to be better."--Alberta Lee Cox
- "Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better."--Jim Rohn
- "Whatever you attempt, go at it with spirit. Put some in!"--David Starr Jordan
- "You must first be a believer before you can be an achiever."--Vernon McClellan
- "To be a champ you have to believe in yourself when nobody else will."--Sugar Ray Robinson
- "I don't think I can play any other way but all out. I enjoy the game so much because I'm putting so much into it."--George Brett
- "To help me stay positively charged I will.... Practice maintaining a positive attitude each day."--unknown
- "A positive mental attitude combined with definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all worthwhile achievement."--Napoleon Hill
- "Of all the virtues we can learn, no trait is more useful, more essential for survival, and more likely to improve the quality of life than the ability to transform adversity into an enjoyable challenge."--Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
- "If you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right!"--Henry Ford
- "There is no such thing as can't, only won't. If you're qualified, all it takes is a burning desire to accomplish, to make a change. Go forward, go backward. whatever it takes."--Jan Ashford
- "It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen."--Claude M. Bristol
- "The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today."--H. Jackson Brown
- "Remember that the only time you really lose is when you're not giving it 100 percent."--H. Jackson Brown
- "Optimism is an intellectual choice."--Diana Schneider
- "Optimism is the that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence."--Helen Keller
- "Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence."--Vince Lombardi
- "Is it any coincidence then that the most incredibly successful people have the most confident and positive attitudes? Many people think that positive attitude is a by-product of having achieved wealth and success. In my experience I have found that this attitude was more often the reason for and not the result of success."--Mark A. Crouch
- Brian Tracy
- "A positive attitude won't let you do anything. But it will let you do everything better than a negative attitude will."--Zig Ziglar
- "Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will."--Zig Zigler
- "Positive thinking won't let you do anything but it will let you do everything better than negative thinking will."--Zig Ziglar
- "You can think negatively or positively. If you are a positive thinker, you will base your decisions on faith rather than fear."--Robert H. Shuller
- "Believe it is possible to solve your problem. Tremendous things happen to the believer. So believe the answer will come. It will."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all--he's walking on them."--D. O. Glynn
- "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."--Sir Winston Churchill
- "No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit."--Helen Keller
- "I am convinced that attitude is the key to success or failure in almost any of life's endeavors. Your attitude - your perspective, your outlook, how you feel about yourself, how you feel about other people - determines your priorities, your actions, your values. Your attitude determines how you interact with other people and how you interact with yourself."--Carolyn Warner
- "'I can't do it' never yet accomplished anything. 'I will try' has performed miracles."--George P. Burnham
- "It is no use saying, 'We are doing our best.' You have got to succeed in doing what is necessary."--Winston Churchill
- "Why did the achievers overcome problems while thousands are overwhelmed by theirs? They refused to hold on to the common excuses for failure. They turned their stumbling blocks into stepping stones. They realized that they couldn’t determine every circumstance in life but they could determine their choice of attitude towards every circumstance."--John Maxwell
- "People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing."--Dale Carnegie
- "A great attitude does much more than turn on the lights in our worlds, it seems to magically connect us to all sorts of serendipitous opportunities that were somehow absent before the change."--Earl Nightingale
- "The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our disposition and not our circumstances."--Martha Washington
- "It is the mind that maketh good or ill, that maketh wretch or happy, rich or poor."--Edmund Spenser
- "The mind, properly controlled, can do just about everything. You can think your way through adversity, you can think your way through problems. It is a superpowerful instrument which so few use to maximum. And if the mind thinks with a believing attitude one can do amazing things."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "We can do anything we want to if we stick to it long enough."--Helen Keller
- "Ask yourself, 'How long am I going to work to make my dreams come true?' I suggest you answer, 'As long as it takes.'"--Jim Rohn
- "How long should you try? Until."--Jim Rohn
- "Work and play are words used to describe the same thing under differing conditions."--Mark Twain
- "No person who is enthusiastic about his work has anything to fear from life. All the opportunities in the world are waiting to be grasped by people who are in love with what they're doing."--Samuel Goldwyn
- "You can do anything if you have enthusiasm."--Henry Ford
- "They can because they think they can."--Virgil
- "Life's battles don't always go to the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the man who wins, is the man who thinks he can."--Vince Lombardi
- "To win, I have to get angry. My anger is directed at the course, at attacking it and beating it."--Ingemar Stenmark
- "If you think you can win, you can win. Faith is necessary to victory."--William Hazlitt
- "There's always the motivation of wanting to win. Everybody has that. But a champion needs, in his attitude, a motivation above and beyond winning."--Pat Riley
- "In war there is no substitute for victory."--Gen. Douglas McArthur
- "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "The most potent weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed."--Steve Biko
- "The greatest weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed."--Steve Biko
- "The habit of looking on the best side of every event is worth more than a thousand pounds a year."--Samuel Johnson
- "So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done."--Marian Wright Edelman
- "You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day."--Marian Wright Edelman
- "There is no such thing in anyone's life as an unimportant day."--Alexander Woolcott
- "The attitudes of your friends are like the buttons on an elevator. They will either take you up or they will take you down."--Alexander Lockhart
- "Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude."--Timothy Bentley
- "Never think of the consequences of failing, you will always think of a negative result. Think only positive thoughts and your mind will gravitate towards those thoughts!"--Michael Jordan
- "A positive mind has extra solving power."--Alexander Lockhart
- "When people are highly motivated, it's easy to accomplish the impossible. And when they're not, it's impossible to accomplish the easy."--Bob Collings
- "The secret of discipline is motivation. When a man is sufficiently motivated, discipline will take care of itself."--Sir Alexander Paterson
- "Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it."--Lou Holtz
- "Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going."--Jim Ryun
- "Motivation gets you going and habit get you there. Make motivation a habit and you will get thee more quickly and have more fun on the trip."--Zig Ziglar
- "Enthusiasm is the element of success in everything. It is the light that leads and the strength that lifts people on and up in the great struggles of scientific pursuits and of professional labor. It robs endurance of difficulty, and makes pleasure of duty."--Bishop Doane
- "Years wrinkle the face, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul."--Watterson Lowe
- "Every memorable act in the history of the world is a triumph of enthusiasm. Nothing great was ever achieved without it because it gives any challenge or any occupation, no matter how frightening or difficult, a new meaning. Without enthusiasm you are doomed to a life of mediocrity but with it you can accomplish miracles."--Og Mandino
- "Enthusiasm is the greatest asset in the world. It beats money and power and influence."--Henry Chester
- "Any activity becomes creative when the doer cares about doing it right, or doing it better."--John Updike
- "It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it."--Lena Horne
- "Don't waste your time trying to control the uncontrollable, or trying to solve the unsolvable, or think about what could have been. Instead, think about what you *can* control and solve the problem you *can* solve with the wisdom you have gained from both your victories and your defeats in the past."--David Mahoney
- "Make a game of finding something positive in every situation. Ninety-five percent of your emotions are determined by how you interpret events to yourself."--Brian Tracey
- "You can't always control the circumstances in life, but you can control your attitude toward those circumstances."--Alexander Lockhart
- "You cannot tailor make the situations in life, but you can tailor make the attitudes to fit those situations before they arise."--Zig Ziglar
- "Even though you may not be responsible for what happens to you, you are responsible for how you react to what happens to you - it's just a matter of how you control your attitude."--unknown
- "Other people and things can stop you temporarily. You're the only one who can do it permanently."--Zig Ziglar
- "You may not be responsible for being down, but you must be responsible for getting up."--Jesse Jackson
- "Non-participation gives us hardening of the attitude. Life goes on, and if we do not participate, life still goes on. If a negative attitude is not getting us where we want to go, then why not change the attitude? Reshaping attitudes is possible. Awareness is the key initial step."--Marsha Petrie Sue
- "If you can't change your fate, change your attitude."--Amy Tan
- "The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present."--Barbara De Angelis
- "Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember--the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you."--Zig Ziglar
- "He who angers you conquers you."--Elizabeth Kenny
- "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."--Buddha
- "No one else 'makes us angry.' We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude. What someone else may have done is irrelevant. We choose, not they. They merely put our attitude to a test."--Jim Rohn
- "You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger... Let a person overcome anger by love."--Buddha
- "If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow."--Chinese proverb
- "If you aren't fired with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm."--Vince Lombardi
- "A positive attitude is like a fire. Unless you continue to add fuel, it goes out."--Alexander Lockhart
- "Never say that you have no time. On the whole it is those who are busiest who can make time for yet more, and those who love more leisure time who refused to do something when asked. What we lack is not time, but heart."--Henri Boulard
- "Choose your friends carefully. A negative attitude is very contagious and can rub off on you little by little without your knowledge."--unknown
- "Attitudes are contagious is yours worth catching?"--Anonymous
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Fire and Desire
- "There are not fifty ways of fighting, there is only one: to be the conqueror."--Andre Malraux
- "The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in determination."--Tommy Lasorda
- "Merit begets confidence, confidence begets enthusiasm, enthusiasm conquers the world."--Walter H. Cottingham
- "It doesn't matter how much you want. What really matters is how much you want it. The extent and complexity of the problem does not matter was much as does the willingness to solve it."--Ralph Marston
- "Problems are only opportunities in work clothes."--Henry Kaiser
- "What counts is not necessarily the size of the dog in the fight - it's the size of the fight in the dog."--Dwight D. Eisenhower
- "Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them - a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have last-minute stamina, they have to be a little faster, they have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill."--Muhammad Ali
- "A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals."--Larry Bird
- "If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them."--Bruce Lee
- "Life's only limitations are those you set upon yourself, for as long as you strive hard enough anything is achievable."--Chad Williams
- "Desire is the key to motivation, but it's determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal--a commitment to excellence--that will enable you to attain the success you seek."--Mario Andretti
- "The course of human history is determined, not by what happens in the skies, but what takes place in our hearts."--Sir Arthur Keith
Risk and Reward
- "Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly."--Robert F. Kennedy
- "To win without risk is to triumph without glory."--Pierre Corneille
- "I'd rather regret the things I have done than the things I have not."--Lucille Ball
- "A weak man has doubts before a decision, a strong man has them afterwards."--Karl Kraus
- "We must dare, and dare again, and go on daring."--Georges Jacques Danton
- "It's a shallow life that doesn't have any scars."--Garrison Keillor
- "...the creator of the new composition in the arts is an outlaw until he is a classic."--Gertrude Stein
- "A fool is someone whose pencil wears out before its eraser does."--Marilyn vos Savant
- "He who never made a mistake, never made a discovery."--Samuel Smiles
- "Show me a person who has never made a mistake and I'll show you somebody who has never achieved much."--Joan Collins
- "If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very innovative."--Woody Allen
- "However well organized the foundations of life may be, life must always be full of risks."--Havelock Ellis
- "If you're not making mistakes, you're not taking risks, and that means you're not going anywhere. The key is to make mistakes faster than the competition, so you have more changes to learn and win."--John W. Holt, Jr.
- "If you are never scared, embarrassed, or hurt, it means you never take chances."--Julia Soul
- "Chance is always powerful. Let your hook be always cast. In the pool where you least expect it, will be a fish."--Ovid
- "I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...And I missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is precisely ... why I succeed."--Michael Jordan
- "Far better to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory, nor defeat."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "Of course we all have our limits, but how can you possibly find your boundaries unless you explore as far and as wide as you possibly can? I would rather fail in an attempt at something new and uncharted than safely succeed in a repeat of something I have done."--A.E. Hotchner
- "And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more."--Erica Jong
- "The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."--Elbert Hubbard
- "Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave."--Mary Tyler Moore
- "Be bold. If you're going to make an error, make a doozy, and don't be afraid to hit the ball."--Billie Jean King
- "Creativity is allowing oneself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep."--Scott Adams
- "Art is making something out of nothing and selling it."--Frank Zappa
- "Great deeds are usually wrought at great risks."--Herodotus
- "Every great advance in science has issued from a new audacity of imagination."--John Dewey
- "Science may set limits to knowledge, but should not set limits to imagination."--Bertrand Russell
- "To imagine is everything, to know is nothing at all."--Anatole France
- "To know is nothing at all; to imagine is everything."--Anatole France
- "Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world."--Albert Einstein
- "Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will."--George Bernard Shaw
- "Imagination is the spark that ignites the fire of creativity."--Richard Laurence Peterson
- "All acts performed in the world begin in the imagination."--Barbara Grizzuti Harrison
- "Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes furthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The "sure thing" boat never gets far from shore."--Dale Carnegie
- "Sometimes you just have to take the leap, and build your wings on the way down."--Kobi Yamada
- "Twenty years from now you will be disappointed by things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sail. Explore. Dream. Discover."--Mark Twain
- "I find the great thing in this world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are moving: To reach the port of heaven, we must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it, but we must sail, and not drift, nor lie at anchor."--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.
- "Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try."--Anonymous
- "Everything we do has a result. But that which is right and prudent does not always lead to good, nor the contrary to what is bad."--Goethe
- "If you wait for opportunities to occur, you will be one of the crowd."--Edward de Bono
- "You can't cross the sea merely by staring at the water."--Rabindranath Tagore
- "He that will not sail till all dangers are over must never put to sea."--Thomas Fuller
- "A ship in harbor is safe, But that is not what ships are built for."--unknown
- "Behold the turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out."--James B. Conant
- "No one ever became great by imitation."--Samuel Johnson
- "Self-confidence is the result of a successfully survived risk."--Jack Gibb
- "Don't be afraid to take a big step. You can't cross a chasm in two small jumps."--David Lloyd George
- "Do not be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better. What if they are a little course, and you may get your coat soiled or torn? What if you do fail, and get fairly rolled in the dirt once or twice. Up again, you shall never be so afraid of a tumble."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Why not go out on a limb? Isn't that where the fruit is?"--Frank Scully
- "I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center."--Kurt Vonnegut
- "Some things cannot be spoken or discovered until we have been stuck, incapacitated, or blown off course for awhile. Plain sailing is pleasant, but you are not going to explore many unknown realms that way."--David Whyte
- "If you're not big enough to lose, you're not big enough to win."--Walter Reuntner
- "Any time you try to win everything, you must be willing to lose everything."--Larry Csonka
- "Always do what you are afraid to do."--Ralph Waldo
- "She didn't know it couldn't be done so she went ahead and did it."--Mary's Almanac
- "Nothing in this world is impossible to a willing heart."--Abraham Lincoln
- "It's kind of fun to do the impossible."--Walt Disney
- "In skating over thin ice, our safety is in our speed."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do."--Walter Bagehot
- "Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all."--Dale Carnegie
- "My mother gave me a bumblebee pin when I started work. She said: 'Aerodynamically, bees shouldn't be able to fly. But they do. Remember that.'"--Jill E. Barad
- "The greater the difficulty, the more glory in surmounting it."--Epicurus
- "Never measure the height of a mountain until you have reached the top. Then you will see how low it was."--Dag Hammarskjold
- "If everything seems under control, you're just not going fast enough."--Mario Andretti
- "When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on."--Franklin D. Roosevelt
- "The reward of a thing well done is to have done it"--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "We don't know who we are until we see what we can do."--Martha Grimes
- "Much of the best work of the world has been done against seeming impossibilities."--Dale Carnegie
- "In the long run, we get no more than we have been willing to risk giving."--Sheldon Kopp
- "The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for."--Maureen Dowd
- "Progress always involves risk; you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first."--Frederick Wilcox
- "The trouble in America is not that we are making too many mistakes, but that we are making too few."--Phil Knight
- "Failure is an event, not a person. Yesterday ended last night."--Zig Ziglar
- "Failure is an event, never a person."--William D. Brown
- "A failure is like fertilizer; it stinks to be sure, but it makes things grow faster in the future."--Dennis Waitley
- "Commit yourself to a dream. Nobody who tries to do something great but fails is a total failure. Why? Because he can always rest assured that he succeeded in life's most important battle - he defeated the fear of trying."--Robert Schuller
- "Failure seldom stops you. What stops you is the fear of failure."--Jack Lemmon
- "The fear of becoming a 'has-been' keeps some people from becoming anything."--Eric Hoffer
- "Procrastination is the fear of success. People procrastinate because they are afraid of the success that they know will result if they move ahead now. Because success is heavy, carries a responsibility with it, it is much easier to procrastinate and live on the "someday I'll" philosophy."--Denis Waitley
To laugh is to risk appearing the fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach for another is to risk involvement.
To expose your feelings is to risk exposing your true self.
To place your ideas, your dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To believe is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live.
Chained by their attitudes they are slaves; they have forfeited their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.
~ Anonymous Chicago teacher
Gooooooooooal
- Remember a goal isn't a goal until it is in writing, until then........its a dream and everyone has dreams.
- "You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream."--Les Brown
- "A goal is created three times. First as a mental picture. Second, when written down to add clarity and dimension. And third, when you take action towards its achievement."--Gary Ryan Blair
- "It is not enough to take steps which may someday lead to a goal; each step must be itself a goal and a step likewise."--Goethe
- "It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "I have found that sitting in a place where you have never sat before can be inspiring."--Dodie Smith
- "This novel is not to be tossed lightly aside, but to be hurled with great force."--Dorothy Parker
- "Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours."--Dale Carnegie
- "He who chooses the beginning of the road chooses the place it leads to. It is the means that determines the end."--Harry Emerson Fosdick
- "The roads we take are more important than the goals we announce. Decisions determine destiny."--Frederick Speakman
- "In life, as in football, you won't go far unless you know where the goalposts are."--Arnold H. Glasgow
- "If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else."--Laurence J. Peter
- "Everything starts with yourself - with you making up your mind about what you're going to do with your life."--Tony Dorsett
- "The ultimate reason for setting goals is to entice you to become the person it takes to achieve them."--Jim Rohn
- "Goals are your personal statements of what you are truly willing to do to achieve what you really want to achieve."--Denis Waitley
- "Setting goals for your game is an art. The trick is in setting them at the right level neither too low nor too high."--Greg Norman
- "You are never really playing against an opponent. You are playing against yourself, your own highest standards. And when you reach your limits, that is real joy."--Arthur Ashe
- "Reach high, for the stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal."--Pamela Vaull Starr
- "Before your dreams can come true, you have to have those dreams."--Joyce Brothers
- "A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. A goal is what specifically you intend to make happen. Dreams and goals should be just out of your present reach but not out of sight. Dreams and goals are coming attractions in your life."--Joseph Campbell
- "Anybody can do anything that he imagines."--Henry Ford
- "We can have more than we've got because we can become more than we are."--Jim Rohn
- "Don't lower your expectations to meet your performance. Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations. Expect thet best of yourself, and then do what is necessary to make it a reality."--Ralph Marston
- "No one rises to low expectations."--Jesse Jackson
- "Don't set your goals too low. If you don't need much, you won't become much."--Jim Rohn
- "We tend to live up to our expectations."--Earl Nightingale
- "Setting goals provides man with an excuse to stop before he has exhausted all efforts to reach his maximum potential."--David V. Ellison
- "Aim at perfection in everything, though in most things it is unattainable. However, they who aim at it, and persevere, will come much nearer to it than those whose laziness and despondency make them give it up as unattainable."--Lord Chesterfield
- "Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."--Antoine de Saint Exupery
- "Every life form seems to strive to its maximum except human beings. How tall will a tree grow? As tall as it possibly can. Human beings, on the other hand, have been given the dignity of choice. You can choose to be all or you can choose to be less. Why not stretch up to the full measure of the challenge and see what all you can do?"--Jim Rohn
- "Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul; the blue prints of your ultimate achievements."--Napoleon Hill
- "I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future."--David Copperfield
- "I have had dreams and I have had nightmares, but I have conquered my nightmares because of my dreams."--Jonas Salk
- "When you have a dream you've got to grab it and never let go."--Carol Burnett
- "To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe."--Anatole France
- "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them."--Walt Disney
- "It may be that those who do most, dream most."--Stephen Leacock
- "Dreams do not vanish, so long as people do not abandon them."--Phantom F. Harlock
- "Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly."--Langston Hughes
- "Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens."--Carl Gustav Jung
- "The free man is he who does not fear to go to the end of his thought."--Leon Blum
- "Great souls have wills; feeble ones only have wishes."--Chinese Proverb
- "Excellence is the gradual result of always striving to do better."--Pat Riley
- "Excellence can be attained if you Care more than others think is wise, Risk more than others think is safe, Dream more than others think is practical, and Expect more than others think is possible."--Author Unknown
- "To aim at excellence, our reputation, and friends, and all must be ventured; to aim at the average we run no risk and provide little service."--Oliver Goldsmith
- "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act but a habit."--Aristotle
- "The passionate ones, the ones who go after what they want, may not get what they want, but they remain vital, in touch with themselves, and when they lie on their deathbeds, they have few regrets."--Charlie Kaufman
- "The tragedy of life doesn't lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach."--Benjamin Mays
- "Many are stubborn in pursuit of the path they have chosen, few in pursuit of the goal."--Friedrich Nietzsche
- "People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents."--Andrew Carnegie
- "If one does not know to which port one is sailing, no wind is favorable."--Seneca
- "You must know for which harbor you are headed if you are to catch the right wind to take you there."--Seneca
- "The real tragedy of life is not in being limited to one talent, but in the failure to use that one talent."--Edgar W. Work
- "What's more important-your goal, or others' opinions of your goal."--unknown
- "The richness of the human experience would lose something of rewarding joy if there were no limitations to overcome."--Helen Keller
- "The big challenge is to become all that you have the possibility of becoming. You cannot believe what it does to the human spirit to maximize your human potential and stretch yourself to the limit."--Jim Rohn
- "The true worth of a man is to be measured by the objects he pursues."--Marcus Aureleus
- "Always aim for achievement, and forget about success."--Helen Hayes
- "Goals...There's no telling what you can do when you get inspired by them. There's no telling what you can do when you believe in them. There's no telling what will happen when you act upon them."--Jim Rohn
- "People who say life is not worthwhile are really saying that they themselves have no personal goals which are worthwhile... Get yourself a goal worth working for. Better still, get yourself a project... Always have something ahead of you to "look forward to"--to work for and to hope for."--Maxwell Maltz
- "I have found that being honest is the best technique I can use. Right up front, tell people what you're trying to accomplish and what you're willing to sacrifice to accomplish it."--Lee Iacocca
- "I have learned over the years that when one's mind is made up, this diminshes fear."--Rosa Parks
Aspirations
- "Don't worry about being successful. Worry about being significant."--Oprah Winfrey
- "It's not your blue blood, your pedigree or your college degree. It's what you do with your life that counts."--Millard Fuller
- "Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead."--Louisa May Alcott
- "Set your sights high, the higher the better. Expect the most wonderful things to happen, not in the future but right now. Realize that nothing is too good. Allow absolutely nothing to hamper you or hold you up in any way."--Eileen Caddy
- "As long as you're going to think anyway, think big."--Donald Trump
- "Dreams come in a size too big so that we may grow into them."--Josie Bisset
- "The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it."--Michelangelo
- "Your hopes, dreams and aspirations are legitimate. They are trying to take you airborne, above the clouds, above the storms, if you only let them."--William James
- "You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true."--unknown
- "My interest is in the future because I am going to spend the rest of my life there."--Charles F. Kettering
- "Make the most of yourself...for that is all there is of you."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Always dream and shoot higher than you know how to. Don't bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself."--William Faulkner
- "Strive to make something of yourself, then strive to make the most of yourself."--Alexander Crummell
- "If a man does only what is required of him, he is a slave If a man does more than is required of him, he is a free man."--Chinese Proverb
- "I dream, therefore I become."--Cheryl Grossman
Experience is Life's Education
- "The person who has lived the most is not the one with the most years but the one with the richest experiences."--Jean Jacques Rousseau
- "If you want to keep your memories, you first have to live them."--Bob Dylan
- "Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him."--Aldous Huxley
- "Experience is not what happens to you; it's what you do with what happens to you."--Aldous Huxley
- "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes."--Oscar Wilde
- "Failure is just another way to learn how to do something right."--Marian Wright Edelman
- "Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards."--Vernon Sanders Law
- "There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go."--Richard Bach
- "Experience is the name everyone gives to his mistakes."--Elbert Hubbard
- "There is only one thing more painful than learning from experience and that is not learning from experience."--Archibald McLeish
- "He who learns but does not think, is lost! He who thinks but does not learn is in great danger."--Confucius
- "Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood."--Helen Keller
- "The reward of suffering is experience."--Aeschylus
- "It's fine to celebrate success, but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure."--Bill Gates
- "Good judgement comes from experience, and often experience comes from bad judgement."--Rita Mae Brown
- "Good judgment is usually the result of experience. And experience is frequently the result of bad judgment. But to learn from the experience of others requires those who have the experience to share the knowledge with those who follow."--Barry LePatner
- "Experience is a wonderful thing; it enables you to recognize a mistake every time you make it."--The Associated Press
- "There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm."-Willa Cather
- "There is nothing so easy to learn as experience and nothing so hard to apply."--Josh Billings
- "I never let schooling interfere with my education."--Mark Twain
- "Education is what you get from reading the fine print. Experience is what you get from not reading it."--Uknown
- "Education is what survives when what has been learnt has been forgotten."--B. F. Skinner
- "Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want."--Dan Stanford
- "Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can't lose."--Bill Gates
- "You will not grow if you sit in a beautiful flower garden, but you will grow if you are sick, if you are in pain, if you experience losses, and if you do not put your head in the sand, but take the pain and learn to accept it, not as a curse or punishment but as a gift to you with a very, very specific purpose."--Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- "Age is only a number, a cipher for the records. A man can't retire his experience. He must use it. Experience achieves more with less energy and time."--Bernard Mannes Baruch
Education
- "When the pupil is ready the teacher will appear."--Native American Saying
- "Teachers open the door, but you must enter by yourself."--Chinese proverb
- "What was the duty of the teacher if not to inspire?"--Bharati Mukhejee
- "A teacher affects eternity: he can never tell where his influence stops."--Henry Adams
- "The test of a good teacher is not how many questions he can ask his pupils that they will answer readily, but how many questions he inspires them to ask him which he finds it hard to answer."--Alice Wellington Rollins
- "A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though awakens your own expectations."--Patricia Neal
- "Good teaching is one-fourth preparation and three-fourths pure theatre."--Gail Godwin
- "We learn to do something by doing it. There is no other way. What we can best learn from good teachers is how to teach ourselves better."--John Holt
- "The aim of education, should be rather to teach us how to think, than what to think."--James Beattie
- "The aim of education is the knowledge, not of facts, but of values."--William Ralph Inge
- "The goal of education is the advancement of knowledge and the dissemination of truth."--President Kennedy
- "Education isn't a result. It's a process."--Pierce Brosnan
- "Teaching should be such that what is offered is perceived as a valuable gift and not as a hard duty."--Albert Einstein
- "Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school."--Albert Einstein
- "Education is what you have left over after you have forgotten everything you have learned."--unknown
- "Iron rusts from disuse, stagnant water loses its purity, and in cold weather becomes frozen: even so does inaction sap the vigors of the mind."--Leonardo da Vinci
- "Change does not necessarily assure progress, but progress implacably requires change. Education is essential to change, for education creates both new wants and the ability to satisfy them."--Henry Steele Commager
- "Education is an important element in the struggle for human rights. It is the means to help our children and thereby increase self-respect. Education is our passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today."--Malcolm X
- "The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life."--Plato
- "Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire."--William Butler Yates
- "Education's purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open one."--Malcolm S. Forbes
- "Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young."--Henry Ford
- "A mind that has been stretched will never return to its original dimension."--Albert Einstein
- "One's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions."--Oliver Wendell Holmes
- "Commit yourself to lifelong learning. The most valuable asset you'll ever have is your mind and what you put into it."--Brian Tracey
- "We encounter the grinding wheels that sharpen our mental blades many places in life. Adversity, school, parents, spiritual guides, books, experience are all sharpening teachers. As we grow older, to stay sharp we must find new grindstones to whet and sharpen our potential and keep us at our brightest, most penetrating best."--Robert Kall
- "Too often we give our children answers to remember rather than problems to solve."--Roger Lewin
- "Children enter school as question marks and leave as periods."--Neil Postman
- "We cannot always build the future for our youth, but we can build our youth for the future."--Franklin D. Roosevelt
- "Our children are our only hope for the future, but we are their only hope for their present and their future."--Zig Ziglar
- "If you are planning for a year, sow rice; if you are planning for a decade, plant trees; if you are planning for a lifetime, educate people."--Chinese proverb
- "Character development is the great, if not the sole, aim of education."--O'Shea
- "Wonder rather than doubt is the root of all knowledge."--Abraham J. Heschel
- "When you learn, teach. When you get, give. Maya Angelou taught me that."--Oprah Winfrey
Perserverance
- "Without a struggle, there can be no progress."--Frederick Douglass
- "Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together."--Vincent Van Gogh
- "If you cannot do great things yourself, remember that you may do small things in a great way."--Swamy Chinmayananda
- "We cannot all do great things, but we can do small things with great love."--Mother Teresa
- "Where there is great love there are always miracles."--Willa Cather
- "There's only one thing that can guarantee our failure, and that's if we quit."--Craig Breedlove
- "You never really lose until you quit trying."--Mike Ditka
- "You are not beaten until you admit it."--George S. Patton, Jr
- "A quitter never wins and a winner never quits."--Napoleon Hill
- "A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits."--Richard [Milhous] Nixon
- "Once you learn to quit, it becomes a habit."--Vince Lombardi
- "If you don't quit, and don't cheat, and don't run home when trouble arrives, you can only win."--Shelley Long
- "They say it can't be done, but that doesn't always work."--Casey Stengel
- "Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish."--John Quincy Adams
- "Nobody trips over mountains. It is the small pebble that causes you to stumble. Pass all the pebbles in your path and you will find you have crossed the mountain."--Unknown
- "If you're trying to achieve, there will be roadblocks. I've had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it."--Michael Jordan
- "Great minds have purposes; little minds have wishes. Little minds are subdued by misfortunes; great minds rise above them."--Washington Irving
- "Little things affect little minds."--Benjamin Disraeli
- "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts."--Winston Churchill
- "History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats."--Bertie Charles Forbes
- "Dream is the spark of passion; talent is the firework of its expression; perseverance, the sacred fire of its accomplishment."--Daniel Chabot
- "Through perserverence many people win success out of what seemed destined to be certain failure."--Benjamin Disraeli
- "Be of good cheer. Do not think of today's failures, but of the success that may come tomorrow. You have set yourself a difficult task, but you will succeed if you persevere; and you will find a joy in overcoming obstacles."--Helen Keller
- "Life is a series of experiences, each of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and griefs which we endure help us in our marching onward."--Henry Ford
- "Surmounting difficulty is the crucible that forms character."--Anthony Robbins
- "Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal: my strength lies solely in my tenacity."--Louis Pasteur
- "Never allow a person to tell you no who doesn't have the power to say yes."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "My mother never gave up on me. I messed up in school so much they were sending me home, but my mother sent me right back."--Denzel Washington
- "It ain't over till it's over."--Yoga Berra
Coping and Hoping
- "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall."--Confucius
- "The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears."--John Vance Cheney
- "The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."--Dolly Parton
- "If you weep because the sun has set, your own tears will never let you see the stars."--Hindu Proverb
- "My sun sets to rise again."--Robert Browning
- "The diamond cannot be polished without friction, not man perfected without trials."--Confucius
- "Don't hope for a life without problems. An easy life results in a judgemental and lazy mind."--Kyong Ho
- "If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome."--Anne Bradstreet
- "The best way out is always through."--Robert Frost
- "Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it."--Helen Keller
- "Sometimes being pushed to the wall gives you the momentum necessary to get over it."--Peter de Jager
- "I found out that the things that hurt us the most can become the fuel and the catalyst that propel us toward our destiny. It will either make you bitter or it will make you better."--T.D. Jakes
- "Honest disagreement is often a good sign of progress."--Mohandas K. Ghandi
- "The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain."--Kahlil Gibran
- "Some people are always grumbling that roses have thorns. I am thankful that thorns have roses."--Alphonse Karr
- "You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses."--Ziggy
- "Sometimes you have to get to rock bottom in order to see the right way back up."--Kate Bell
- "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go."--Herman Hesse
- "When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure."--Peter Marshall
- "The willow knows what the storm does not: that the power to endure harm outlives the power to inflict it."--Blood of the Martyr
- "You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair."--Chinese Proverb
- "Usually when people are sad, they don't do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they get angry, they bring about a change."--Malcolm X
- "Remember all of us has problems we all have to deal with, so even though, you can't control what happens on the outside, you can control what happens on the inside."--unknown
- "In every job, relationship, or life situation there is inevitably some turbulence. Learn to laugh at it. It is part of what you do and who you are."--Allen Klein
- "The marvelous richness of human experience would lose something of rewarding joy if there were no limitations to overcome. The hilltop hour would not be half so wonderful if there were no dark valleys to traverse."--Helen Keller
- "We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world."--Helen Keller
- "Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow."--Helen Keller
- "Look for the light behind every shadow."--Robert Schuler
- "Never fear shadows. They simply mean that there's a light somewhere nearby."--Ruth E. Renkei
- "Over every mountain there is a path, although it may not be seen from the valley."--James Rogers
- "Nobody really cares if you're miserable, so you might as well be happy."--Cynthia Nelms
- "When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."--Helen Keller
- "When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us."--Alexander Graham Bell
- "Flying may not be all plain sailing, but the fun of it is worth the price."--Amelia Earhart
- "Growing is a lifetime job, and we grow most when we're down in the valleys, where the fertilizer is."--Barbara Johnson
- "Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "My advice to actresses is don't worry about your looks. The very thing that makes you unhappy in your appearance may be the one thing to make you a star."--Estelle Winwood
- "In doing anything, the first step is the most difficult."--Chinese proverb
- "All things are difficult before they are easy."--Thomas Fuller
- "In difficult times, people too often lose the ability to face the future optimistically. They begin to think about their tomorrow's negatively. They forget that the tough times will pass. They concentrate on the problems of today rather than on the opportunities of tomorrow. In so doing, they not only lose the potential of today, they also throw away the beauty of tomorrow."--Robert H. Schuller
- "Spend eighty percent of your time focusing on the opportunities of tomorrow rather than the problems of yesterday."--Brian Tracey
- "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was."--Richard L. Evans
- "We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence."--Helen Keller
- "Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom."--General George Patton
- "Strong people make as many and as ghastly mistakes as weak people. The difference is that strong people admit them, laugh at them, learn form them. This is how they become strong."--Richard Needham
- "Laughter gives us distance. It allows us to step back from an event, deal with it and then move on."--Bob Newhart
- "Good timber does not grow with ease; The stronger the wind, the stronger the trees."--J. Willard Marriott
- "Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose."--Lyndon B. Johnson
- "You have within you right now, everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you."--Brian Tracy
- "There is not enough darkness in all the world to put out the light of even one small candle."--Robert Alden
- "Truly, it is in darkness that one finds the light, so when we are in sorrow, then this light is nearest to all of us."--Meister Eckhart
- "I have had many troubles in my life, but the worst of them never came."--James A. Garfield
- "Let us be of good cheer, remembering that the misfortunes hardest to bear are those which will never happen."--James Russel Lowell
- "Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy, you can't build on it it's only good for wallowing in."--Katherine Mansfield
- "Make the most of your regrets. . . . To regret deeply is to live afresh."--Henry David Thoreau
- "...I have a duty to speak the truth as I see it and to share not just my triumphs, not just the things that felt good, but the pain, the intense, often unmitigating pain. It is important to share how I know survival is survival and not just a walk through the rain."--Audre Lorde
- "Fear can hold you prisoner, hope can set you free."--Unknown
- "Fear = (F)alse (E)vidence (A)ppearing (R)eal"--Unknown
Success
- "There are many paths to the top of the mountain, but only one view."--Harry Millner
- "In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure."--Bill Cosby
- "Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time."--Arnold H. Glasow
- "The reward for work well done is the opportunity to do more."--Jonas Salk
- "Each success only buys an admission ticket to a more difficult problem."--Henry A. Kissinger
- "Success only breeds a new goal."--Bette Davis
- "Success doesn't come to you... you go to it."--Marva Collins
- "Success is never final."--Winston Churchill
- "Success is a journey, not a destination."--Ben Sweetland
- "Success is a journey not a destination. The doing is usually more important than the outcome. Not everyone can be Number 1."--Arthur Ashe
- "Success is not a 'sometimes' thing. In other words, you don't do what is right once in awhile, but all the time. Success is a habit. Winning is a habit."--Vincent Thomas Lombardi
- "Winning is not a sometime thing; it's an all-time thing. You don't win once in a while, you don't do things right once in a while, you do them all the time. Winning is a habit."--Vince Lombardi
- "You've achieved success in your field when you don't know whether what you are doing is work or play."--Warren Beatty
- "If winning isn't everything, why do they keep score?"--Vince Lombardi
- "Success is the maximum utilization of the ability that you have."--Zig Zigler
- "The only place you find success before work is in the dictionary."--Vidal Sasson
- "The struggle to reach the top is itself enough to fulfill the heart of man."--Albert Camus
- "Success is sweet and sweeter if long delayed and gotten through many struggles and defeats."--Amos Bronson Alcott
- "I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have."--Thomas Jefferson
- "I am a great believer in luck, The harder I work, The more of it I seem to have."--Coleman Cox
- "The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will."--Vincent T. Lombardi
- "Lack of will power has caused more failure than lack of intelligence or ability."--Flower A. Newhouse
- "Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go."--William Feather
- "The best job goes to the person who can get it done without passing the buck or coming back with excuses."--Napoleon Hill
- "By the time we've made it, we've had it."--Malcolm Forbes
- "Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiam."--Sir Winston Churchill
- "The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself."--Mark Caine
- "Most people who succeed in the face of seemingly impossible conditions are people who simply don't know how to quit."--Robert Schuller
- "Obstacles are necessary for success because in selling, as in all careers of importance, victory comes only after many struggles and countless defeats. Yet, each struggle, each defeat, sharpens your skills and strengths, your courage and your endurance, your ability and your confidence and thus each obstacle is a comrade-in-arms forcing you to become better or quit. Each rebuff is an opportunity to move forward. Turn away from them, avoid them, and you throw away your future."--Og Mandino
- "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."--Henry David Thoreau
- "Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress, and working together is success."--Henry Ford
- "Let us realize that the privilege to work is a gift, that power to work is a blessing, that love of work is success."--David O. McKay
- "A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her."--David Brinkley
- "The secret of success is to know something nobody else knows."--Aristotle Onassis
- "The secret of success is doing things not merely because they are popular, but because you deeply believe in them."--J. Donald Walters
- "The secret of joy in work is contained in one word – excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it."--Pearl S. Buck
- "There are no secrets to success: Don't waste time looking for them. Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty to those for who you work,and persistence."--General Colin Powell
- "The only thing that separates successful people from the ones who aren't is the willingness to work very, very hard."--Helen Gurley Brown
- "Genius is one per cent inspiration, ninety-nine per cent perspiration."--Thomas A. Edison
- "I know the price of success: dedication, hard work, and an unremitting devotion to the things you want to see happen."--Frank Lloyd Wright
- "Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price."--Vince Lombardi
- "Champions know there are no shortcuts to the top. They climb the mountain one step at a time. They have no use for helicopters!"--Judi Adier
- "I found every single successful person I've ever spoken to had a turning point. Their turning point was where they made a clear, specific, unequivocal decision that they were not going to live like this anymore. They were going to succeed. Some people make that decision at 15. Some people make it at 50. Most people never make it at all."--Brian Tracy
- "Success is dependent on effort."--Sophocles
- "Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."--Henry David Thoreau
- "Recipe for Success: Study while others are sleeping; work while others are loafing; prepare while others are playing; and dream while others are wishing."--William A. Ward
- "Accomplishment and success are often the result of commitment and perseverance rather than skill or talent."--George Van Valkenburg
- "In this age, which believes that there is a short cut to everything, the greatest lesson to be learned is that the most difficult way is, in the long run, the easiest."--Henry Miller
- "I never could have done what I have done without the habits of punctuality, order, and diligence, without the determination to concentrate myself on one subject at a time."--Charles Dickens
- "The man who lives for himself is a failure; the man who lives for others has achieved true success."--Dr. Norman Vincent Peale
- "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."--Herman Cain
- "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is liking what you get."--Anonymous
- "When you do not know what you are doing and what you are doing is the best - that is inspiration."--Robert Bresson
- "To love what you do and feel that it matters -- how could anything be more fun?"--Katharine Graham
- "Put your heart, mind, intellect and soul even to your smallest acts. This is the secret of success."--Sivananda
- "Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other thing."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."--Jim Rohn
- "So celebrate what you've accomplished, but raise the bar a little higher each time you succeed."--Mia Hamm
- "My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others, and that's nice, too, but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success."--Helen Hays
- "Men are born to succeed, not to fail."--Henry David Thoreau
- "The distance between insanity and genius is measured only by success."--James Bond
- "Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant."--Robert Louis Stevenson
- "'Veni, vidi, vici' (I came, I saw, I conquered)"--Julius Caesar
Following the Leader
- "The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction and the will to carry on."--Walter Lippmann
- "The lights of stars that were extinguished ages ago still reaches us. So it is with great men who died centuries ago, but still reach us with the radiations of their personalities."--Khalil Gibran
- "It is only as we develop others that we permanently succeed."--Harvey S. Firestone
- "A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting things done."--Dwight D. Eisenhower
- "When the effective leader is finished with his work, the people say it happened naturally."--Lao Tse
- "Good leaders are like baseball umpires - they go practically unnoticed when doing their jobs right."--Byrd Baggett
- "No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it."--Andrew Carnegie
- "Every great person is always being helped by everybody; for their gift is to get good out of all things and all persons."--John Ruskin
- "When you get right down to it, one of the most important tasks of a leader is to eliminate his people's excuse for failure."--Robert Townsend
- "Leaders think and talk about the solutions. Followers think and talk about the problems."--Brian Tracey
- "Leadership: The art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it."--Dwight D. Eisenhower
- "The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves."--Ray Kroc
- "Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him."--Booker T. Washington
- "Management works in the system. Leadership works on the system."--Stephen R. Covey
- "Good management consists of showing average people how to do the work of superior people."--John D. Rockefeller
- "Outstanding leaders go out of their way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people believe in themselves, it's amazing what they can accomplish. High expectations are the key to everything."--Sam Walton
- "No person can be a great leader unless he takes genuine joy in the successes of those under him."--W. H. Auden
- "A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "The best executive is one who has sense enough to pick good people to do what he wants done, and self-restraint enough to keep from meddling with them while they do it."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don't be dissapointed when they're not; it helps them to keep trying."--Merry Browne
- "Treat a man as he is, he will remain so. Treat a man the way he can be and ought to be, and he will become as he can be and should be."--Goethe
- "Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being."--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
- "Treat yourself at least as well as you treat other people."--Theodore Rubin
- "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambition. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great."--Mark Twain
- "At the risk of seeming ridiculous, let me say that the true revolutionary is guided by a great feeling of love. It is impossible to think of a genuine revolutionary lacking this quality."--Che Guevera
- "In the final analysis, it is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings."--Ann Landers
- "A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions."--Confucius
- "Integrity is the most valuable and respected quality of leadership. Always keep your word."--Brian Tracey
- "If you don't understand that you work for your mislabeled subordinates, then you know nothing of leadership. You know only tyranny."--Dee W. Hock
- "...do your homework. You can't lead without knowing what you're talking about..."--George Bush
- "Great men never make bad use of their superiority. They see it and feel it and are not less modest. The more they have, the more they know their own deficiencies."--Jean Jacques Rousseau
- "The great are great only because we are on our knees. Let us rise!"--Max Stirner
- "Be not afraid of greatness; some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them."--William Shakespeare
- "Great work is done by people who are not afraid to be great."--Fernando Flores
- "Never do things others can do and will do if there are things others cannot do or will not do."--Amelia Earhart
- "The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not a bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly."--Jim Rohn
- "Anybody who accepts mediocrity-in school, on the job, in life-is a person who compromises, and when the leader compromises, the whole organization compromises."--Charles Knight
- "Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk."--Carl Jung
- "If you raise your children to feel that they can accomplish any goal or task they decide upon, you will have succeeded as a parent and you will have given your children the greatest of all blessings."--Brian Tracy
Team: There is no "U" or "I" in the word "TEAM", but there's a "M" and "E"
- "In order to have a winner, the team must have a feeling of unity; every player must put the team first-ahead of personal glory."--Paul Bear Bryant
- "Every great man is always being helped by everybody; for his gift is to get good out of all things and all persons."--John Ruskin
- "It is the men behind who make the man ahead."--Merle Crowell
- "If I have seen more than others, it is because I was standing on the shoulders of giants."--Sir Isaac Newton
- "There is no limit to what can be accomplished if it doesn't matter who gets the credit."--Emerson
- "You can accomplish much if you don't care who gets the credit."--Ronald Reagan
- "Remember, nobody wins unless everybody wins."--Bruce Springsteen
- "Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much."--Helen Keller
- "All of us are smarter than one of us."--Japanese proverb
- "Individual commitment to a group effort - that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work."--Vince Lombardi
- "There is no substitute for effort. If someone with superior natural ability permits you to outwork him, you can defeat him. If you permit someone of lesser skill to excel you in effort, he will likely excel you in accomplishment."--Joe Robbie
- "If you don't make a total commitment to whatever you're doing, then you start looking to bail out the first time the boat starts leaking. It's tough enough getting that boat to shore with everybody rowing, let alone when a guy stands up and starts putting his life jacket on."--Lou Holtz
- "Do you value people who won't benefit you or only those who might contribute in some way to your success? Great team players truly value others as people, and they know and relate to what others value."--John C. Maxwell
- "You give 100% in the first half of the game, and if that isn't enough, in the second half you give what's left."--Yogi Berra
Observation: Look, Listen, and Learn
- "Learn the past, watch the present, and create the future."--Jesse Conrad
- "Has anyone ever said, 'It is important to spend less time on how we look and more time on how we see'? If not, someone should."--Carmen Richardson Rutlen
- "To acquire knowledge, one must study; but to acquire wisdom, one must observe."--Marilyn vos Savant
- "Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness."--James Thurber
- "Sometimes you earn more by doing jobs that pay nothing."--Todd Ruthman
- "If you're not learning while you're earning, you're cheating yourself out of the better portion of your compensation."--Napoleon Hill
- "In youth we learn; in age we understand."--Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
- "Watch what people are cynical about, and one can often discover what they lack."--Harry Emerson Fosdick
- "Silence is the virtue of fools."--Francis Bacon
- "Never tell the truth to people who are not worthy of it."--Mark Twain
- "Whatever you believe with emotion becomes your reality. You always act in a manner consistent with your innermost beliefs and convictions."--Brian Tracey
- "It is better to ask some of the questions than to know all of the answers."--James Thurber
- "It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question."--Eugene Ionesco
- "Questions are the creative acts of intelligence."--Frank Kingdon
- "To repeat what others have said, requires education; to challenge it, requires brains."--Mary Pettibone Poole
- "The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions."--Antony Jay
- "Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers."--Voltaire
- "The only interesting answers are those which destroy the questions."--Susan Sontag
- "You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is a different one, each day brings a miracle of its own. It's just a matter of paying attention to this miracle."--Paulo Coelho
- "The simple act of paying attention can take you a long way."--Keanu Reeves
- "I'm glad I understand that while language is a gift, listening is a responsibility."--Nikki Giovanni
- "I no longer worry about being a brilliant conversationalist. I simply try to be a good listener. I notice that people who do that are usually welcome wherever they go."--Frank Bettger
- "Remember: when you talk you only repeat what you already know, but if you listen you may learn something."--Amish School Saying
- "It's a mistake to think we listen only with our ears. It's much more important to listen with the mind, the eyes, the body, and the heart. Unless you truly want to understand the other person, you'll never be able to listen."--Mark Herndon
- "A child sees everything, looks straight at it, examines it, without any preconceived idea; most people, after they are about eleven or twelve, quite lose this power, they see everything through a few preconceived ideas which hang like a veil between them and the outer world."--Olive Schreiner
- "Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence."--Robert Frost
- "It requires wisdom to understand wisdom: the music is nothing if the audience is deaf."--Walter Lippmann
- "Vocabulary enables us to interpret and to express. If you have a limited vocabulary, you will also have a limited vision and a limited future."--Jim Rohn
Nike: Just Do It
- "The most effective way to do it, is to do it."--Amelia Earhart
- "It is not enough to aim, you must hit."--Italian proverb
- "Anything worth having has its price."--Joan Didion
- "A somebody was once a nobody who wanted to and did."--Unknown
- "Do it first, do it yourself, and keep on doin' it."--Ben Hecht
- "You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do."--Henry Ford
- "There is no security on this earth, there is only opportunity."--Douglas MacArthur
- "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."--Wayne Gretzky
- "Opportunities are never lost. The other fellow takes those you miss."--Anonymous
- "Four things come not back: the spoken word, the spent arrow, the past, the neglected opportunity."--Omar Idn Al-Halif
- "Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Fortune knocks but once, but misfortune has much more patience."--Laurence J. Peter
- "The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone."--Harriet Beecher Stowe
- "Regret for wasted time is more wasted time."--Mason Cooley
- "How you spend your time defines who you are."--Oprah Winfrey
- "A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds."--Francis Bacon
- "Nothing is so irretrievably missed as an opportunity we encounter every day."--Marie Von Ebner-Eschenbach
- "Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows."--Michael Landon
- "The sad truth is that opportunity doesn't knock twice. You can put things off until tomorrow but tomorrow may never come."--Gloria Estefan
- "Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come; you have to get up and make them."--Madame C. J. Walker
- "Don’t stand around and wait for something to happen. Don’t be afraid to take chances. Gamble. Be reckless. Make things happen!"--Joe Paterno
- "Do not wait; the time will never be "just right." Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along."--Napoleon Hill
- "Wish you were more daring. Stop pining and take the plunge. Pick something you really want to accomplish and go for it."--Unknown
- "The idle man does not know what it is to enjoy rest."--Albert Einstein
- "I don’t' think necessity is the mother of invention -- invention, in my opinion, arise directly from idleness, possibly also from laziness. To save oneself trouble."--Agatha Christie
- "Ability is nothing without opportunity."--Napoleon Bonaparte
- "You put out, boy, you suck up your gut, give it all you’ve got and you give me that second effort. You give me that much boy...and I’ll show you glory."--Paul “Bear” Bryant
- "One of the strongest characteristics of genius is the power of lighting its own fire."--John W. Foster
- "I can accept failure. Everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying."--Michael Jordan
- "I can accept anything, except what seems to be the easiest for most people: the half-way, the almost, the just-about, the in-between."--Ayn Rand
- "Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there."--Will Rogers
- "Thou shalt not be a victim. Thou shalt not be a perpetrator. Above all, thou shalt not be a bystander."--Holocaust Museum, Washington, DC
- "You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try."--Beverly Sills
- "No one knows what he can do until he tries."--unknown
- "Nobody makes a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little."--Edmund Burke
- "In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "There are costs and risks to a program of action, but they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction."--John F. Kennedy
- "Try not. Do or do not. There is no try."--Yoda
- "Walk on road, hmm? Walk right side, safe. Walk left side, safe. Walk middle, sooner or later... get squished just like grape. Here karate same thing. Either you karate do, yes...or karate do, no. You karate do, 'guess so'-- just like grape. Understand?"--Mr. Miyagi
- "There are no such things as excuses. There are reasons that why a particular decision was reached, and why that decision was not a good one. There is a discernible path that can be followed to find the reasons why a failure occurred. There are no excuses, only wrong decisions."--Andy Hutchison
- "It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something."--Franklin D. Roosevelt
- "If you want something badly enough, make an attempt. If you want to paint, get a brush and do it. If you want to sing, sing. A lot of people get scared. They're afraid to fail. Take that word out of your vocabulary. You don't "fail." You've "tried your best."--Jane Seymour
- "Do not allow yourselves to be disheartened by any failure as long as you have done your best."--Mother Teresa
- "You can't always expect a certain result, but you can expect to do your best."--Anita Hill
- "To try and fail is at least to learn. To fail to try is to suffer the loss of what might have been."--Ben Franklin
- "A thousand-mile journey begins with a single step."--Lao-Tzu
- "A year from now you may wish you had started today."--Karen Lamb
- "Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do."--Goethe
- "You will never 'find' time for anything. If you want time you must make it."--Charles Buxton
- "Time is a created thing. To say 'I don't have time' is to say 'I don't want to.'"--Lao Tzu
- "In order to make your dreams come true, you must awaken and take charge."--Natasha Newsome
- "So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable."--Christopher Reeve
- "Nothing is improbable until it moves into past tense."--George Ade
- "Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time for that's the stuff life is made of."--Benjamin Franklin
- "Do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of."--Benjamin Franklin
- "Know the true value of time; snatch, seize and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness...never put off till tomorrow what you can do today."--Lord Chesterfield
- "Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein."--H. Jackson Brown
- "A man would do nothing, if he waited until he could do it so well that no one would find fault with what he has done."--John Henry Cardinal Newman
- "The first man gets the oyster, the second man gets the shell."--Andrew Carnegie
- "I sometimes say that success just happens. That's not true. You have to make it happen. When I make up my mind to do something, I make sure it happens. You can't wait for the phone to ring. You have to ring them."--Lord (Lew) Grade
- "Start living now. Stop saving the good china for that special occasion. Stop withholding your love until that special person materializes. Every day you are alive is a special occasion. Every minute, every breath, is a gift from God."--Mary Manin Morrissey
- "Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time."--Jim Rohn
- "Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing."--Thomas Edison
- "In the morning, I say: 'What is my exciting thing for today?'...Don't ask me about tomorrow."--Barbara Jordan
- "Let's suppose you had a bank that each morning credited your account with $ 1,440 with one condition - Whatever part of the $1,440 you had failed to use during the day would be erased from your account and no balance carried over.....What would you do? Of course you'd draw out every cent, everyday and use it to your best advantage....Well, you have such a bank and its name is TIME. Every morning the bank credits you with 1,440 minutes. It writes off forever whatever portion you failed to invest to a good purpose.....INVEST WISELY!"--Unknown
- "Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Most of us think having a list of priorities is a sign of a motivated, serious person. But there is one essential flaw in this perspective. We are not guaranteed a future; and even if we were we could not live in it. All we have is now."--George Lawrence-Ell
- "We cannot lead a choiceless life. Every day, every moment, every second, there is a choice. If it were not so, we would not be individuals."--Ernest Holmes
- "If you can't sleep, then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It's the worry that gets you, not the lack of sleep."--Dale Carnegie
- "Time is relative; its only worth depends upon what we do as it is passing."--Albert Einstein
- "Time is the most valuable coin in your life. You and you alone will determine how that coin will be spent. Be careful that you do not let other people spend it for you."--Carl Sandberg
- "Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you."--Carl Sandburg
- "Time is the longest distance between two places."--Tennesse Williams
- "What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Use what talents you possess; the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except those that sang best."--Henry Van Dyke
- "We don't have an eternity to realize our dreams, only the time we are here."--Susan Taylor
- "Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."--William Jennings Bryan
- "You can't just sit there and wait for people to give you that golden dream; you've got to get out there and make it happen for yourself."--Diana Ross
- "The most practical, beautiful, workable philosophy in the world won't work--if you won't."--Zig Ziglar
- "Keep on going and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down."--Charles F. Kettering
- "There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love; there's only a scarcity of resolve to make it happen."--Wayne W. Dyer
- "The only habits you never conquer are the ones you put off doing something about."--Wess Roberts
- "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you think you cannot do."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "Never mistake motion for action."--Ernest Hemmingway
Change is Good; Nickels, Dimes, Quarters...
- "You must be the change you wish to see in the world."--Mahatma Gandhi
- "What single ability do we all have? The ability to change."--Leonard Andrews
- "It takes a deep commitment to change and an even deeper commitment to grow."--Ralph Ellison
- "When we are no longer able to change a situation ... we are challenged to change ourselves."--Victor Frankl
- "You change your life by changing your heart."--Max Lucado
- "It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory."--W. Edward Deming
- "Clinging to the past is the problem. Embracing change is the answer."--Gloria Steinem
- "The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken."--Samuel Johnson
- "An elephant can be tethered by a thread--if he believes he is captive. If we believe we are chained by habit or anxiety, we are in bondage."--John H. Crowe
- "The man who views life at 50 the same as he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life."--Muhammed Ali
- "The soft-minded man always fears change. He feels security in the status quo, and he has an almost morbid fear of the new. For him, the greatest pain is the pain of a new idea."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "A scholar who cherishes the love of comfort is not fit to be deemed a scholar."--Lao-Tzu
- "The world moves and ideas that were good once are not always good."--Eisenhower
- "Change doesn't happen while you're sitting around. Put your body in motion, and put your mind on alert that you plan to be proactive about your life from now on."--Unknown
- "We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are."--Max Depree
- "If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we are not really living."--Gail Sheehy
- "There are ... two kinds of people: those who are changing and those who are setting themselves up to be victims of change. As the world continues to march on around us, if I am only maintaining the status quo--if I'm not growing--then I'm falling behind."--Jim Clemmer
- "You cannot expect to achieve new goals or move beyond your present circumstances unless you change."--Les Brown
- "Truly every new idea is a violation of some older idea; as the awakening of tomorrow is a violation of today's slumber. As long as man continues to evolve, in other words, to separate himself from chaos, and to express himself in a higher form, he must always shatter something. In shattering, he disobeys: in breaking, he creates."--Jeanne de Vietinghoff
- "To be successful one must make change an ongoing process. Quality is a race with no finish line."--David T. Kearns
- "The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become."--Charles Du Bos
- "To be able to look at change as an opportunity to grow--that is the secret to being happy."--Joan Lunden
- "Instead of having the rug pulled from under your feet, learn to dance on a shifting carpet."--Thomas F. Crum
- "Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind."--Bruce Lee
- "Progress is a tide. If we stand still we will surely be drowned. To stay on the crest, we have to keep moving."--Harold Mayfield
- "We are not retreating - we are advancing in another direction."--General Douglas MacArthur
- "That's the risk you take if you change: that people you've been involved with won't like the new you. But other people who do will come along."--Lisa Alther
- "Change means movement. Movement means friction."--Saul Alinsky
- "If you never budge, don't expect a push."--Malcolm Forbes
- "Do not consider painful what is good for you."--Euripides
- "They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself."--Andy Warhol
- "Where have you been the past five years, and if you don't make a change in your pattern...where do you see yourself five years from now..."--unknown
- "An error doesn't become a mistake until you refuse to correct it."--Orlando A. Battista
- "The only people who cannot change are the most wise and the most stupid."--Confucius
- "No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man."--Heraclitus
- "The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn ... and change."--Carl Rogers
- "Only the wisest and the stupidest of men never change."--Confucius
- "We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers -- you can blame anyone but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change, you're the one who has got to change. It's as simple as that, isn't it?"--Katherine Hepburn
- "A bore is someone who persists in holding his own views after we have enlightened him with ours."--Unknown
- "A bore is a man who, when you ask him how he is, tells you."--Bert Leston Taylor
- "People don't realize how a man's whole life can be changed by one book."--Malcolm X
Adapt
- "Every successful man I have heard of has done the best he could with conditions as he found them, and not waited until next year for better."--Edgar W. Howe
- "Things turn out best for those that make the best of the way things turn out."--Art Linkletter
- "If you don't have the best of everything, make the best of everything that you have."--Anonymous
Inspiration
- "Words that enlighten are more precious than jewels."--Hazrat Inayat Khan
- "There is nothing stronger in the world than gentleness."--Han Suyin
- "Life's most urgent question is: what are you doing for others?"--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "Others have seen what is and asked why. I have seen what could be and asked why not."--Robert F. Kennedy
- "Some men see things as they are and say why? I dream things that never were and say 'Why not?'"--Robert Kennedy
- "Some men see things as they are and ask why. Others dream things that never were and ask why not."--George Bernard Shaw
Love
- "We cannot really love anybody with whom we never laugh."--Agnes Repplier
- "What will survive of us is love."--Philip Larkin
- "Attention is the most basic form of love; through it we bless and are blessed."--John Tarrant
- "Love's a choice. Make wise decisions."--Shellie R. Warren
- "Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."--Bruce Lee
- "Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get--only with what you are expecting to give--which is everything."--Katharine Hepburn
- "The most important thing in any relationship is not what you get but what you give.... In any case, the giving of love is an education in itself."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."--Margaret Wolfe Hungerford
- "Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it."--Confucius
- "Beauty is in the heart of the beholder."--H. G. Wells
- "We are living in a world of beauty, but few of us open our eyes to see it."--Lorado Taft
- "Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old."--Franz Kafka
- "Beauty is not caused. It is."--Emily Dickinson
- "What we see depends mainly on what we look for."--Sir John Lubbock
- "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are."--Anais Nin
- "Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its heart the absolute principle of self-sacrifice."--Woodrow T. Wilson
- "Love is the beauty of the soul."--St. Augustine
- "Love is an attempt to change a piece of a dream world into reality."--Theodor Reik
- "Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside."--Margaret Walker
- "We cannot really love anybody with whom we never laugh."--Agnes Repplier
- "It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see."--Henry David Thoreau
- "What is most beautiful in virile men is something feminine; what is most beautiful in feminine women is something masculine."--Susan Sontag
- "Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind; And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind."--William Shakespeare
- "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."--Mingon McLaughlin
- "A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short."--Andre Maurois
- "Ultimately magic finds you, if you let it."--Tony Wheeler
- "We only part to meet again."--John Gay
- "In love there are two things: bodies and words."--Joyce Carol Oates
- "Many things in life will catch your eye but few will catch your heart... Pursue those."--Unknown
- "Knowledge is gained by learning; trust by doubt; skill by practice; and love by love."--Thomas Szasz
- "Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction."--Antoine de Saint-Exupery
- "When two people love each other, they don't look at each other, they look in the same direction."--Ginger Rogers
- "Love cures people -- both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."--Dr. Karl Menninger
- "Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone--we find it with another."--Thomas Merton
- "Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away to others."--Brian Tracey
- "Two souls with a single thought, Two hearts that beat as one."--Friedrich Halm Ingomar
- "The best proof of love is trust."--Dr. Joyce Brothers
- "If you are in love...that's about the best thing that can happen to anyone. Don't let anyone make it small or light to you."--John Steinbeck
- "Love is the but the discovery of ourselves in others and the delight in the recognition."--Alexander Smith
- "Love is not blind - it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less."--Rabbi Julins Gordon
- "Some say love is blind while others say there is love at first sight. For those who say love is blind, I say open your eyes and take in the endless possibilities of beauty and compassion. For those who believe in love at first sight, take time to close your eyes, look into your heart, and find out whose face it is that you see."--John S.
- "You aren't wealthy until you have something money can't buy."--Garth Brooks
- "To write a good love letter, you ought to begin without knowing what you mean to say and to finish without knowing what you have written."--Jean Jacques Rousseau
- "Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it."--Swedish proverb
- "Love changes, and in change is true."--Wendell Berry
- "We love because it's the only true adventure."--Nikki Giovanni
- "Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."--Oliver Wendell Holmes
- "Love doesn't make the world go 'round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile."--Franklin P. Adams
- "Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile."--Franklin P. Jones
- "Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age."--Anais Nin
- "If you admire someone instead of noticing the ways you don't measure up, notice the ways in which you are similar. We really admire only people who reflect an image of what we already know is the best in ourselves. Train yourself to see what is similar!"--unknown
- "Love those who love you while they are alive."--Rael
- "Make sure that you let them know that you love them while you still have many years to go."--Mason Ovian
- "Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you."--From the last episode of "Cheers"
- "Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead; Do not write them on their tombstones, speak them rather now instead."--Anna Cummins
- "The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost."--G. K. Chesterton
- "It seems to me that true love is a discipline..."--W.B. Yeats
- "Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."--Khalil Gibran
- "One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is love."--Sophocles
- "The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt."--Rollo May
- "Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear."--John Lennon
- "Love is an irresistable desire to be irresistably desired."--Robert Frost
- "Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep burning, unquenchable."--Henry Ward Beecher
- "How many times does your heart meet...the most beautiful girl in the world?"--Harry Connick, Jr.
- "The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer."--Oliver Wendell Holmes
- "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul."--Judy Garland
- "And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye."--Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
- "Love is not limited by convenience; it is the inconvenient times that make you realize how much you are truly loved."--Officer Michael A. Mejia
- "I have no regrets. I will never regret loving someone because the feeling of love for five minutes is greater than an eternity of hurt."--Kurt Langner
- "Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh."--Wystan Hugh Auden
- "We women take love too seriously. Men wish to be loved with laughter, not with sighing. So laugh, sweetheart, laugh, or soon you may be weeping."--Minna Thomas Antrim
- "Any woman can fool a man if she wants to and if he's in love with her."--Agatha Christie
Country
- "No man is above the law and no man is below it; nor do we ask any man's permission when we ask him to obey it."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "Liberty is always dangerous, but it is the safest thing we have."--Harry Emerson Fosdick
- "A patriot must always be ready to defend his country against his government."--Edward Abbey
- "Patriotism means to stand by the country. It does not mean to stand by the president or any other public official..."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "Government is not the problem, and government is not the solution. We, the American people, we are the solution."--President Clinton
- "I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than those attending too small a degree of it."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Obedience to the law is demanded as a right; not asked as a favor."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "To announce that there must be no criticism of the President, or that we are to stand by the President, right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "The things that will destroy America are prosperity at any price, peace at any price, safety first instead of duty first, and love of soft living and the get-rich-quick theory of life."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "We look forward to the time when the power to love will replace the love of power. Then will our world know the blessings of peace."--William E(dwart) Gladstone
- "No government can be long secure without a formidable opposition."--Benjamin Disraeli
- "A patriot must always be ready to defend his country against his government."--Edward Abbey
- "War does not determine who is right - only who is left."--Bertrand Russell
- "Politics is war without bloodshed while war is politics with bloodshed."--Mao Tse-tung
- "Politics, very often, is simply economics pursued by other means."--Edward J. Nell
- "You can tell the ideals of a nation by its advertising."--Norman Douglas
- "America is a land of taxation that was founded to avoid taxation."--Lawrence J. Peter
- "A government which takes from Peter to pay Paul will always have the support of Paul."--George Bernard Shaw
- "So you think that money is the root of all evil. Have you ever asked what is the root of all money?"--Ayn Rand
- "You're not supposed to be so blind with patriotism that you can't face reality. Wrong is wrong, no matter who says it."--Malcolm X
- "In order to rally people, governments need enemies. They want us to be afraid, to hate, so we will rally behind them. And if they do not have a real enemy, they will invent one in order to mobilize us."--Thich Nhat Hanh
- "I was born an American; I will live an American; I shall die an American."--Daniel Webster
Let Freedom Ring
- "This nation will remain the land of the free only so long as it is the home of the brave."--Elmer Davis
- "Freedom is hammered out on the anvil of discussion, dissent, and debate."--Hubert H. Humphrey
- "In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes."--Gandhi
- "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "Let JUSTICE be done though the heavens fall."--Roman maxim
- "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."--Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "True peace is not merely the absence of tension: it is the presence of justice."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice."--Abraham Lincoln
- "The true charter of liberty is independence, maintained by force."--Voltaire
- "If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear."--George Orwell
- "You can't separate peace from freedom because no one can be at peace unless he has his freedom."--Malcolm X
- "The day that the black man takes an uncompromising step and realizes that he's within his rights, when his own freedom is being jeopardized, to use any means necessary to bring about his freedom or put a halt to that injustice, I don't think he'll be by himself."--Malcolm X
- "We declare our right on this earth...to be a human being, to be respected as a human being, to be given the rights of a human being in this society, on this earth, in this day, which we intend to bring into existence by any means necessary."--Malcolm X
- "We are going to have peace even if we have to fight for it."--Dwight D. Eisenhower
- "Freedom is rarely lost in a single stroke. The danger lies in losing it bit by bit."--Dennis Patrick
- "A right delayed is a right denied."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "All censorships exist to prevent any one from challenging current conceptions and existing institutions. All progress is initiated by challenging current conceptions, and executed by supplanting existing institutions. Consequently the first condition of progress is the removal of censorships."--George Bernard Shaw
- "I think the most un-American thing you can say is, 'You can't say that.'"--Garrison Keillor
- "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."--Voltaire
- "Liberty will not descend to a people; a people must raise themselves to liberty; it is a blessing that must be earned before it can be enjoyed."--Charles Colton
Insightful Quotes
- "Other things may change us, but we start and end with the family."--Anthony Brandt
- "The family unit plays a critical role in our society and in the training of the generation to come."--Sandra Day O'Connor
- "There may be luck in getting a job, but there's no luck in keeping it."--J. Ogden Armour
- "Luck is when opportunity meets preparation."--Denzel Washington
- "In the field of observation, chance favours the prepared mind."--Louis Pasteur
- "You hit homeruns not by chance but by preparation."--Roger Maris
- "Spectacular achievement is always preceded by spectacular preparation."--Robert Schuller
- "Most people have the will to win, few have the will to prepare to win."--Bobby Knight
- "Luck is being ready for the chance."--J. Frank Doble
- "What we do today, right now, Will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows."--Alexandra Stoddard
- "Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago."--Warren Buffet
- "We plant seeds that will flower as results in our lives, so best to remove the weeds of anger, avarice, envy, and doubt, that peace and abundance may manifest for all."--Dorothy Day
- "Big doesn't necessarily mean better. Sunflowers aren't better than violets."--Edna Ferber
- "My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you I the best place for the next moment."--Oprah Winfrey
- "It is not where you begin, it is where you end that counts."--Faith Littlefield
- "The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today."--Franklin D. Roosevelt
- "You can never be too curious. Pursue at least one new idea or learn one thing every day. An alert, flexible mind bounces back from trouble more easily."--Unknown
- "There's no such thing as a 'natural.' A natural dancer has to practice hard. A natural painter has to paint all the time."--Joe Louis
- "The pleasure which we most rarely experience gives us greatest delight."--Epictetus
- "Those are a success who have lived well, laughed often, and loved much; who have gained the respect of intelligent people and the love of children, who have filled their niche and accomplished their task, who leave the world better than they found it, whether by a perfect poem or a rescued soul; who never lacked appreciation of the earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best they had."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves."--William Arthur Ward
- "A hug is the perfect gift - one size fits all, and nobody minds if you exchange it."--Ivern Ball
- "Good words are worth much, and cost little."--George Herbert
- "Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you."--Oscar Wilde
- "Generosity is not giving me that which I need more than you do, but it is giving me that which you need more than I do."--Kahlil Gibran
- "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."--Thomas Haynes Bayly in "Isle of Beauty,"
- "Absence extinguishes small passions and increases great ones, as the wind will blow out a candle, and blow in a fire."--Duc de la Rocherfoucauld
- "In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit."--Albert Schweitzer
- "Gratitude is the memory of the heart."--Jean Baptiste Massieu
- "Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone."--Gladys Berthe Stern
- "Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it."--William Arthur Ward
- "How wrong it is for those who love not to express their love."--Salmon P. Chase
- "Loving can cost a lot, but not loving always costs more...."--Merle Shain
- "Of all the "attitudes" we can acquire, surely the attitude of gratitude is the most important and by far the most life-changing."--Zig Ziglar
- "An individual has a healthy personality to the exact degree to which they have the propensity to look for the good in every situation."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "The real winners in life are the people who look at every situation with an expectation that they can make it work or make it better."--Barbara Hetcher
- "It's simply a matter of doing what you do best and not worrying about what the other fellow is going to do."--John R. Amos
- "Like Neanderthals, men prefer to hunt alone or, if in a pack, at the head of it. Women, whether in the field or in a campfire, are collaborative, and when they hunt...they work together." --Russell Banks
- "Remember that children, marriages, and flower gardens reflect the kind of care they get."--H. Jackson Brown
- "The guys who fear becoming fathers don't understand that fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man."--Frank Pittman
- "No man can live happily who regards himself alone, who turns everything to his own advantage. You must live for others if you wish to live for yourself."--Seneca
- "You can get everything money will buy without a lick of character, but you can't get any of the things money won't buy--happiness, joy, peace of mind, winning relationships, etc. without character."--Zig Ziglar
- "The difficulty with marriage is that we fall in love with a personality, but must live with a character."--Peter Devries
- "A person's character is what it is. It's a little like a marriage-- only without the option of divorce. You can work on it and try to make it better, but basically you have to take the bitter with the sweet."--Hendrick Hertzberg
- "Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away."--Dorothy Parker
- "I only want to love once, but I want to love everybody for the rest of my life."--Lauren Ford
- "If grass can grow through cement, love can find you anywhere."--Cher
- "All that glitters is not gold"--John Dryden
- "It's been said that there are two days over which we have no control: yesterday, because it's a cancelled check, and tomorrow, because it's a promissory note."--Diane Conway
- "Nothing is sadder than having worldly standards without worldly means."--Van Wyck Brooks
- "If you have wit, use it to please and not to hurt: you may shine like the sun in the temperate zones without scorching."--Lord Chesterfield
- "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment."--Ben Franklin
- "Tact is the knack of making a point without making an enemy."--Isaac Newton
- "People who know little are usually great talkers, while men who know much say little."--Jean Jacques Rousseau
- "Miracles are instantaneous; they cannot be summoned, but they come of themselves, usually at unlikely moments and to those who least expect them."--Katherine Anne Porter
- "The earthly paradise is where I am."--Voltaire
- "To know the road ahead, ask those coming back."--Chinese Proverb
- "I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be."--Douglas Adams
- "The people may be made to follow a path of action, but they may not be made to understand it."--Confucius
- "The future is not some place we are going, but one we are creating. The paths to it are not found but made, and the activity of making them changes both the maker and the destination."--John Schaar
- "The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time."--Abraham Lincoln
- "It may make a difference to all eternity whether we do right or wrong today."--James Freeman Clark
- "It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have few virtues."--Abraham Lincoln
- "The problem with people who have no vices is that generally you can be pretty sure they're going to have some pretty annoying virtues."--Elizabeth Taylor
- "One very important aspect of motivation is the willingness to stop and to look at things that no one else has bothered to look at. This simple process of focusing on things that are normally taken for granted is a powerful source of creativity..."--Edward de Bono
- "Simplicity is the essence of the great, the true, and the beautiful in art."--George Sand
- "Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication."--Leonardo da Vinci
- "Ability is important, dependability is critical!"--Alexander Lockheart
- "You are the only one who can use your ability. It is an awesome responsibility."--Zig Ziglar
- "It's all right letting yourself go as long as you can let yourself back."--Mick Jagger
- "Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Nothing is more effective than sincere, accurate praise, and nothing is more lame than a cookie-cutter compliment."--Bill Walsh
- "I will praise any man that will praise me."--William Shakespeare
- "It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit."--Noël Coward
- "Fear not the path of truth for the lack of people walking on it."--Arab proverb
- "In an age of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act."--George Orwell
- "When I tell the truth, it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those that do."--William Blake
- "If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything."--Mark Twain
- "If you tell the truth, you don't need a long memory."--Jesse Ventura
- "Every man is fully satisfied that there is such a thing as truth, or he would not ask any questions."--Charles Sanders Peirce
- "Truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it."--Flannery O'Connor
- "Truth resides in every human heart, and one has to search for it there, and to be guided by truth as one sees it. But no one has a right to coerce others to act according to his own view of truth."--Mahatma Mohandas K. Gandhi
- "There is no conversation more boring than the one where everybody agrees."--Michel de Montaigne
- "A good conversationalist is not one who remembers what was said, but says what someone wants to remember."--John Mason Brown
- "The true spirit of conversation consists in building on another man's observation, not overturning it."--Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton
- "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius - and a lot of courage - to move in the opposite direction."--E. F. Schumacher
- "Violence as a way of achieving justice is both impractical and immoral. It is impractical because it is a descending spiral ending in destruction for all. The old law of an eye for an eye leaves everybody blind. It is immoral because it seeks to humiliate the opponent rather than win his understanding; it seeks to annihilate rather than to convert."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Men willingly believe what they wish."--Julius Caesar
- "The fool's mind wanders, the wise mind wonders."--Patrick J. Mills
- "Speak softly and carry a big stick."--Theodore Roosevelt
- "A loud voice cannot compete with a clear voice, even if it's a whisper."--Barry Neil Kaufman
- "Talk low, talk slow, and don't say too much."--John Wayne
- "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."--Lincoln
- "Let thy speech be better than silence, or be silent."--Dionysius the Elder
- "Silence is one of the great arts of conversation."--Marcus Tullius Cicero
- "You cannot speak that which you do not know. You cannot share that which you do not feel. You cannot translate that which you do not have. And you cannot give that which you do not possess. To give it and to share it, and for it to be effective, you first need to have it. Good communication starts with good preparation."--Jim Rohn
- "The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said."--Peter F. Drucker
- "Talking is a hydrant in the yard and writing is a faucet upstairs in the house. Opening the first takes the pressure off the second."--Robert Frost
- "There are no secrets better kept than the secrets that everybody guesses."--George Bernard Shaw
- "Delay is preferable to error."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee."--Muhammad Ali
- "Adventure is worthwhile in itself."--Amelia Earhart
- "A man may die, nations may rise and fall, but an idea lives on."--John F. Kennedy
- "You can kill a man but you can't kill an idea."--Medgar Evers
- "The best way to have a good idea is to have lots of ideas."--Linus Pauling
- "To get your ideas across, use small words, big ideas, and short sentences."--John H. Patterson
- "Ideas are the raw material of progress. Everything first takes shape in the form of an idea. But an idea by itself is worth nothing. An idea, like a machine, must have power applied to it before it can accomplish anything."--B.C. Forbes
- "Getting an idea is like sitting down on a pin; it should make you jump up and do something."--E. L. Simpson
- "A mediocre idea that generates enthusiasm will go farther than a great idea that inspires no one."--Mary Kay Ash
- "You cannot do a kind act too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "Kindness is more than deeds. It is an attitude, an expression, a look, a touch. It is anything that lifts another person."--C. Neil Strait
- "You may be sorry that you spoke, sorry you stayed or went, sorry you won or lost, sorry so much was spent. But as you go through life, you'll find--you're never sorry you were kind."--Herb Prochnow
- "I expect to pass through this life but once. If, therefore there can be any kindness I can show or any good thing I can do for any fellow being let me do it now...as I shall not pass this way again."--William Penn
- "I expect to pass through the world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness I can show to any creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer it, for I shall not pass this way again."--Stephen Grellet
- "When I was young, I admired clever people. Now that I am old, I admire kind people."--Abraham Heschel
- "This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness."--The Dalai Lama
- "Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."--Mother Teresa
- "Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around."--Leo Buscaglia
- "Superstition is the religion of simple minds."--Edmund Burke
- "That which has always been accepted by everyone, everywhere, is almost certain to be false."--Paul Valery
- "Books are the shoes with which we tread the footsteps of great minds."--Unknown
- "A bookstore is one of the only pieces of evidence we have that people are still thinking."--Jerry Seinfeld
- "We must form our minds by reading deep rather than wide."--Marcus Fabius Quintilian
- "The poet can only write the poems; it takes the reader to complete the meaning."--Nikki Giovanni
- "The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much it is whether we provide enough for those who have little."--Franklin Delano Roosevelt
- "In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us."--Flora Edwards
- "Thank you to all the people in the world who are always 10% kinder than they need to be. That's what really makes the world go round."--Helen Exley
- "The faintest ink is more powerful than the strongest memory."--Old Chinese Proverb
- "Memory is the mother of all wisdom."--Aeschylus
- "Patience can't be acquired overnight. It is just like building up a muscle. Every day you need to work on it."--Eknath Easwaran
- "If passion drives, let reason hold the reins."--Ben Franklin
- "It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action, and discipline that enabled us to follow through."--Zig Zigler
- "The surest test of discipline is its absence."--Clara Barton
- "The difference between 'involvement' and 'commitment' is like an eggs-and-ham breakfast: the chicken was 'involved' - the pig was 'committed'."--Unknown
- "Nothing makes us appreciate our bodies more than injury. If you've been hurt, use your recovery to plan ways to avoid future problems. Do you need vitamins? Nutritional counseling? More time for stretching?"--Unknown
- "Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body."--Joseph Addison
- "Everyone believes very easily whatever he fears or desires."--Jean de la Fontaine
- "The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear."--H.P. Lovecraft
- "There are two levers for moving men -- interest and fear."--Napoleon Bonaparte
- "People react to fear, not love - they don’t teach that in Sunday School, but it’s true."--Leonardo da Vinci
- "Fear defeats more people than any other one thing in the world."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "The greatest weakness of all is the great fear of appearing weak."--Jacques Benigne Bossuet
- "We must build dikes of courage to hold back the flood of fear."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "Build up your weaknesses until they become your strong points."--Knute Rockne
- "Concentrate on your good points. If you play to your strengths, your shortcomings may seem to recede."--Unknown
- "A closed mind is a dying mind."--Edna Ferber
- "The eye only sees what the mind is prepared to comprehend."--Henri L Bergson
- "Those who dance appear insane to those who cannot hear the music."--Mark Kleiman
- "Music is the divine way to tell beautiful, poetic things to the heart."--Pablo Casals
- "If you have an important point to make, don't try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time a tremendous whack."--Winston Churchill
- "Plans get you into things but you must work your way out."--Will Rogers
- "Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun's rays do not burn until brought to a focus."--Alexander Graham Bell
- "If I wish to compose or write or pray or preach well, I must be angry. Then all the blood in my veins is stirred, and my understanding is sharpened."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "When written in Chinese, the word 'crisis' is composed of two characters - one represents danger, and the other represents opportunity."--Saul David Alinsky
- "A man can be destroyed but not defeated."--Ernest Hemingway
- "If I were asked to give what I consider the single most useful bit of advice for all humanity it would be this: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and when it comes, hold your head high, look it squarely in eye and say, 'I will be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me.'"--Ann Landers
- "Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal."--Henry Ford
- "Obstacles are built into every opportunity. You have to be willing to work through them to succeed."--unknown
- "Obstacles are necessary for success... victory comes only after many struggles and countless defeats. Yet each struggle, each defeat, sharpens your skills and strengths, your courage and your endurance, your ability and your confidence and thus each obstacle is a comrade-in-arms forcing you to become better... or quit. Each rebuff is an opportunity to move forward; turn away from them, avoid them, and you throw away your future."--Og Mandino
- "A certain amount of opposition is a great help to a man. Kites rise against, not with, the wind."--John Neal
- "Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs."--Henry Ford
- "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are."--President Theodore Roosevelt
- "Become so wrapped up in something that you forget to be afraid."--Lady Bird Johnson
- "The saying that knowledge is power is not quite true. Used knowledge is power, and more than power. It is money, and service, and better living for our fellowmen, and a hundred other good things. But mere knowledge, left unused, has no power in it."--Edward E. Free
- "Knowledge might be power, but only when you take action."--Richard Keeves
- "These days people seek knowledge, not wisdom. Knowledge is of the past, wisdom is of the future."--Vernon Cooper
- "Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life."--Immanuel Kant
- "Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living; the other helps you make a life."--Sandra Carey
- "Knowledge comes by taking things apart: analysis. But wisdom comes by putting things together."--John A. Morrison
- "Turn your wounds into wisdom."--Oprah Winfrey
- "The artist doesn't have time to listen to the critics. The ones who want to be writers read the reviews, the ones who want to write don't have the time to read reviews."--William Faulkner
- "Plan your work and work your plan."--Napoloen Hill
- "Learn something new. Try something different. Convince yourself that you have no limits."--Brian Tracey
- "Never do today what you can put off till tomorrow. Delay may give clearer light as to what is best to be done."--Aaron Burr
- "Every man is the architect of his own future."--Appius Claudius
- "It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark."--Howard Ruff
- "I find it fascinating that most people plan their vacations with better care than they plan their lives. Perhaps that is because escape is easier than change."--Jim Rohn
- "The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day."--Gloria Steinem
- "The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one."--Mark Twain
- "If you plan to go the distance, YOU have to do the roadwork."--Chuck Parker
- "The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want now."--Zig Ziglar
- "To do what others cannot do is talent. To do what talent cannot do is genius."--Will Henry
- "Talent does what it can; genius does what it must."--Edward George Bulwer-Lytton
- "Doing easily what others find difficult is talent; doing what is impossible for talent is genius."--Henri Frederic Amiel
- "Don't be vain because you happen to have talent. You are not responsible for that; it was not of your doing. What you do with your talent is what matters."--Pablo Casals
- "If you have a talent, use it in every which way possible. Don't hoard it. Don't dole it out like a miser. Spend it lavishly, like a millionaire intent on going broke."--Brenda Francis
- "All of us are born for a reason, but all of us don't discover why. Success in life has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It's what you do for others."--Danny Thomas
- "We're here for a reason. I believe a bit of the reason is to throw little torches out to lead people through the dark."--Whoopi Goldberg
- "Success requires no explanations. Failure permits no alibis."--Napoleon Hill
- "If one seeks for success and prepares for failure, he will get the situation he has prepared for."--Florence Scovel Shinn
- "If you don't learn to laugh at troubles, you won't have anything to laugh at when you grow old"--Edward W. Howe
- "We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing."--George Bernard Shaw
- "You should not confuse your career with your life."--Dave Barry
- "Assumptions are the termites of relationships."--Henry Winkler
- "We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done."--Longfellow
- "Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold -- but so does a hard-boiled egg."--Anonymous
- "Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you."--William Arthur Ward
- "Get around the right people. Associate with positive, goal-oriented people who encourage and inspire you."--Brian Tracey
- "Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity. They are more afraid of life than death."--James F. Byrnes
- "Anyone who thinks sunshine is happiness has never danced in the rain."--Author Unknown
- "Some people are making such thorough preparation for rainy days that they aren't enjoying today's sunshine."--William Feather
- "Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey! "--Barbara Hoffman
- "It's fun to get together and have something good to eat at least once a day. That's what human life is all about--enjoying things."--Julia Child
- "I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all."--Laura Ingalls Wilder
- "Don't try to rewrite what the moving finger has writ, and don't ever look over your shoulder."--Ogden Nash
- "To choose time is to save time."--Francis Bacon
- "Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is."--Ernest Hemingway
- "There are two kinds of people who never amount to much: those who cannot do what they are told, and those who can do nothing else."--Cyrus Curtis
- "There are 3 types of people in the world...Ones that watch things happen...Ones that make things happen...And ones that wonder what the heck happened!"--unknown
- "I prefer to be a dreamer among the humblest, with visions to be realized, than lord among those without dreams and desires."--Kahlil Gibran
- "All people dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their mind, wake in the morning to find that it was vanity. But the dreamers of the day are dangerous people, for they dream their dreams with open eyes, and make them come true."--T.E. Lawrence (AKA "Lawrence of Arabia")
- "They who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night."--Edgar Allan Poe
- "In bed my real love has always been the sleep that rescued me by allowing me to dream."--Luigi Pirandello
- "There are no great people in this world, only great challenges which ordinary people rise to meet."--William Frederick Halsy, Jr.
- "People who are able to do their own thinking should not allow others to do it for them."--Elbert Hubbard
- "If you can't see it, before you see it, you'll never see it."--Dr. Jack Graham
- "Poor eyes limit your sight; poor vision limits your deeds."--Franklin Field
- "Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare."--Japanese Proverb
- "The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight but has no vision."--Helen Keller
- "Where there is no vision, there is no hope."--George Washington Carver
- "Dreams have only one owner at a time. That's why dreamers are lonely."--Erma Bombeck
- "The farther backwards you can look, the farther forward you are likely to see."--Winston Churchill
- "When you're in a good mood, bring up the past. When you're in a bad mood, stick to the present. And when you're not feeling emotional at all, it's time to talk about the future."--Marilyn Vos Savant
- "Sometimes when you stand face to face with someone, you cannot see his face."--Mikhail Gorbachev
- "Money never made a man happy yet, nor will it. There is nothing in its nature to produce happiness. The more a man has, the more he wants. Instead of its filling a vacuum, it makes one."--Ben Franklin
- "Money can be translated into the beauty of living."--Sylvia Porter
- "The only thing money gives you is the freedom of not worrying about money."--Johnny Carson
- "A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing."--Oscar Wilde
- "Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing."--Oscar Wilde
- "Most people fail in life because they major in minor things."--Anthony Robbins
- "All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me ... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you."--Walt Disney
- "Prosperity best discovers vice, but adversity best discovers virtue."--Francis Bacon
- "To know what is right and not to do it is the worst cowardice."--Confucius
- "It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both."--Niccolo Machiavelli
- "Money, the root of all evil ... but the cure for all sadness."--Mike Gill
- "Sooner or later we all discover that the important moments in life are not the advertised ones, not the birthdays, the graduations, the weddings, not the great goals achieved. The real milestones are less prepossessing. They come to the door of memory."--Susan B. Anthony
- "In good times people advertise because they want to; in bad times they advertise because they have to."--Bruce Barton
- "Words make you think a thought. Music makes you feel a feeling. A song makes you feel a thought."--E.Y. Harbug
- "I got a fortune cookie that said, "To remember is to understand." I have never forgotten it. A good judge remembers what it was like to be a lawyer. A good editor remembers being a writer. A good parent remembers what it was like to be a child."--Anna Quindlen
- "I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand."--Confucius
- "Sow a thought, and you reap an act; Sow an act, and you reap a habit; Sow a habit, and you reap a character; Sow a character, and you reap a destiny."--Charles Reade
- "Great beauty, great strength, and great riches are really and truly of no great use; a right heart exceeds all."--Benjamin Franklin
- "A kind heart is a fountain of gladness making everything in its vicinity freshen into smiles."--Washington Irving
- "Wear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles."--George Elliot
- "He gives little who gives with a frown; he gives much who gives little with a smile."--The Talmud
- "It's easy to make a buck. It's a lot tougher to make a difference."--Tom Brokaw
- "Goodness is the only investment which never fails."--Henry David Thoreau
- "Maturity begins to grow when you can sense your concern for others outweighing your concern for yourself."--John Macnaughton
- "Kindness consists in loving people more than they deserve."--Joseph Joubert
- "What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?"--Jean-Jacques Rousseau
- "In truth, the only difference between those who have failed and those who have succeeded lies in the difference of their habits. Good habits are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure. Thus, the first law I will obey, which precedes all others, is--"I will form good habits and become their slaves."--Og Mandino
- "There is a real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment... It gives warmth and good feeling to all your personal relationships."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "There are two ways of spreading light - to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it."--Edith Wharton
- "It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in the giving."--Mother Teresa
- "What comes from the heart, goes to the heart."--Samuel Taylor Coleridge
- "The beauty I am searching for is inside, sometimes hidden by atrocities...that beauty that no eye, no finger will ever be able to perceive...that beauty that time is the only one able to preserve...that beauty that is only released by the heart...the rest slowly but surely perishes and is therefore no good to me at all."--Philippe Fichot
- "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."--Helen Keller
- "The amount you give isn't important. What matters is what that amount represents in terms of your life."--Jim Rohn
- "A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song."--Maya Angelou
- "Give to the world the best you have, and the best will come back to you."--Madeline S. Bridges
- "You never know what happiness a simple act of kindness will bring about."-Bree Abel
- "Nothing you do for children is ever wasted. They seem not to notice us, hovering, averting our eyes, and they seldom offer thanks, but what we do for them is never wasted."--Garrison Keillor
- "Isolation is aloneness that feels forced upon you, like a punishment. Solitude is aloneness you choose and embrace. I think great things can come out of solitude, out of going to a place where all is quiet except the beating of your heart."--Jeanne Marie Laskas
- "Solitude is the human condition in which I keep myself company. Loneliness comes about when I am alone without being able to split up into the two-in-one, without being able to keep myself company."--Hannah Arendt
- "Talents are best nurtured in solitude: character is best formed in the stormy billows of the world."--Goethe
- "Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted."--Albert Einstein
- "Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It's much sexier than any body part."--Aimee Mullins
- "Being a sex symbol has to do with an attitude, not looks. Most men think it's looks; most women know otherwise."--Kathleen Turner
- "To be persuasive, one must be believable. To be believable, we must be credible. To be credible, we must be truthful."--Edward R. Murrow
- "The chief lesson I have learned in a long life is that the only way you can make a man trustworthy is by trusting him; and the surest way to make him untrustworthy is to distrust him and show your distrust."—-Henry L. Stimson
- "Don't trust the person who has broken faith once."--William Shakespeare
- "When people have all the material things they need, they seem not to need each other. They are self-sufficient. There is no interdependence. There is no love. In a poor community, however, there is often a lot of mutual help and sharing of goods, as well as help from outside. Poverty can even become a cement of unity."--Jean Vanier
- "Dreams are essential to life."--Anais Nin
- "Dreams are the touchstones of our character."--Henry David Thoreau
- "The only thing that will stop you from fufilling your dreams is you."--Tom Bradley
- "We won't always know whose lives we touched and made better for our having cared, because actions can sometimes have unforeseen ramifications. What's important is that you do care and you act."--Charlotte Lunsford
- "Children need models more than they need critics."--Joseph Joubert
- "The cup that is already full cannot have more added to it. In order to receive the further good to which we are entitled, we must give of that which we have."--Margaret Becker
- "The most desired gift of love is not diamonds or roses or chocolate. It is focused attention."--Rick Warren
- "No gift is too small to give, nor too simple to receive, if it's chosen with thoughtfulness and given with love."--Unknown
- "A gift isn't a gift unless it has meaning. Just giving things to people, especially children, create the expectation of more things."--Oprah Winfrey
- "Empty pockets never held anyone back. Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that."--Norman Vincent Peale
- "It is hard for an empty sack to stand upright."--Benjamin Franklin
- "The easiest way for your children to learn about money is for you not to have any."--Katharine Whitehorn
- "Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate."--Albert Schweitzer
- "In prosperity, our friends know us; in adversity, we know our friends."--John Churton Collins
- "Enlighten the people generally, and tyranny and oppressions of body and mind will vanish like evil spirits at the dawn of day."--Thomas Jefferson
- "When you choose to be pleasant and positive in the way you treat others, you have also chosen, in most cases, how you are going to be treated by them."--Zig Ziglar
- "Through you I learned how great life can be, how the simple things in life are really the most important and how you treat other people is really all that matters."--Lisa Scully-O'Grady
- "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good."--Ann Landers
- "You're best when you're not in charge. The ego blocks the muse."--Robin Williams
- "The best index to a person's character is (a) how he treats people who can't do him any good, and (b) how he treats people who can't fight back."--Abigail van Buren
- "Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking."--H. Jackson Brown Jr.
- "Character may be manifested in the greatest moments, but it is made in the small ones."--Phillips Brooks
- "Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved."--Helen Keller
- "Character is doing the right thing when nobody is looking."--J. C. Watts
- "A man's character is his fate."--Heraclitus
- "Character is simply habit long continued."--Plutarch
- "The qualities of a great man are "vision, integrity, courage, understanding, the power of articulation, and profundity of character."--Dwight Eisenhower
- "The really great man is the man who makes every man feel great."--G.K. Chesterton
- "A man's character is determined by how hard he fights for what he believes in."--Aben Kandel and Warren Duff
- "The superior man is satisfied and composed; the mean man is always full of distress."--Confucius
- "What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others."--Confucius
- "It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has."--Henry Ward Beecher
- "Men do not desire merely to be rich, but to be richer than other men."--John Stuart Mill
- "A sense of humor can help you overlook the unattractive, tolerate the unpleasant, cope with the unexpected, and smile through the unbearable."--Moshe Waldoks
- "No matter how much madder it may make you, get out of bed forcing a smile. You may not smile because you are cheerful; but if you will force yourself to smile, you'll end up laughing. You will be cheerful because you smile. Repeated experiments prove that when man assumes the facial expressions of a given mental mood--any given mood--then that mental mood itself will follow."--Kenneth Goode
- "A sense of humor doesn't mean the ability to tell jokes or make wisecracks. It's a sense of proportion and the courage to smile. It's the ability to take yourself and your problems with a grain of salt, the ability to smile at yourself and the world as well."--John Luther
- "If you smile when no one else is around, you really mean it."--Andy Rooney
- "A good laugh overcomes more difficulties and dissipates more dark clouds than any other one thing."--Laura Ingalls Wilder
- "There is nothing so strong or safe, in any emergency of life, as simple truth."--Charles Dickens
- "Did you ever see an unhappy horse? Did you ever see a bird that had the blues? One reason why birds and horses are not unhappy is because they are not trying to impress other birds and horses."--Dale Carnegie
- "It's taken me all my life to understand that it is not necessary to understand everything."--Rene Coty
- "Who knows what women can be when they are finally free to become themselves."--Charles De Gaulle
- "There is a woman at the beginning of all things."--Alphonse de Lamartine
- "When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she has told them they are handsome."--Jean Giraudoux
- "Was she so loved because her eyes were so beautiful, or were her eyes so beautiful because she was so loved?"--Anzia Yenerska
- "Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are."--Marianne Williamson
- "Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy."--Thich Nhat Hanh
- "The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for."--Allan K. Chalmers
- "Shall I give you my recipe for happiness?... I find everything wonderful and nothing miraculous."--Norman Douglas
- "They say a person needs just these things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for."--Tom Bodett
- "We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about."--Charles Kingsley
- "There are souls in this world which have the gift of finding joy everywhere and of leaving it behind them when they go."--Frederick Faber
- "We are meant to express how we feel about life. It's like breathing: Inhale the experiences of life, exhale how you feel about them. We are at our best when we can turn our impressions into expressions. The equation goes like this: Impression without expression equals depression."--Don Hahn
- "Medicine, law, business, engineering: these are noble pursuits necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love -- these are what we stay alive for."--"Dead Poets Society"
- "Plain women know more about men than beautiful ones do. But beautiful women don't need to know about men. It's the men who have to know about beautiful women."--Katharine Hepburn
- "It takes two to make a marriage a success and only one a failure."--Herbert Samuel
- "It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages."--Friedrich Nietzsche
- "It takes one person to forgive, it takes two people to be reunited."--Lewis B. Smedes
- "If you judge people, you have no time to love them."--Mother Theresa
- "If you enjoy the fragrance of a rose, you must accept the thorns which it bears."--Isaac Hayes
- "Ideologies separate us. Dreams and anguish bring us together."--Eugene Ionesco
- "You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong. You cannot help small men by tearing down big men. You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich. You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage-payer. You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your income. You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatreds. You cannot build character and courage by taking away a man's initiative and independence. You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves."--Abraham Lincoln
- "You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find it within himself."--Galileo
- "Tradition is a guide and not a jailer."--W. Somerset Maugham
- "We understand that you can't transform people who don't have internal drive and desire to create. But we also know it doesn't work to urge people to think outside the box without giving them the tools to climb out."--Laurie Dunnavant
- "He who has imagination without learning has wings and no feet."--Joseph Joubert
- "Imagination is not a talent of some men but is the health of every man."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- "I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious."--Albert Einstein
- "Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the complicated simple, awesomely simple, that's creativity."--Charles Mingus
- "Sometimes the best helping hand you can give is a good, firm push."--Joann Thomas
- "Don't tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results."--George S. Patton
- "If someone is going down the wrong road, he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. What he needs is education to turn him around."--Jim Rohn
- "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right."--Hannah Whitall Smith
- "Advice is like snow; the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind."--Samuel Taylor Coleridge
- "Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't."--Erica Jong
- "Whatever advice you give, keep it short."--Horace
- "The influence of each human being on others in this life is a kind of immortality."--John Quincy Adams
- "The only way in which one human being can properly attempt to influence another is by encouraging him to think for himself, instead of endeavoring to instill ready made opinions into his head."--Sir Leslie Stephen
- "On the whole human beings want to be good, but not too good and not quite all the time."--George Orwell
- "When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it."--Edgar Watson Howe
- "You cannot reason a person out of a position he did not reason himself into in the first place."--Jonathan Swift
- "The truth always turns out to be simpler than you thought."--Richard Feynman
- "The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt."--Thomas Merton
- "There is no worse lie than a truth misunderstood by those who hear it."--William James
- "It's not a matter of what is true that counts but a matter of what is perceived to be true."--Henry Kissinger
- "Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth."--Sherlock Holmes
- "Responsibility is the price of greatness."--Winston Churchill
- "The price of greatness is responsibility."--Winston Churchill
- "If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves."--Thomas A. Edison
- "There is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to possess it."--Napoleon Hill
- "If a man hasn't discovered something he will die for, he isn't fit to live."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "A man who won't die for something is not fit to live."--Martin Luther King Jr.
- "If you stop searching, you stop living, because then you're dwelling in the past. If you're not reaching forward to any growth or future, you might as well be dead."--Wynn Bullock
- "The secret of life is to have a task, something you devote your entire life to, something you bring everything to, every minute of the day for the rest of your life. And the most important thing is, it must be something you cannot possibly do."--Henry Moore
- "I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing."--Anais Ninn
- "He only is exempt from failures who makes no efforts."--Archbishop Richard Whately
- "Real loss only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself."--Robin Williams
- "Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."--Norman Cousins
- "Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which can only exist when I do not?"--Epicurus
- "Healthy children will not fear life if their elders have integrity enough not to fear death."--Erik H. Erikson
- "The love of money is the root of all evil."--Paul
- "Do not hire a man who does your work for money, but him who does it for love of it."--Henry David Thoreau
- "To be successful in business, be daring, be first, be different."--William Marchant
- "When you do the common things in life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world."--George Washington Carver
- "A friendship founded on business is better than a business founded on friendship."--John D. Rockefeller, Jr.
- "To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to."--Khalil Gibran
- "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Never give a person more power than he can use, for use it he will."--Cotton Mather
- "It is easy to be brave from a safe distance."--Aesop
- "The fearless are merely fear-less. People who act in spite of their fear are truly brave."--James A. LaFond-Lewis
- "...courage is only an accumulation of small steps."--George Konrad
- "Courage is almost a contradiction in terms. It means a strong desire to live taking the form of a readiness to die."--G. K. Chesterton
- "Courage is simply the willingness to be afraid and act anyway."--Robert Anthony
- "Courage is the art of being the only one who knows you're scared to death."--Earl Wilson
- "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear."--Ambrose Redmoon
- "True courage is not the absence of fear; rather it is the taking of action in spite of the fear."--Anonymous
- "To face despair and not give in to it, that's courage."--Ted Koppel
- "Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."--Anais Ninn
- "Without courage, you cannot practice any other virtue. You have to have courage - courage of different kinds: first, intellectual courage, to sort out different values and make up your mind about which is the one which is right for you to follow. You have to have moral courage to stick up to that - no matter what comes in your way, no matter what the obstacle and the opposition is."--Indira Gandhi
- "Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen."--Winston Churchill
- "I believe that a man is the strongest soldier for daring to die unarmed."--Mohandas Gandhi
- "Just as courage imperils life; fear protects it."--Leonardo Da Vinci
- "To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."--Bertrand Russell
- "Do the thing you fear, then the death of fear is certain."--Brian Tracey
- "Once you face your fear, nothing is ever as hard as you think."--Olivia Newton-Jonn
- "There would be no one to frighten you if you refused to be afraid."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- "You can't underestimate the power of fear."--Patricia Nixon
- "No passion so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear."--Edmund Burke
- "The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am. Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their waking thoughts on what they should have or would have done, or what they can't do."--Dr. Dennis Waitley
- "If there were in the world today any large number of people who desired their own happiness more than they desired the unhappiness of others, we could have a paradise in a few years."--Bertrand Russell
- "It is hard to believe that a man is telling the truth when you know that you would lie if you were in his place."--H. L. Mencken
- "In quarrelling, the truth is always lost."--Publilius Syrus
- "You can't shake hands with a clenched fist."--Indira Gandhi
- "The bird of paradise alights only in the hand that does not grasp."--John Berry
- "Inaction may be the highest form of action."--Jerry Brown
- "Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake."--Napoleon Bonaparte
- "You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."--Eric Hoffer
- "The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend."--Abraham Lincoln
- "Why fight fury with fury? You'll only blow up the block (or the world). Instead, walk away or stand still and breathe. Give the "enemy" space and provide yourselves with an opening for mutual understanding."--Unknown
- "He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals."--Benjamin Franklin
- "If we let things terrify us, life will not be worth living."--Seneca
- "Fear not those who argue but those who dodge."--Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
- "A tough lesson in life that one has to learn is that not everybody wishes you well."--Dan Rather
- "Hatred -- The anger of the weak."--Alphonse Daudet
- "If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us."--Hermann Hesse
- "When we hate our enemies, we are giving them power over us: power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health and our happiness. Our enemies would dance with joy if only they knew how they were worrying us, lacerating us, and getting even with us! Our hate is not hurting them at all, but our hate is turning our days and nights into a hellish turmoil."--Dale Carnegie
- "You lose a lot of time hating people."--Marion Anderson
- "Always go before our enemies with confidence, otherwise our apparent uneasiness inspires them with greater boldness."--Napoleon Bonaparte
- "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."--Mahatma Gandhi
- "Nothing brings families together faster than forgiveness. That should make it Step No. 1, but most of us find forgiving hard. We associate it with weakness and losing when, actually, the reverse is true. When you forgive, you gain strength and come out a winner. You break free of control by the other person's actions."--Dr. Joyce Brothers
- "As long as you don't forgive, who and whatever it is will occupy rent-free space in your mind."--Isabelle Holland
- "Injuries too well remembered cannot heal."--Benjamin R. Barber
- "There's no operation where you can have your anger cut out. But if you work on yourself, as you get better, you'll be more capable of seeing others as flawed human beings. That makes it easier to forgive."--Robin Quivers
- "Don't fight a battle if you don't gain anything by winning."--Erwin Rommel
- "To lose patience is to lose the battle."--Mahatma Gandhi
- "Perhaps there is only one cardinal sin: impatience. Because of impatience we are driven out of Paradise; because of impatience we cannot return."--Franz Kafka
- "If you can fix the thing that worries you, then fix it, otherwise don't waste precious time or energy on it."--Colleen Grant
- "I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a canceled note - torn in two and burned up so that it never can be shown against one."--Henry Ward Beecher
- "He who cannot forgive others destroys the bridge over which he himself must pass."--George Herbert
- "The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn."--David Russell
- "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- "The things that will destroy us are: politics without principle; pleasure without conscience; wealth without work; knowledge without character; business without morality; science without humanity, and worship without sacrifice."--Mahatma Gandhi
- "What difference does it make how much you have? What you do not have amounts to much more."--Seneca
- "When the rich wage war it's the poor who die."--Jean-Paul Sartre
- "The sin they do two by two they must pay for one by one."--Rudyard Kipling
- "Men are so simple and so ready to obey present necessities, that one who deceives will always find those who allow themselves to be deceived."--Niccolò Macchiavelli
- "Our necessities never equal our wants."--Benjamin Franklin
- "Sleep, nature's rest, divine tranquility, That brings peace to the mind...."--Ovid
- "The best words for resolving a disagreement are, 'I could be wrong; I often am.' It's true."--Brian Tracey
- "Treat yourself to flattering exercise pants and a brightly colored tank. It's a matter of time before science proves that it's more fun to exercise when you look cute."--Unknown
- "Our body is a machine for living."--Leo Tolstoy
- "Durability is part of what makes a great athlete."--Bill Russell
Colorful Quips
- Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else.
- "Nobody can be exactly like me. Sometimes even I have trouble doing it."--Tallulah Bankhead
- "A man doesn't know what he knows until he knows what he doesn't know."--Lawrence J. Peter
- "As we grow as unique persons, we learn to respect the uniqueness of others."--Rober Schuller
- "Adults are obsolete children."--Dr. Seuss
- "If you've never been hated by your child, you've never been a parent."--Bette Davis
- "Whether you're a man or a woman the fascination resides in finding out that we're alike."--Marguerite Duras
- "The only certainty is that nothing is certain."--Pliny the Elder
- "I never wanted to be famous. I only wanted to be great."--Ray Charles
- "There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about."--Oscar Wilde
- "Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door."--Coco Chanel
- "Nobody goes there anymore, it's too crowded."--Yogi Berra
- "Normal is not something you aspire to, it's something to get away from."--Jodie Foster
- "The closest to perfection a person ever comes is when he fills out a job application form."--Evan Esar
- "Bad habits are like a comfortable bed, easy to get into, but hard to get out of."--Unknown
- "Credibility, like virginity, can only be lost once and never recovered."--Charley Reese
- "Being a husband is a whole-time job."--Arnold Bennett
- "This is like deja vu all over again."--Yogi Berra
- "Every generation imagines itself to be more intelligent than the one that went before it, and wiser than the one that comes after it."--George Orwell
- "He who demands little gets it."--Ellen Glasgow
- "A thing worth having is a thing worth cheating for."--W.C. Fields
- "He who dies with the most toys is, nonetheless, still dead."--Unknown
- "If men can run the world, why can't they stop wearing neckties? How intelligent is it to start the day by tying a little noose around your neck?"--Linda Ellerbee
- "Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It's the transition that's troublesome."--Isaac Asimov
- "The learned man knows that he is ignorant."--Victor Hugo
- "He who laughs last, thinks slowest."--Confucius
- "In this life he laughs longest who laughs last."--John Masefield
- "The early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese."--Anonymous
- "If you think your boss is stupid, remember: you wouldn't have a job if he was any smarter."--John Gotti
- "It's noble to be good. It's nobler to teach others to be good, and less trouble."--Mark Twain
- "Do not do unto others as you would that they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same."--George Bernard Shaw
- "Spoon feeding in the long run teaches us nothing but the shape of the spoon."--E.M. Forster
- "People will pay more to be entertained than educated."--Johnny [John William] Carson
- "The chief reason for going to school is to get the impression fixed for life that there is a book side for everything."--Robert Frost
- "Sometimes it is harder to deprive oneself of a pain than of a pleasure."--F. Scott Fitzgerald
- "Quotations can be valuable, like raisins in the rice pudding, for adding iron as well as eye appeal."--Peg Bracken
- "We know what happens to people who stay in the middle of the road. They get run over."--Aneurin Bevan
- "The only things in the middle of the road are yellow stripes and dead armadillos."--Jim Hightower
- "Standing in the middle of the road is very dangerous; you get knocked down by the traffic from both sides."--Margaret Thatcher
- "Age is something that doesn't matter, unless you are a cheese."--Billie Burke
- "Middle age is when your age starts to show around your middle."--Bob Hope
- "If I were two-faced, would I be wearing this one?"--Abraham Lincoln
- "It is the dull man who is always sure, and the sure man who is always dull."--H.L. Mencken
- "I apologize for the long letter but I didn't have the time to write a short one."--Thomas Jefferson
- "Essays should be like miniskirts. Short enough to be attractive, yet long enough to cover the main parts."--Unknown
- "Do not bite at the bait of pleasure till you know there is no hook beneath it."--Thomas Jefferson
- "If you want to succeed in life...you must pick 3 bones to carry with you at all times: a wish bone, a backbone, and a funny bone."--Reba McEntire-
- "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. No use being a damn fool about it."--W.C. Fields
- "About the time we think we can make ends meet, somebody moves the ends."--Herbert Hoover
- "I'm like a duck: calm above the water, and paddling like hell underneath."--Fred Shero
- "There comes a time in every man's life and I've had many of them."--Casey Stengel
- "Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish."--Euripides
- "The root of not listening is knowing. If I already know the truth, why do I need to listen to you?"--Adam Kahane
- "It is impossible for a man to begin to learn what he think he knows."--Epictetus
- "When a man tells you that he got rich through hard work, ask him: 'Whose?'--Don Marquis
- "I haven't failed, I've found ten thousand ways that don't work."--Ben Franklin
- "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."--Thomas Alva Edison
- "I make it a policy to try never to make a complete idiot of myself twice in the same way. After all, there's always all kinds of new ways to make a complete idiot of myself. Why repeat the old ones?"--Margot Dalton
- "Have you ever noticed? Anybody going slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a moron."--George Carlin
- "All the people like us are We, and everyone else is They."--Rudyard Kipling
- "Remember if people talk behind your back, it only means you are two steps ahead."--Fannie Flagg
- "Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else."--Will Rogers
- "Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go."--Oscar Wilde
- "Some people can stay longer in an hour than others can in a week."--William Dean Howells
- "People seem to enjoy things more when they know a lot of other people have been left out of the pleasure."--Russel Baker
- "If it's sanity you're after, there's no recipe like laughter."--Henry Rutherford Elliot
- "I always turn to the sports pages first, which records people's accomplishments. The front page has nothing but man's failures."--Chief Justice Earl Warren
- "If I had my life to live again, I'd make the same mistakes, only sooner."--Tallulah Bankhead
- "Worry is interest paid on trouble before it is due."--William Inge
- "It took me seventeen years to get 3,000 hits in baseball. I did it in one afternoon on the golf course."--Hank Aaron
- "Statistics are like bikinis. What they reveal is suggestive, but what they conceal is vital."--Aaron Levenstein
- "Between two products equal in price, function and quality, the better looking will outsell the other."--Raymond Loewy
- "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye."--Miss Piggy
- "Beauty isn't worth thinking about; what's important is your mind. You don't want a fifty-dollar haircut on a fifty-cent head."--Garrison KeillorM/EM>
- "Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after."--Anne Morrow Lindbergh
- "Don't knock the weather; nine-tenths of the people couldn't start a conversation if it didn't change once in a while."--Kin Hubbard
- "Even a stopped clock is right twice a day."--Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
- "An education is like a crumbling building that needs constant upkeep with repairs and additions."--Edith Wharton
- "Ask a question and you're a fool for three minutes; do not ask a question and you're a fool for the rest of your life."--Chinese Proverb
- "He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever."--Chinese proverb
- "There are no foolish questions, and no man becomes a fool until he has stopped asking questions."--Charles Proteus Steinmetz
- "Don't be afraid to ask dumb questions. They're more easily handled than dumb mistakes."--William Wister Hanes
- "He who is ashamed of asking is ashamed of learning."--Danish Proverb
- "There is nobody so irritating as somebody with less intelligence and more sense than we have."--Don Herold
- "A pessimist is someone who complains about the noise when opportunity knocks."--Michael Levine
- "Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation leans on the doorbell."--Anonymous
- "Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work, so most people don't recognize them."--Ann Landers
- "If you are going through hell, keep going."--Sir Winston Churchill
- "A lie told often enough becomes truth."--Lenin
- "Life is the garment we continually alter, but which never seems to fit."--David McCord
- "If you want to make enemies, try to change something."--Woodrow Wilson
- "Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names."--John F. Kennedy
- "Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate."--Thomas Jones
- "When you are down and out, something always turns up - usually the noses of your friends."--Orson Welles
- "Acquaintance: A person whom we know well enough to borrow from, but not well enough to lend to."--Ambrose Bierce
- "If you'd know the value of money, go and borrow some."--Benjamin Franklin
- "A bank is a place that will lend you money if you can prove that you don't need it."--Bob Hope
- "Money frees you from doing things you dislike. Since I dislike doing nearly everything, money is handy."--Groucho Marx
- "A man cannot be too careful in the choice of his enemies."--Oscar Wilde
- "Be kind to everyone you talk with. You never know who's going to be on the jury."--Tiger Goldstick
- "I argue very well. Ask any of my remaining friends. I can win an argument on any topic, against any opponent. People know this, and steer clear of me at parties. Often, as a sign of their great respect, they don't even invite me."--Dave Barry
- "Love thy neighbor as yourself, but choose your neighborhood."--Louise Beal
- "The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because generally they are the same people."--G.K. Chesterton
- "Some people like my advice so much that they frame it upon the wall instead of using it."--Gordon R. Dickson
- "A free society is a place where it's safe to be unpopular."--Adlai Stevenson
- "I love Mickey Mouse more than any woman I have ever known."--Walt Disney
- "A celebrity is a person who works hard all his life to become known, then wears dark glasses to avoid being recognized."--Fred Allen
- "He has the gift of quiet."--John Le Carre
- "When you have nothing to say, say nothing."--Charles Caleb Colton
- "People have to talk about something just to keep their good voice boxes in working order, so they'll have good voice boxes in case there's ever anything really meaningful to say."--Kurt Vonnegut Jr.
- "Nothing is swifter than rumor."--Horace
- "The truth will make you free, but first it will make you miserable."--Tom DeMarco
- "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity."--Albert Einstein
- "If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?"--Lily Tomlin
- "The trouble with women is that they get all excited about nothing and then they marry him."--Cher
- "Two wrongs don't make a right, but they make a good excuse."--Thomas Szasz
- "To keep your marriage brimming, / With love in the loving cup, / Whenever you're wrong, admit it; / Whenever you're right, shut up."--Ogden Nash
- "Many people would sooner die than think; In fact, they do so."--Bertrand Russell
- "The brain can be developed just the same as the muscles can be developed, if one will only take the pains to train the mind to think. Why do so many men never amount to anything? Because they don't think."--Thomas Edison
- "The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled."--Plutarch
- "If love means never having to say you're sorry, then marriage means always having to say everything twice."--Estelle Getty
- "Keep thy eyes wide open before marriage and half shut afterwards."-- Benjamin Franklin
- "The only true love is love at first sight; second sight dispels it."--Israel Zangwill
- "What is important is that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity."--Helen Hayes
- "Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young."--Sir Arthur Wing Pinero
- "No matter how happily a woman may be married, it always pleases her to discover that there is a nice man who wishes that she were not."--H. L. Mencken
- "Look after your wife; never mind yourself--she'll look after you."--Sacha Guitry
- "Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry."--Gloria Steinem
- "Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife."--Groucho Marx
- "Success is often the result of taking a misstep in the right direction."--Al Bernstein
- "If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking."--Buddhist Saying
- "Look, if he forgets to call one day, no big deal; two days, it's an oversight. Honey, he hasn't called you in three days -- he's sleeping with somebody else."--"About Last Night"
- "As the purse is emptied, the heart is filled."--Victor Hugo
- "A woman who thinks she is intelligent demands the same rights as man. An intelligent woman gives up."--Sidnonie Gabrielle Colette
- "Many a man owes his success to his first wife and his second wife to his success."--Jim Backus
- "The old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young know everything."--Oscar Wilde
- "We spend the first twelve months of our children's lives teaching them to walk and talk and the next twelve telling them to sit down and shut up."--Phyllis Diller
- "In raising my children, I have lost my mind but found my soul."--Lisa T. Shepherd
- "I never forget a face, but in your case I'll make an exception."--Groucho
- "Some of the world's greatest feats were accomplished by people not smart enough to know they were impossible."--Doug Larson
- "The leadership instinct you are born with is the backbone. You develop the funny bone and the wishbone that go with it."--Elaine Agather
- "Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire."--Reggie Leach
- "Here is the test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: If you're alive, it isn't."--Richard Bach
- "The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that, you've got it made."--Jean Giraudoux
- "I was asked to memorise what I did not understand; and, my memory being so good, it refused to be insulted in that manner."--Aleister Crowley
- "People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing that's why we recommend it daily."--Zig Ziglar
- "Motivation is the fuel necessary to keep the human engine running."--Zig Ziglar
- "Make yourself an honest man and then you may be sure there is one less rascal in the world."--Thomas Carlyle
- "The fool doth think he is wise, while the wise man knows himself a fool."--William Shakespeare
- "Imagination was given to man to compensate him for what he is not; a sense of humor to console him for what he is."--Francis Bacon
- "To read without reflecting is like eating without digesting."--Edmund Burke
- "All a man can betray is his conscience."--Joseph Conrad
- "I think the surest sign that there is intelligent life out there in the universe is that none of it has tried to contact us."--Calvin & Hobbes
- "Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive."--Warren Miller
- "Some people who yearn for endless life don't even know what to do with a rainy afternoon."--Harvey H. Potthoff
- "People don't ask for facts in making up their minds. They would rather have one good, soul-satisfying emotion than a dozen facts."--Robert Keith Leavit
- "Be very, very careful what you put into that head, because you will never, ever get it out."--Thomas Cardinal Wolsey
- "There's a mighty big difference between good, sound reasons and reasons that sound good."--Burton Hills
- "We have 40 million reasons for failure, but not a single excuse."--Rudyard Kipling
- "He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else."--Benjamin Franklin
- "99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses."--George Washington Carver
- "Everybody lies, but it doesn't matter because nobody listens."--Nick Diamos
- "People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid"--Soren Aabye Kierkegaard
- "When you choose the lesser of two evils, always remember that it is still an evil."--Max Lerner
- "When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've never tried before."--Mae West
- "You must learn from the mistakes of others. You can't possibly live long enough to make them all yourself."--Sam Levenson
- "There is never enough time, unless you are serving it."--Malcolm Forbes
- "The brain can be seen as a complex machine, like a gooey computer."--Robert C. Solomon
- "Television: A medium. So called because it is neither rare nor well done."--Ernie Kovacs
- "One of the first duties of the physician is to educate the masses not to take medicine."--Sir William Osler
- "Don't throw away the old bucket until you know whether the new one holds water."--Swedish proverb
- Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most.
- Minds are like parachutes -- they function only when open.
- "Those who can laugh without cause have either found the true meaning of happiness or have gone stark raving mad."--Norm Papernick
- "Happiness is no laughing matter."--Richard Whately
- "Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory."--Albert Schweitzer
- "Happiness is good health and a bad memory."--Ingrid Bergman
- "Life is something to do when you can't get to sleep."--Fran Lebowitz
- "I have noticed that the people who are late are often so much jollier than the people who have to wait for them."--E.V. Lucas
- "Punctuality is the politeness of kings."--King Louis XVIII
- "You can't be truly rude until you understand good manners."--Rita Mae Brown
- "Good manners sometimes means simply putting up with other people's bad manners."--H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
- "Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot."--Clarence Thomas
- "There is no pleasure in having nothing to do. The fun is in having lots to do and not doing it."--Mary Wilson Little
- "The greatest inspiration is often born of desperation."--Comer Cotrell
- "The longing to produce great inspirations didn't produce anything but more longing."--Sophie Kerr
- "The time you enjoy wasting is not wasting time."--T.S. Elliot
- "Laws are like sausages, it is better not to see them being made."--Otto von Bismarck
- "England and America are two countries separated by the same language."--George Bernard Shaw
Funny Facts
- Survey: About half of U.S. teens say they were pressured into having sexual relationships; older teens more likely to give in to pressure.
- 11% of MBA graduates polled say the person they admire most is their father.
- Women eat more mint chocolate chip ice cream than men do.
- San Francisco and Washington D.C. boast the heaviest Internet usage in the U.S.
- 16% of adults believe you cannot be successful and get enough sleep.
- Fat children show early signs of heart disesase such as high blood pressure and cholesterol; they are unlikely to grow out of it, says researchers
- The more household chores a man does the more likely his wife is to report having good sex."--New Choices
- About 12% of eye doctors' patients complain of computer-related eye strain.--BusinessWeek
- Nearly a quarter of U.S. households have a numeric pager, while 10% have an alphanumeric pager.--Wirthlin Report
- Girls who play sports are less less than half as likely to get pregnant as girls who don't play sports.
- 83% of married couples kissed on their first date.
- Only 4% of women and 1% of men are virgins on their wedding night.
- Factoid: 57% of women and 41% of men polled agree that a stay-at-home wife is very important to a husband's success.
- People with graduate degrees are more likely to suffer from tension headaches than those with less education.
- Be nice to your kids. They'll choose your nursing home.
- I just got lost in thought. It was unfamiliar territory.
- Pride is what we have. Vanity is what others have.
- Lottery: A tax on people who are bad at math.
- Make it idiot-proof and someone will make a better idiot.
- Back up my hard drive? How do I put it in reverse?
- Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups.
- Why is abbreviation such a long word?
- Aspirations: "You can be anything you want to be, do anything you set out to accomplish if you hold to that desire with singleness of purpose."--Abraham Lincoln
- Aspirations: "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- Aspirations: "Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."--George Bernard Shaw
- Aspirations: "It is never too late to be what you might have been."--George Eliot
- Aspirations: "Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance toward the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vantage point."--Harold B. Melchart
- Aspirations: "I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker."--Helen Keller
- Aspirations: "Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing."--Helen Keller
- Aspirations: "Perseverance is a great element of success. If you only knock long enough and loud enough at the gate, you are sure to wake up somebody."--Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
- Aspirations: "An aim in life is the only fortune worth finding."--Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
- Aspirations: "Whatever you can do, or dream, you can begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it."--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
- Aspirations: "Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars."--Les Brown
- Aspirations: "Life's up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine...[your] values and goals...think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want."--Marsha Sinetar
- Aspirations: "To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- Aspirations: "Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate accomplishments."--Napoleon Hill
- Aspirations: "It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow."--Robert H. Goddard
- Aspirations: "Set goals, challenge yourself, and achieve them. Live a healthy life...and make every moment count. Rise above the obstacles, and focus on the positive."--Robert H. Goddard
- Aspirations: "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go."--T.S. Eliot
- Aspirations: "Sometimes things become possible if we want them enough."--T.S. Eliot
- Aspirations: "The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps -- we must step up the stairs."--Vance Havner
- Aspirations: "A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do."--Walter Bagehot
- Challenges: "Small minds are subdued by misfortune, but great minds rise above them."
- Change: "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me."--Carol Burnett
- Change: "Affirmations are like prescriptions for certain aspects of yourself you want to change."--Jerry Frankhauser
- Change: "We must become the change we want to see."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- Change: "I am always doing that which I can not do, in order that I may learn how to do it."--Pablo Picasso
- Change: "Power resides in the moment of transition from a past to a new state."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Change: "No matter how far you have gone on the wrong road, turn back."--Turkish proverb
- Change: "The road to success is always under construction."
- Commitment: "Commitment is a line you cross...it's the difference between wishing and doing."
- Coping: "What doesn't kill me makes me stronger."--Albert Camus
- Coping: "Success is not measured by the position one has reached in life, rather by the obstacles overcome while trying to succeed."--Booker T. Washington
- Coping: "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."--Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- Coping: "I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature."--John D. Rockefeller
- Coping: "Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway."--John Wayne
- Coping: "Pray not to be sheltered from dangers, but to be fearless in facing them."--Rabindranath Tagore
- Coping: "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Coping: "In a dark time, the eye begins to see."--Theodore Roethke
- Coping: "Never let your energy or enthusiasm be dampened by the discouragements that must inevitably come."--Unknown
- Coping: "Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact."--William James
- Happiness: "Seize from every moment its unique novelty, and do not prepare your joys."--Andre Gidé
- Happiness: "Joy is not in things, it is in us."--Benjamin Franklin
- Happiness: "When in doubt, make a fool of yourself. There is a microscopically thin line between being brilliantly creative and acting like the most gigantic idiot on earth. So what the hell, leap."--Cynthia Heimel
- Happiness: "In the long run the pessimist may be proved right, but the optimist has a better time on the trip."--Daniel L. Reardon
- Happiness: "Life was meant to be lived and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life."--Eleanor Roosevelt
- Happiness: "A happy person is not a person in certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes."--Hugh Downs
- Happiness: "I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy."--J.D. Salinger
- Happiness: "At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities."--Jean Houston
- Happiness: "The grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love and something to hope for."--Joseph Addison
- Happiness: "Satisfaction of one's curiosity is one of the greatest sources of happiness in life."--Linus Pauling
- Happiness: "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature."--Marcus Aurelius
- Happiness: "Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is most important that you do it."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- Happiness: "Happiness in this world, when it comes, comes incidentally. Make it the object of pursuit, and it leads us on a wild-goose chase, and is never attained. Follow some other object, and very possibly we may find that we have caught happiness without dreaming of it."--Nathaniel Hawthorne
- Happiness: "Sharing laughter is a way of casting delight to the wind so it blows everywhere and to everyone."--Paul Pearsall
- Happiness: "People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."--Ramona L. Anderson
- Happiness: "Excess on occasion is exhilirating. It prevents moderation from acquiring the deadening effect of a habit."--William Maugham
- Happiness: "Nobody has ever measured, even poets, how much a heart can hold."--Zelda Fitzgerald
- Insight: "In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."--Albert Einstein
- Insight: "It's so hard when I have to, and so easy when I want to."--Annie Gottlier
- Insight: "Respect...is appreciation of the separateness of the other person, of the ways in which he or she is unique."--Annie Gottlier
- Insight: "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."--Carl Jung
- Insight: "Do not be desirous of having things done quickly. Do not look at small advantages. Desire to have things done quickly prevents their being done thoroughly. Looking at small advantages prevents great affairs from being accomplished."--Confucius
- Insight: "The Wolf Credo: "Respect the elders. Teach the young. Cooperate with the pack. Play when you can. Hunt when you must. Rest in between. Share your affections. Voice your feelings. Leave your mark"--Del Goetz
- Insight: "If you look at life one way, there is always cause for alarm."--Elizabeth Bowen
- Insight: "The aim of life is to live and to live is to be aware... joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware."--Henry Miller
- Insight: "Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him."--James Allen
- Insight: "Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood."--Marie Curie
- Insight: "The time is always right to do what is right."--Martin Luther King, Jr.
- Insight: "The time when you need to do something is when no one else is willing to do it, when people are saying it can't be done."--Mary Frances Berry
- Insight: "The only tyrant I accept in this world is the still voice within."--Mohandas K. Gandhi
- Insight: "The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it."--Oscar Wilde
- Insight: "Painting is just another way of keeping a diary."--Pablo Picasso
- Insight: "All miseries derive from not being able to sit quietly in a room alone."--Pascal
- Insight: "I finally figured out the only reason to be alive is to enjoy it."--Rita Mae Brown
- Insight: "The purpose of life is a life of purpose."--Robert Byrne
- Insight: "Nothing will ever be attempted, if all possible objections must first be overcome."--Samuel Johnson
- Insight: "A great deal of intelligence can be invested in ignorance when the need for illusion is deep."--Saul Bellow
- Insight: "A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds."--Sir Francis Bacon
- Insight: "As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is."--Unknown
- Insight: "The work will wait while you show the child the rainbow, but the rainbow won't wait while you do the work."--Unknown
- Leadership: "L.E.A.D. (L)earn, (E)ducate, (A)ppreciate, (D)evelop"
- Leadership: "Leaders bring out the best in others."
- Leadership: "Manage procedures, lead people."
- Leadership: "Leadership is an action, not a position."
- Love: "Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."--Antoine de Saint-Exupery
- Love: "The foundation of beauty is the heart, and every generous thought illustrates the walls of your chamber."--Francis Quarles
- Love: "May no gift be too small to give, nor too simple to receive, which is wrapped in thoughtfulness and tied with love."--L.O. Baird
- Love: "Every true friend is a glimpse of God."--Lucy Larcom
- Love: "Our task is to sell the world on love."--M. Scott Peck, MD
- Love: "From the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. If your heart is full of love, you will speak of love."--Mother Teresa
- Love: "Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend."--Plautus
- Love: "I'm so glad you are here. It helps me to realize how beautiful my world is."--Rainer Maria Rilke
- Love: "Love is the immortal flow of energy that nourishes, extends and preserves. Its eternal goal is life."--Smiley Blanton
- Love: "I'm not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today."--William Allen White
- Love: "How rare and wonderful is that flash of a moment when we realize we have discovered a friend."--William Rotsler
- Love: "Understanding is the soil in which grow all the fruits of friendship."--Woodrow Wilson
- Self-esteem: "When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you."--African proverb
- Self-esteem: "If you think you're too small to be effective, you have never been in bed with a mosquito."--Bette Reese
- Self-esteem: "Never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be."--Clementine Paddelford
- Self-esteem: "Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world."--Helen Keller
- Self-esteem: "If a woman is sufficiently ambitious, determined and gifted -- there is practically nothing she can't do."--Helen Lawrenson
- Self-esteem: "If you think you can do a thing or you think you can't do a thing, you're right."--Henry Ford
- Self-esteem: "With confidence, you can reach truly amazing heights; without confidence, even the simplest accomplishments are beyond your grasp."--Jim Loehr
- Self-esteem: "The willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life is the source from which self-respect springs."--Joan Didion
- Self-esteem: "To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong."--Joseph Chilton Pearce
- Self-esteem: "Youth is not a time of life, it is a state of mind. You are as old as your doubt, your fear, your despair. The way to keep young is to keep your faith young. Keep your self-confidence young. Keep your hope young."-- Luella F. Phean
- Self-esteem: "It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Team: "T.E.A.M. (T)ogether, (E)veryone, (A)Achieves, (M)ore"
- Team: "We become successful by helping others become successful."
- Team: "None of us are as strong as all of us."
- Team: "Companies don't success...people do."
- TEAMWORK: "There is no I in TEAM."
A 1000 Words Worth from Pictures
- THE COURAGE TO SUCCEED: "The sea is dangerous and its storms terrible, but these obstacles have never been sufficient reason to remain ashore...unlike the mediocre, intrepid spirits seek victory over those things that seem impossible...it is with an iron will that they embark on the most daring of all endeavors...to meet the shadowy future without fear and conquer the unknown."--Ferdinand Magellan
- THE ESSENCE OF GOLF: "Golf is deceptively simple and endlessly complicated. It satisfies the soul and frustrates the intellect. It is the at same time rewarding and maddening - it is without a doubt the greatest game mankind has ever invented."
- THE ESSENCE OF SUCCESS: "Successful is the person who has lived well, laughed often and loved much, who has gained the respect of children, who leaves the world better than they found it, who has never lacked appreciation for the earth's beauty, who never fails to look for the best in others or give the best of themselves."
- THE ESSENCE OF SURVIVAL: "Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up, it knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up, it knows it must outrun the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. It doesn't matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle...when the sun comes up, you'd better be running."
- THE ESSENCE OF IMAGINATION: "What we can easily see is only a small percentage of what is possible. Imagination is having the vision to see what is just below the surface; to picture that which is essential, but invisible to the eye."
- THE ESSENCE OF LEADERSHIP: "A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader, but becomes one by the quality of his actions and the integrity of his intent. In the end, leaders are much like eagles...they don't flock, you find them one at a time."
- THE LIGHT OF INTEGRITY: "The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the full light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny...it is the light that guides your way."--Heraclitus
- THE POWER OF A LEADER: "True leaders are not those who strive to be first but those who are first to strive and who give their all for the success of the team. True leaders are first to see the need, envision the plan, and empower the team for action. By the strength of the leader's commitment, the power of the team is unleashed."
- THE POWER OF ONE: "It takes only a single idea, a single action to move the world."
- THINKING OUT OF THE BOX: "Only those who see the invisible can do the impossible."
- FOUNDATION OF EXCELLENCE: "Tentative efforts lead to tentative outcomes. Therefore give yourself fully to your endeavors. Decide to construct your character through excellent actions and determine to pay the price of a worthy goal. The trials you encounter will introduce you to your strengths. Remain staeadfast...and one day you will build something that endures; something worthy of your potential."
- ACHIEVEMENT: "Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow." (Tree)
- ATTITUDE: "The only difference between a 'Champ' and a 'Chump' is 'U'."
- ATTITUDE: "Attitude is a little thing that makes a BIG difference." (Drop in a Pond)
- ATTITUDE: "Nothing in this world is impossible to a willing heart."
- ATTITUDE: "Happiness is not a state to arrive at but rather, a manner of traveling."
- ATTITUDE: "The pleasure you get from your life is equal to the 'Attitude' you put into it."
- ATTITUDE: "Life is ten percent how we make it; ninety percent how we take it."
- ATTITUDE: "The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitude."--William James (Rainbow)
- ATTITUDE: "The currents that determine our dreams and shape our lives, flow from the attitudes we nurture every day." (Waterfall)
- ATTITUDE: "A positive attitude is a powerful force...it can't be stopped!" (Watercliff)
- BELIEF: "If you do not believe in yourself...chances are that nobody else will."
- BELIEVE & SUCCEED: "Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow'."
- BELIEVE & SUCCEED: "We cannot change yesterday. We can only make the most of today, and look with hope toward tomorrow."
- CHANGE: "A bend in the road, is not the end of the road...unless you fail to make the turn."
- CHANGE: "If you're not riding the wave of change...you'll find yourself beneath it." (Wave)
- CHARACTER: "Let every nation know, whether it wishes us well or ill, that we shall pay any price, bear any burden, meet any hardship, support any friend, oppose any foe to assure the survival and success of freedom."--John F. Kennedy (Flag)
- COMMITMENT: "We will not waver; we will not tire; we will not falter; and we will not fail. Peace and freedom will prevail."--George W. Bush (Eagle)
- COMMUNICATION: "Communication is the secret to success...pass it on." (Baton)
- COURAGE: "In the truest sense freedom cannot be bestowed, it must be achieved."--Franklin D. Roosevelt (Iwo Jima)
- CUSTOMER CARE: "It takes months to find a customer and seconds to lose one." (Needle in a Haystack)
- CUSTOMER SERVICE: "The sea of change can pull customers in many directions. It is our reponsibility to light the way and take care of them...before the competition does." (Lighthouse)
- DARE TO SOAR: "Your attitude, almost always determines your altitude in life."
- DESIRE: "The distance between success and failure can only be measured by one's desire."
- DETERMINATION: "Commitment drives you to aim out of the ballpark and odds significance to all that you do."
- DIVERSITY: "Great achievements are not born from a single vision but from the combination of many distintive viewpoints. Diversity challenges assumptions, opens minds and unlocks our potetial to solve any problem we may face." (Faces)
- DO IT NOW: "You become successful the moment you start moving toward a worthwhile goal."
- DREAM: "Resolve to succeed. The greatest discovery one can make is that nothing is impossible."
- EXCELLENCE: "Excellence is the result of caring more than others think is wise, risking more than others think is safe, dreaming more than others think is practical, and expecting more than others think is possible." (Eagle)
- EXCELLENCE: "Excellence is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction, skillful execution and the vision to see obstacles as opportunities." (Golf)
- FREEDOM: "Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty."--Thomas Jefferson (Statue of Liberty)
- GOALS: "Keep your head and your heart in the right direction and you'll never have to worry about your feet."
- INNOVATION: "The best way to predict the future...is to create it." (Lightning)
- INTEGRITY: "Integrity is one of the several paths, it distinguishes itself from the others because it is the right path, and the only one upon which you will never get lost."
- INTEGRITY: "We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give." (Hands)
- MAKE IT HAPPEN: "Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving. We must sail sometimes with the wind and somtimes against it--but sail we must, and not drift, nor lie at anchor."--Oliver Wendell Holmes
- NEVER GIVE UP: "Go over, go under, go around, or go through. But never give up." (Flower)
- OPPORTUNITY: "You'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
- PERSERVERANCE: "In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins...not through strength, but through persistence."
- PRIORITIES: "A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove...but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child." (Boy)
- RULE #1: "If we don't take care of the customer...somebody else will." (Handshake)
- QUALITY: "Countless unseen details are often the only difference between mediocre and magnificent." (Rose)
- SERVICE: "Service is the lifeblood of any organization. Everything flows from it and is nourished by it. Customer service is not a department...it's an attitude." (Waterfall)
- SIMPLIFY: "Focus on the critical few, not the insignificant many. Even the most powerful waves begin as a single drop." (Drop)
- SUCCESS: "Some people dream of success...while others wake up and work hard at it."
- SUCCESS: "Success is a journey, not a destination."
- TEAM: "Trust is the emotional glue that holds every team together...in times of trial, it transforms a group of committed individuals committed to each other."
- TEAMWORK: "Teamwork is the ability to work together toward a common vision. The ability to direct individual accomplishment toward organizational objectives. It is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results." (Rowing Team)
- TEAMWORK: "Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is a success."
- TEAMWORK: "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look at what they can do when they stick together." (Snow on a tree)
- THE POWER OF ATTITUDE: "Our lives are not determined by what happens to us, but how we react to what happens; not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst...a spark that creates extraordinary results."
I Have Learned...
- I’ve learned - that being kind is more important than being right.
- I’ve learned - that having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
- I’ve learned - that I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
- I’ve learned - that it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
- I’ve learned - that just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
- I’ve learned - that life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
- I’ve learned - that money doesn't buy class.
- I’ve learned - that no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
- I’ve learned - that simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
- I’ve learned - that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
- I’ve learned - that the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
- I’ve learned - that the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
- I’ve learned - that under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be held when it is a life-threatening situation.
- I’ve learned - that we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
- I’ve learned - that when you're in love, it shows.
- I’ve learned - that you should never say no to a gift from a child.
- I've learned - that although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
- I've learned - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
- I've learned - that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
- I've learned - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
- I've learned - that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
- I've learned - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
- I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
- I've learned - that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
- I've learned - that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
- I've learned - that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. But do the best you can do.
- I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
- I've learned - that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
- I've learned - that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
- I've learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
- I've learned - that learning to forgive takes practice.
- I've learned - that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see.
- I've learned - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
- I've learned - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
- I've learned - that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
- I've learned - that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
- I've learned - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
- I've learned - that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
- I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
- I've learned - that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
- I've learned - that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
- I've learned - that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.
- I've learned - that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
- I've learned - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
- I've learned - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
- I've learned - that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
- I've learned - that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
- I've learned - that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
- I've learned - that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.
- I've learned - that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
- I've learned - that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
- I've learned - that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
- I've learned - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love..
- I've learned - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
- I've learned - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
- I've learned - that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
- I've learned - that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
- I've learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
- I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
- I've learned - that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
- I've learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
- I've learned - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
- I've learned - that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
- I've learned - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
- I've learned - that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.
- I've learned - that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to, can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
- I've learned - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I will learn
- I will learn that true happiness is not always to achieve my goals, but to learn to appreciate with what I have achieved.
- I will learn that I should control my attitude, and not let my attitude control me.
- I will learn that to be rich is not to have the most, but to need the least.
- I will learn that it is futile to compare myself to others, because there is always someone better or worse than I am.
- I will learn that it takes years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy it.
- I will learn that there are people who love me very much, but simply do not know how to show their feelings.
- I will learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.
- I will learn that I cannot make anyone love me, but learn to let myself be loved.
- I will learn that what is most valuable is not what I have in my life, but who I have in my life.
- I will learn that it only takes a few seconds to hurt people I love, and that it can take years to heal.
- I will learn that money can buy everything but happiness.
- I will learn that while at times I may be entitled to be upset, that does not give me the right to upset those around me.
- I will learn that true friends are scarce, and when I have found one I have found a true treasure.
- I will learn that it is not always important that I be forgiven by others, but that I forgive myself.
- I will learn that I am the master of what I keep to myself and the slave of what I say.
- I will learn that happiness is a decision, and decide to be happy today with what I am and what I have, not die from envy and jealousy of what I lack.
- I will learn that those who are honest with themselves without considering the consequences succeed in life.
- I will learn that I will reap what I plant; if I plant gossip I will harvest suspicion, if I plant love I will harvest happiness.
Words of Wisdom
- Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
- Memorize your favorite poem.
- Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you want.
- When you say, "I love you", mean it.
- When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.
- Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
- Believe in love at first sight.
- Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
- Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
- In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
- Don't judge people by their relatives.
- Talk slowly but think quickly.
- When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
- Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
- Call your mom.
- Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
- When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
- Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
- Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
- When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
- Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
- Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
- Spend some time alone.
- Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
- Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
- Read more books and watch less TV.
- Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.
- Trust in God but lock your car.
- A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.
- In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
- Read between the lines.
- Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
- Be gentle with the earth.
- Pray. There's immeasurable power in it.
- Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
- Mind your own business.
- Don't trust a man/woman who doesn't close his/her eyes when you kiss.
- Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
- If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.
- Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
- Learn the rules then break some.
- Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
- Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
- Remember that your character is your destiny.
- Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
Who's the REAL deal
- Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a REAL friend will stand by you even when you are wrong.
- A SIMPLE friend identifies himself when he calls. A REAL friend doesn't have to.
- A SIMPLE friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life. A REAL friend says, What's new with you?
- A SIMPLE friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent. A REAL friend says, You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it.
- A SIMPLE friend has never seen you cry. A REAL friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
- A SIMPLE friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A REAL friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
- A SIMPLE friend brings a bottle of wine to your party. A REAL friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
- A SIMPLE friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed. A REAL friend asks you why you took so long to call.
- A SIMPLE friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A REAL friend seeks to help you with your problems.
- A SIMPLE friend wonders about your romantic history. A REAL friend could blackmail you with it.
- A SIMPLE friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A REAL friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
- A SIMPLE friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument. A REAL friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had an argument.
- A SIMPLE friend expects you to always be there for them. A REAL friend expects to always be there for you!
Friends
Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push.
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A BEST FRIEND is like a four leaf clover, HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE.
Some people make the world SPECIAL just by being in it.
BEST FRIENDS are the siblings God forgot to give us.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your BEST FRIEND will be there.
TRUE FRIENDSHIP "NEVER" ENDS. Friends are FOREVER.
Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of your life, but only friends leave footprints in your heart.
Buddhist Wisdom
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three Rs: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone every day.
9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the earth.
16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
Things to Remember
1. No one can ruin your day without YOUR permission.
2. Most people will be about as happy, as they decide to be.
3. Others can stop you temporarily, but only you can do it permanently.
4. Whatever you are willing to put up with is exactly what you will have.
5. Success stops when you do.
6. When your ship comes in....make sure you are willing to unload it.
7. You will never "have it all together."
8. Life is a journey....not a destination. Enjoy the trip!
9. The biggest lie on the planet: "When I get what I want, I will be happy."
10. The best way to escape your problem is to solve it.
11. I've learned that ultimately, 'takers' lose and 'givers' win.
12. Life's precious moments don't have value, unless they are shared.
13. If you don't start, it's certain you won't arrive.
14. We often fear the thing we want the most.
15. He or she who laughs....lasts.
16. Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints.
17. Look for opportunities....not guarantees.
18. Life is what's coming.... not what was.
19. Success is getting up one more time.
20. Now is the most interesting time of all.
21. When things go wrong.....don't go with them.
WHAT IS SUCCESS?
To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by
a healthy child, a garden patch
or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed
easier because you have lived;
This is to have succeeded.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson~
Eleanor Roosevelt wrote:
Many people will walk in and out of your life,
But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.
To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.
He who loses money, loses much;
He, who loses a friend, loses much more;
He, who loses faith, loses all.
Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me....
You brought another friend....
And then there were 3....
We started our group....
Our circle of friends....
And like that circle....
There is no beginning or end....
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow a mystery.
Today is a gift,
That is why they call it the present.
-Promise Yourself-
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.
To think only the best, to work only for the best and expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble
-The Optimist Clubs Of America-
HOW TO STAY YOUNG
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down. (keep this In mind if you are one of those grouches;)
3. Keep learning: Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain get idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and Lots of time with HIM/HER.
6. The tears happen: Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. LIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love: Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
Why wait to be happy?
We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are.
After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, when we are able to go on a nice vacation, or when we retire.
The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.
It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.
Happiness is the way.
So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time > with...and remember that time waits for no one.
So, stop waiting....
--until your car or home is paid off
--until you get a new car or home
--until your kids leave the house
--until you go back to school
--until you finish school
--until you lose 10 lbs.
--until you gain 10 lbs.
--until you get married
--until you get a divorce
--until you have kids
--until you retire
--until summer
--until spring
--until winter
--until fall
--until you die
There is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
So - work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching.
If you want to brighten someone's day, pass this on to someone special - I just did.