One way to get your IP# is let someone else use ICQ to find it. They can get your IP# by clicking on your name in the online section of the ICQ windows, and then viewing the info option.
Or download the program IPQUERY by clicking.here
Now you need to use ICQ to let the other players know your IP# so they can connect.
Start the Scrabble game and once the it is running, choose New Game as shown below.
Now enter your name in the Player 1 section and for every player you expect select internet, and none for any un-needed players, then press the okay button.
Now you should see a screen like the one below.
Wait here till all players connect and then press okay.
Now you need to enter your name, and the IP# the host provided, and make sure internet is selected.
Then press the okay button.
Now you should see a screen like the one below. When you connect to the host you are ready to play.