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My Diabetic Friend When I was in high school
(don't ask how long ago), I had a good friend that had Type I (childhood)
diabetes. When I first found out that he was diabetic, I wasn't sure how to
react. I was still a kid, and I hadn't ever known anyone that was diabetic
before, or any had other chronic disease for that matter. To be honest, I think
I felt nervous at first. I wasn't sure what being diabetic meant. Would my
friend act weird around other people? It seems petty to even think about that
now, but I was a young teenager then, at a time when what other people thought
about me was so critical to my self-esteem.
As I got to know my friend better, hanging out at school and going to church
camps and youth group meetings, I found out that he really wasn't strange. I
didn't have anything to be worried about in that regard. He was more-or-less
like any other kid. To be sure, there were some differences. He had to be really
careful about what he ate. He couldn't eat any kind of sugary candy or drink
soda pop. I ate candy and drank sugary stuff pretty much whenever I felt like
it. He had to make sure he ate at regular times and got enough calories. I
skipped meals and ate as much or little as I wanted. When he played any sports
or took physical education classes, he had to be sure he had a snack or drink of
some sort so that his blood sugar level didn't get too low. I ran track and
cross country and burned calories at a ferocious rate, running for literally
hours at a time. It would have been nearly impossible for him to maintain that
level of calorie consumption.
But my friend seemed to take all of that in stride most of the time, and
didn't make an issue of it. He behaved basically like any other kid, so I never
thought that much of it - except for one thing: the shots.
Now, I'll be the first to admit it - I'm totally a wimp when it comes to
shots. I hate shots. More than once, I've fainted dead away after getting
a shot - I'm not exaggerating. I have to ask to lay down when I get a shot at
the doctor's office. Go ahead and laugh at me - I can take it. I'm not a wimp
about that, and I've learned over the years that embarrassment and humiliation
are just emotions, and they go away after a while. I've seen surveys that have
said that people's number one greatest fear is public speaking. Well, I'd much
rather get up and speak in front of 10,000 people than get a shot. I'm not at
all kidding.
When I found out about the shots, I couldn't believe it: "You have to have
shots twice a day, every day, for your whole life!"
Yes, from the time he was five years old, my friend needed insulin injections
twice a day, every day at regular times, without fail, or he'd die.
The shots would have killed me, I think.
So, it's for my friend that I'm blogging for a cure for diabetes. After high
school, we went our separate ways, off to college, then jobs and family. I
haven't seen him in years. Last I'd heard, he'd moved away from the Northwest,
where we grew up. We've lost contact. But when I see anything about diabetes, I
think of him, and I think of all the thousands of shots. To me, that's a good
enough reason (although there are many, many more) to find a cure.
I'll be posting more on this during the month of November, which is American
Diabetes month. Posts won't be every day, since I don't have time to write that
often, but at least once a week. Thanks to
John Mudd at Blogcritics
for bringing this to my attention.
Visit the
American Diabetes Association's web site to find out more about diabetes and
what you can do to help find a cure.

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