by Rabbinic Intern Shira Stutman

I write this newsletter article as we approach Shabbat Vayehi, towards the end of the Biblical book of Bereisheet. In this week’s portion, we read of the death of Jacob, father of twelve sons and one daughter, patriarch, head of clan, one of our most revered forebears. When his sons hear of his death, they are terrified of what is to come, not knowing who will take care of them or protect them.

Joseph, the brother with whom they have only recently become reunited, is quick to reassure his brothers. Our text reads that Joseph “comforted them and spoke to their hearts.” Joseph spoke to his brothers in a way that soothed, reassured and calmed them. And it worked.

When I read this verse this week, I immediately thought of Kol Ami. The past few weeks have not been easy on our community, as we mourned the deaths of two vital community members, Shelly Wolfson and Jerry Hollander. As we mourned, however, it was remarkable to watch the community unite to support the Wolfson and Hollander families , and to support each other. I heard of notes, telephone calls, food, gifts, words of kindness, prayers, and e-mail. Community leaders even came together to lead Jerry’s funeral and shiva gatherings, which made them extraordinarily meaningful.

Just as Jacob’s death left a void in his children’s lives, so too did the deaths of our beloved friends and family members leave a void. But they also reminded me of the importance of community, of the importance of family, friends and acquaintances standing by each other, supporting each other even when (especially when) the going gets tough.

May we each continue to be blessed with Kol Ami’s presence, and with the help and support of its community members. May the Kol Ami community continue to be blessed with each other’s presence.