Scleroderma case
A very interesting physical change has been noticed by my client from
Right now
he is getting problems with his esophagus. Obviously it too has hardened, become unflexible, so he has problems and pain when he swallows
food.
We had our first phone session last Thursday, June 17 for just one hour. I only addressed his disease in general as a
problem, such as:
Even though I have this illness….. I am okay
Even though I am afraid I will never get over this illness …. I
am okay
Even though I am afraid to deal with this problem ….
Even though I can't believe there is any help for me … I am okay with me
and my poor, sick body
Even though Baerbel tells me there might be relief… I am afraid to have any hopes….. because it's
painful to be disappointed again … and because all Doctors told me it's incurable …. and I have to live with it ….
I choose to
be open to participate in the therapy ….. and I'm still okay
Even though it's hard for me to trust …. that there could be positive
changes in how I live with this illness…. and there she comes and tells me so … it's hard to believe …. I am afraid of being disappointed
again …..
and even though she represents hope for me …. and I just feel her confidence about being able to make positive changes
in my disease….. I am still okay
Even though I might not be able or willing to do everything to lessen my problems …. I am still okay……
Even
though I have this illness …. I am okay just the way I am …. and I accept my body the way it is…
On our second session Friday
June 18, he was very excited to tell me about this:
He has had an open wound on his finger for more than one year.
This wound
would hurt, be inflamed and not heal at all, no matter what the doctors tried. So again, they told him he had to live with it! On
the morning after our first session the crust on the wound broke open and started to discharge a lot of puss. Then it closed, cleanly,
without any discomfort whatsoever.
That experience is not only good for his health, most of all it was a GREAT motivator for him,
to hope again. This made him believe, that there still is power within himself, that he still will be able to accomplish positive
changes for himself. It will help a lot, because it changed his mindset, he now strongly WANTS to go forward.
Wow! I do like
my job, you know!
I'll keep you posted on this ongoing work. I just can't help feeling very positive about possible improvements, always
have.
Follow-Up
After our second phone session my Scleroderma client told me, he had noticed quite a bit of tingling
in his otherwise numb, hard fingers.
I like what I am hearing….
Just wanted to let you know, changes for the better are happening already!
Follow-Up
Still
going on "with Turbo"…..
Six weeks have passed and I've been working on the phone, doing EFT across the
Because of the hardening of his esophagus swallowing
was getting painful for my client. It seems he can now swallow without problems.
Because of the hardening of the skin on his
hands, shoulders and face he has needed massages twice a week. The massage therapist mentioned to him the other day that the skin
on his hands, which used to be extremely tight and tough, now definitely is becoming smoother, more elastic and flexible. It also
has improved in thickness, especially on his knuckles. Before the skin there was paper thin; you could see the bone underneath.
The
emotional improvement is amazing. I am still coaching him through practical changes he needed to do in his work (he has his own business).
He needed to turn his life around quite a bit and he did! He now takes times out during the day for himself, to rest, to pause,
to do some exercise. He has taken up swimming again and started running at a slow pace. That's the man who couldn't do any exercise
anymore, because his body was hurting too much.
We have done a lot of tapping on his anger and frustration, on his grief and
despair. The way he started to hate his body, because it refused to do what he wanted it to do; we tapped on that and we're still
not finished.
Even though I hate my body …. I can't do anything any more …..
all the things my body used to do so well for me…. and I always could rely on it …. can't do it anymore … it's a joke …. can't
even hold a pen anymore …. can't do the work I love any more ….. took it away from me ….
Even though I am being punished
…. don't know what for ….. everything that was ever important to me …. my body refuses to do now ….
..I now choose to accept
my body …. it is my oldest, very best friend ….. just the way it is!
I now choose to understand ….. I have to learn how to treat my
body …. like my oldest, very best friend!
I believe we have also found an important clue of why he had to become sick; why he
got this illness and what it has served him for. That will be the stuff for another up-date though. In any case, it is possible for
him to believe that he can be well again. Right now it looks as if the progression of Scleroderma has stopped. Looks like it has even
started to reverse in some areas. His immune system seems to work FOR him now, instead of AGAINST him earlier.
A NOTE: My client
has always been an "over achiever". He has for ever pushed himself over his limits, and that could be one of the reasons he'd gotten
this illness in the first place. The good thing is, that we can now turn his ambitions around and use his way of extreme commitment
for his own benefits.
Much more is there to do in his case. That's why he'll visit me in
NOTE:
I have never before dealt with Scleroderma issues in the
past. That does not keep me from believing, that we can achieve positive changes in this disease or the connected symptoms. I am convinced
that changes WILL happen through EFT. As we create changes in our belief system and get rid of old stuff, the physical changes will
always follow. Whatever I can find and get my client to release, any painful issue of guild or anger that he can let go of, will
get us much closer to physical improvements.
Look for my next reports on that on www.emofree.com and Betty's Website.