5/19/2007
Edition
  Jerry's 2007, Update on the Fight for Marriage Equality
 

  
HAPPY 3rd ANNIVERSARY!
WOW What a week!... election results.. television commercials... State House events and MORE: 
WE HAVE THE MOMENTUM STARTED TO KILL THE PETITION

  

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!...  

...and THANK YOU Laurie, Tim, David and Jim for your editorials all published this week!  I am feeling VERY invigorated!  Have you seen the MassEquality commercials on TV yet?   Please send them additional funds to keep them going.  Please read through this week's letter, it will should energize you too!

First, on the special elections front, where we had a real chance of LOSING a vote but, WE WON!..   Independent candidate and strong ally of equality, Paul McMurtry won the election with 37.6% of the 3-way vote.  Here are the final results

Our friends Joe from Attleboro & Janice from Quincy and I went to the State House this Thursday to lobby legislators and to support the RCFM's press event celebrating both our 3rd anniversary of marriage equality and their 1000th, MA clergy leader to sign their Declaration of Religious Support for the Freedom to Marry.  We stood side by side with our heroic legislator Byron Rushing during the event.  

The event was suddenly turned upside down as we were joined by Governor Deval Patrick, Lieutenant Governor Murray, Speaker of the House Sal DiMassi AND Senate President. They stood together, clasped hands and lifted them in the air proclaiming that we are making progress and that we WILL defeat this amendment effort.  

WE HAVE THE MOMENTUM ON OUR SIDE, (and it is driving our opposition crazy) but we need to keep it going, Marc Solomon form MassEquality followed the politicians and sounded cautiously optimistic.  He added that we will only defeat this measure "... but the only way we’re going to do it is if you and your friends and your family members take personal action today and every day from now until the fourteenth of June.”

Here in Quincy, something really exciting is happening too! The group "QuincyForMarriageEquality" is taking off like wildfire; within just days of existence 56 people have already joined!  Our first group meeting is this coming Wednesday but we will have already staged our first public event even before that.  To everyone on this newsletter, please mark your calendars and take note that we will hold a candlelight vigil on the first Wednesday after the memorial weekend, we need as many Quincy residents there as possible, but out of town friends and family as well so that we can truly impress the Quincy legislators that "the people" want this amendment GONE.

Please believe me, There was a VERY positive vibe going on in the State House, those few lawmakers that Kris Mineau INSISTS are standing strong on his side, are actually reconsidering their votes, but not publicly letting on.  This is driving Kris Mineau and our opposition INSANE and you can see it in their interviews with the press. We should expect some pretty dramatic measures to be taken by our opposition in the next few weeks; we need to be ready to counter.  We already know that the "Vote On Marriage" group has asked all its members to bombard the Boston Globe with letters because it will not disclose what legislators might be reconsidering votes. They are also telling their members to make sure they are outside the State House on the 14th.  I hope you ALL, active or not, will try to be there too. 

It is now more important than ever that you take the actions listed below and then encourage other to as well, just like I am doing with you.

Now is the time when friends & family who say they support us need to SHOW IT by completing these simple action items:

 

  FIRST AND FOREMOST CALL YOUR SENATOR AND REP'S OFFICE: This is THE MOST POWERFUL WAY to make a difference... If you are not comfortable speaking live, then wait until after hours and leave a message.  

Find your Senator and Representative's phone numbers at: http://massequality.com/action/start.php or  www.wheredoivotema.com 

"Senator/Representative______, my name is ______.   I live on ______   in ______.
I support equal marriage rights for all couples and feel that is is wrong to vote on anyone's rights.
Please oppose the amendment that would eliminate equal marriage rights.
   
Thank you."


 

  Write a letter to your representative and to your senator (even if you already have, in the past) asking that they reject the marriage amendment. Email are ok, but hand-written letters that include your address and phone number have the most impact.   Your letter can be as simple as the phone script listed above.  You can find out who and where to write to at either:

 http://massequality.com/action/start.php 
or  www.wheredoivotema.com 


 

  Discuss the issue with someone new and get as many others as possible to take action too. 

It is the people that legislators have not yet heard from that can make THE DIFFERENCE to vote our way.



  

  Write a "Letters to the Editor" of your local papers... 

Specifically, the PATRIOT LEDGER has asked for your letters. (this publication covers many targeted legislators- who could potentially switch to support us - they ARE watching)

(if you need inspiration on what to write, please check the "editorial watch" listed below)

Not a writer or uneasy or not sure of the facts?..  I have a crew of writers willing to ghost write or help edit your letters.  The best letters are the ones that speak from the heart.

Tips for Writing Letters to the Editor are located on this PDF file (click here)


 

  If you, or anyone you know, lives in Quincy, PLEASE join the "Quincy for Marriage Equality" list of supporters by sending an email with your name, address and phone number to: contact@quincyformarriageequality.com  

or check out www.quincyformarriageequality.com for more information

    
 

  If you, or anyone you know, lives in Dedham, Westwood or Walpole, PLEASE make sure that you or the people you know get out and vote for D- Stephen Bilafer in the special election being THIS TUESDAY, May 15th.  

If we lose this election, our opposition will gain ANOTHER VOTE! 

 

  Contact me and let me know how you've helped... 

 


If you have comments/feedback or info that I should include next week, please feel free to use the feedback link to the left. 
   

  

Legislative support slim for same-sex marriage ban
A proposed constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriages is clinging to a razor-thin margin in the Legislature, as major political figures from Beacon Hill to Capitol Hill step up their attempts to kill the measure. (Read More)

Report: Support For Mass. Anti-Gay Amendment Dissolving
(Boston, Massachusetts) Even though a proposed amendment to the Massachusetts Constitution to ban same-sex marriage requires just 50 votes in a joint session of the House and Senate to be sent to the ballot in the 2008 election it could be doomed a report Thursday says.. (Read More)
  

MA Governor joins Gay Advocates to Celebrate 3 Years of Same-Sex Marriage 
Gay advocates, supporters and members of the Massachusetts legislature celebrated three years of same-sex marriage Thursday night in Boston at an event that announced new media initiatives and urged supporters to help finance the final four weeks of advocacy in the race to defeat a proposed anti-gay marriage amendment in the state. 
 
"We are here at momentous moment in history," announced Marc Solomon, Campaign Director for Mass Equality, the organization leading the charge to stop the amendment. "Tonight we are here to celebrate, tonight we are here to rejoice in what we have achieved. 10,000 couples are now married. The numbers are growing every day.". (Read More)   
  

Rev. Gayle Harris becomes 1000th clergy to sign Religious Declaration for the Freedom to Marry
The Right Rev. Gayle Harris, Bishop Suffragan of the Episcopal Diocese of the Massachusetts, on May 17 became the 1000th signer of the Religious Declaration for the Freedom to Marry at a signing ceremony at the State House. (Read More)

Three Years of Gay Marriage in Massachusetts (NECN Video)
Story that features out status, our new media campaign, the RCFM's 1000th Signer, and some really desperate, ironic and hypocritical comments from Kris Mineau. (Watch the Video)

Leaders Vow Gay Marriage Fight (WBUR RADIO)
BOSTON, Mass. - May 18, 2007 - Governor Deval Patrick, House Speaker Sal DiMasi and Senate President Therese Murray locked hands in a victory salute on Thursday, in an unplanned appearance before gay marriage supporters. 

After the rally, DiMasi said he may try to delay a June 14th vote on the anti-gay marriage ballot question, saying he didn't want to take the vote unless he was sure it could be defeated..  Listen to story (Real Audio)
  

Governor, House Speaker and Senate President address marriage equality rally 
In a clear sign of the growing momentum to defeat an anti-gay marriage constitutional amendment at next month’s constitutional convention (ConCon) Gov. Deval Patrick, Senate President Therese Murray and House Speaker Sal DiMasi came out forcefully against the amendment during unscheduled appearances at a May 17 State House rally sponsored by the Religious Coalition for the Freedom to Marry (RCFM).. (Read More)

  

Good news for marriage equality momentum
MUCH TO CELEBRATE ON THIRD ANNIVERSARY OF MASS. SAME-SEX MARRIAGE 
Massachusetts should not have barred lesbian and gay couples from New York from marrying in Massachusetts prior to July 6, 2006, according to a judgment entered by a Massachusetts court on May 10, 2007  (Read More)

 

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THIS WEEK LAST WEEK

THE BOSTON GLOBE: OK, let's vote on marriage

PATRIOT LEDGER: THANKS LAURIE!
SPEAK OUT - Courts, lawmakers key to civil rights

PATRIOT LEDGER- THANKS TIM!
READER’S VIEW: Gay marriage doesn’t belong on ballot (letter 1)

PATRIOT LEDGER THANKS DAVID!
READER’S VIEW: Gay marriage doesn’t belong on ballot (letter 2)

PATRIOT LEDGER-
READER’S VIEW: Gay marriage doesn’t belong on ballot (letter 3)

QUINCY SUN & BAY WINDOWS- THANKS JIM!
READER’S VIEW: Gay marriage doesn’t belong on ballot (letter 3)

 

PATRIOT LEDGER This looks "green" but is actually RED
OUR VIEW: Validate gay marriage
This is full of suggestive inaccuracies (no civil rights have EVER made it to the popular vote) and "vague" poll data.. PLEASE RESPOND IN!... The paper has ASKED for response which means the letter writing campaign begins again!!!

Please take note, that you don't need to be from my area of MA anymore to get a letter to the editor published. PLEASE help to counter the anti-gay comments being printed and to help educate the general public. You can take a look at the recent letters in my "Editorial Watch" below for inspiration then submit your own letters.

PLEASE HELP by forwarding to me (sscivilrights@comcast.net,) "letters to the editor" and "news editorials" from any/all sources possible so that we can keep track and try to respond.