In 1977, I convinced my folks that taking a year off between high school
and college would be a good thing and took a job at the new McDonald's
in Los Alamos. In 1978, shortly before I was to head off to UNM, I took
my boyfriend, Tom, to meet my parents and told them that I was not going
to school. Instead, I was moving to northern Michigan with Tom. They
were, needless to say, not happy. I went anyway and Tom and I were married
in December of 1978. I continued on the McDonald's career path, moving
into management and moving to a new McDonald's when we later moved to
Ann Arbor, MI.
When McDonald's didn't become the career of my dreams, I took a data
entry position at the University of Michigan. Later, we moved to Gallup,
NM for Tom's job - that was an eye-opener even for someone from NM!
We moved again, to Las Cruces and I worked at a few places, including
my
old standby McDonald's. I finally got a data processing position at
the Citizen's Bank of Las Cruces and moved into a supervisory position.
Both
our boys were born while we were in Las Cruces.
In 1988, we moved back to northern Michigan so Tom could return to
school. Then in 1989, we returned to Ann Arbor and I did data processing
for
a organization that provided draft processing services for several
credit unions. That year my brother, Bill, was killed in a drunk
driving crash.
For a few years after that, Tom and I spent quite a bit of time volunteering
for Mothers Against Drunk Drivers and speaking on victim impact panels.
I finally realized that I would never make much money doing data processing
in the banking industry and decided to go to school in the evenings
for an associate's degree in Microcomputer Business Technology.
In 1993, my mother was diagnosed with a pre-leukemic syndrome and passed
away within 5 months. My sister, Alice, and I leaned heavily on each
other and our renewed closeness is one of the best gifts in my life.
My boss, however, was not very understanding and I decided that I
wanted to work some place where a value was placed on work-life balance.
I
got a job at Sterling Commerce providing technical support on one
of their
old DOS products. I moved into management and finally finished my
associate's degree. I promised my kids I wouldn't go to school again
until they
finished high school.
In 2001, we moved to Marysville, OH so that I could pursue a new opportunity
with Sterling. I've been at Sterling for 12+ years and work as a Director of
Technical Support. I'm slowly working on my bachelor's degree and aiming for
an M.B.A. before I retire! I have managed teams of people for over 20 years
and love this role. I get the greatest joy out of helping others succeed
in their
goals - whether they are employees on my team, family or friends.
My husband and I are both very proud of our 28-year marriage and our
two sons. T.J. is an electrical testing technician at TRC, which is a
company that does
automotive-related research. Trevor is a police officer for the City of Muskegon,
MI. (He never liked the idea of moving from MI to OH and headed back as soon
as he graduated from high school.)
My life is more satisfying and complete than I ever hoped it would be
and I have much to be grateful for! I won't be at the reunion as my aunt
and uncle's 50th
anniversary party is the same weekend - in South Dakota. Have a great time!
I'll miss catching up with everyone.