Enlightened Dating

Learning to Consciously Engage Partners

Imagine knowing how to engage a relationship possibility while not being attached to a particular outcome. Consider how much more confident you would be if you knew immediately that a potential partner had the requisite skills to meet you where you are! This course prepares you to be in conscious relationships by awakening you to your own internal patterns. It clarifies the difference between what you believe you want in relationship and what would work for you in relationship. It assists you in owning your personality needs (Attention, Acceptance, Approval, Adoration, Admiration, Availability and Appreciation) so you do not unconsciously blame your partners for your own self-denial. We provide a checklist that supports you in realizing exactly what the potential long-term nature of each relationship represents. This is accomplished by identifying how particular attractions relate to certain life lessons. It supports you in recognizing how your internal needs correspond to the complementary needs of your partner.

Along the way, you’ll learn how to assess the differences between you and others, empowering you to make conscious choices about your long-term compatibility. We teach this through a seven step process: 1) Non-Doing, 2) Unlearning, 3) Let Go and Let Flow, 4) Defensive Healing, 5) Authentic Self-Expression, 6) Whole Heart Connection, and 7) Synergistic Partnership Expression. Engaging this process will produce a huge transformation in how you connect with others. While we will introduce some of the 15 compatibility Compatibility factors Factors and provide in-depth reading about how you operate, this is not a course on compatibility factors. It is an introduction to how Motives, Attractions and Skills combine to define the type and level of your relationships. It also provides a diagnostic model for understanding what did not work in previous relationships. We will discuss in-depth, how patterns of co-dependence and defenses get you in trouble in relationships. We will demonstrate how personality attractions towards others reflect where you have denied your Creative Self. Our objective is to show you how to recognize and heal those places where you are limiting your choices.

You will discover that many of your cherished beliefs about who you are as a partner may not be serving you. We encourage you as a participant to validate your “in-the-moment” experience so you do not need to seek affirmation from others. Particularly, we will challenge your self-limiting personality perceptions about Beauty, Truth and Goodness. The way we accomplish this is by deconstructing how you operate with potential partners so that you can see if it is working in a way that fulfills. You are also encouraged to use your newfound understanding and try out the suggestions in actual dating situations. This feedback cycle brings a richness and practical dimension to the course, and you’ll begin to see how your dating assumptions have been sabotaging you. While the course provides guidelines and suggestions for improving your choices, there is never any judgment about the choices you make. This is because the course is designed to allow you to deepen your experience in a systematic way at a speed that suits you. For those who have previously attended Higher Alignment courses, there are new distinctions presented in this process.

The four Dating Styles and the four ways of grounding your dating perceptions are explored in this course. You learn how to embrace and use rejection to your benefit. You begin to see why certain patterns of behavior create reactions within you. This leads you to make more conscious choices and supports you in disengaging from certain individuals who are not aligned with you. This course makes clear how to establish a friendship first so that your truth can be shared in a way that facilitates both parties. This also permits you to explore the deeper possibilities of Co-Creative interactions where life alignment can be clarified. The course also facilitates this process by assisting you in clarifying your aspirations in relationship so there are no surprises later on. It is important to realize that this course is not about idealizing your relationships but rather affirming that you can speak your Truth and be met by your partner without personality distortions.

Enlightened Dating

Free Intro Night: Wednesday, September 3^rd, 7 to 9 pm

Facilitators: Larry Byram and Laura Conley

Prerequisites: None

Class Schedule: Wednesdays, September 10^th through November 26^th

Course Time: 7:00 pm to 9:30 pm

Location: Home of Sara Wilson in Cherry Creek (Denver)

PriceTuition: $345

Information & Registration: Larry Byram (303) 926-9339 and Laura Conley (720) 352-2434