Exploring
BDSM within a supportive group frees us from guilt, shame and the
shackles of conventional sexuality. We each share the responsibility to
support the group by attending meetings and parties. And we each accept
the other’s tastes, experience levels and personal differences to make
it work.
We
are free to play anyway we choose, and with whomever we choose, without
judgment or interference from other members. We envision another members
adherence to Safe, Sane and Consensual play not in relation to our own
particular tastes, but within the framework of the broad and inclusive
blanket that encompasses all of the BDSM community. In broadening our
horizons we often broaden our play as well.
We
are each free as members to sponsor, and thus make a member, anyone they
choose to invite to the group. Together as a group, we accept on faith
that the sponsoring member is conscientious in their choice and they
will orientate the new member in our traditions. We have not seen this
fail yet.
We
enjoy the freedom of a loose, largely unstructured organization where
everyone has a voice and a vote. With as much patience and tolerance as
we can muster, we strive (and even succeed sometimes) to self govern
through the often-messy business of rule by consensus.
We
are free of power politics and retain no leaders. For that distinct
pleasure, we remember that each member, no matter how long in tenure,
has one equal voice amongst us.
We
remain free of financial argument and entanglements by keeping no
treasury. We rely on our wits and our fellow members to share the costs
equally and honestly for whatever we do.
We
are free from disciplinary committees, and indeed have no procedures for
what would even constitute misbehavior. We rely on each individual
through their conscience, sense of decency, and fair play to resolve
differences with fellow members in and adult and responsible manner. We
are all adult enough to know conflict, even strong conflict, can and
does exist amongst us. We are each individually responsible for the
civility and judgment that can either resolve it, or at very least, put
it aside as it pertains to the mission of the group.