The Crusade against Chattel (1989-1995)

The Christian Soldier - a master of a successful courtroom strategy - This is the "Christian Soldier" that I would want on my side, he did not let his clients character stop his crusade against the wife who was trying to escape from an abusive relationship. "Church of God" members showed up at the escaping wifes residence, they showed up in court. When they were not around the husband would lurk in the woods surrounding the wife's residence, employment and pounce assaulting or accosting her. This attorney brought the power of Church against an abused housewife with a grade school education, raised in foster homes + incidents, raped by her good Christian husband's friends as he watched and then these people forgot about the children.

If these "Christian Groups" and members of the "Church of God" are willing to defend a "cross dresser", "abuser", with a feloney record and a husband that declared that he was intending on turning into a woman then based on our experiences they must support:

Gay marriage - if the husband had turned into a woman, then the marriage would have been "woman" & "woman".
Gay Lifestyle - it is "just a fetish" to paraphrase our Christian Soldier.
Spousal abuse, assault and stoning, all acceptable behavior for the husband - still happens in Saudi.
The husband allegedly has a felony rape conviction on his record - it is good that character did not stop this Christian Soldier from doing the right thing.

We have here deception, obfuscation, denial and procrastination with this "Christian Soldier", which was which was impressive "strategy" - as an attorney he was awesome.

Abortion - the murder claim On June 12, 1990 the wife had been separated for a year and a half, we had, had relations but this time the contraceptive failed and a result my girlfriend had an abortion. This made her a murderer in the husbands attorney's eyes. What this jerk did not know was that the pregnancy was "wrong", the stalking, medication and court battles had created tremendous stress, that evening we were sitting out on the patio for a BBQ, when my girlfriend started bleeding out, blood was everywhere....something had to be done.

Personally I hold this attorney and the courts responsible for a wrongful death, if these individuals wish to make a fetus's life a "law". This "Christian Soldier" with his Christian client harassed, stalked, threatened and created the situation that we found ourselves in at that time. The only original reason that an abortion was considered by the mother was to save the children that she had from her husband.
The wife did not leave on the date she said, this allowed him to delay for at least a year - even though there should have been a police report ?
The wife did not take the minor child with her - even though there were witnesses, police, sanctuary provider and social services, that she did take the child ?
The wife deserted - she left a note and took her child.
The husband appearing at all her employments was a "coincidence".
The State Social Service counselors were not good enough for the courts, they required a Christian counselor who told the wife to go back to the husband for "more" ?
This attorney stalked the wife through the courts, an example being when the wife filed bankruptcy this attorney showed up and tried to make the husband a creditor.
Another good "strategy" was when this attorney had the courts access the wife's mental health records from Social Services that skipped the period of co-habitation, separation and the year of stalking, assaults and threats ?
Then just what was going on with the wife's third attorney and this one, was it just a "professional courtesy" ?
Lastly there was the Court Trustee, the Virginia State Bar and others who imply that we have "sour grapes".

This attorney epitomizes everything that identifies a successful modern attorney. Deceit is a great "strategy" it overcomes all barriers, it is like playing a chess game, making ones opponent look the other way and taking the queen. Damn the rules or laws the only thing that matters is the illusion, the image, the theater, why bother with facts like guilt and innocence, right or wrong, why bother with "morals" - good "strategy".

A Christian's Character - Why don't we look into this upstanding Christian's character, that was worthy of this attorney's crusade against a housewife. I stress again that since this individuals stalking stopped, we hope that he/she, whatever their choice finally was has gone on with their lives. The children are grown up and have survived with scars, but they are free now.

Here are some items that I observed and heard about over time:

I was told that this Christian, handcuffed his wife to the bed and gave her to his three friends as he watched. This was a topic in the period the husband's attorney excluded in his access of the wife's mental health records. The wife had asked her attorney to get a blood test of the child also, he did not try.
Terrorism of the family that provided sanctuary for the wife and child, the family was entertained by numerous phone calls from the husband, he would threaten to kill the wife and child, threaten the family, they were so concerned that they bought a .357 magnum revolver and filed an ineffectual restraining order. They too had children...
In one occasion the woman providing sanctuary tried to get the child out of the argument and this good father threw the child at the woman knocking her down.
I was told that on several occasions when the wife had gone to the woman's shelter the husband had found her and threatened them.
The wife was informed by her husband in a phone call while she was at a church camp, that he was intending on turning into a woman. The wife also found the doctors bill and asked that her attorney look into it, he did not.
The daughter informed me in an emotional conversation that her father molested her. The daughter could have been "playing" us, she was confused.
After his suicide attempt the mother finally got to talk to her son again. He stated that the good father barely noticed him after the divorce was final, the child also rebelled. The child claims to have gotten involved with gangs, allegedly one of them robbed my place when we trusted the son to watch it as we were on an attempt at a vacation.
This Christian attorney explained the pictures in the album away as being a "fetish". This was when the Judge hearing the case excluded the custody issue of the child because "they would not overrule the rulings of another judge". Making the current state of mind of the wife irrelevant to the divorce proceedings, as the only relevant information after the separation would be whether the mother was fit to care for the child. Guess this was another deception / lie for God as the exclusion was a direct omission of material, this is okay for an "officer of the court", but as a "Christian" claiming the high ground ?
We moved thirty miles away to a rather isolated area, with the mistaken belief that the husband could no longer use the coincidence excuse, for stalking - we were wrong.
When the wife tried to escape from this good husband, she got this crusader. She did not even have her clothes as her husband had stretched them out with his fetish.
This "Crusader" stated that he would destroy this mother/housewife if she did not return to her master, the claims of not being paid, implies that it was a "Crusade" not a professional "officer of the court", yet I cannot get over the images that I have of this attorneys client.
Adultry The wife told me that the husband had a child in Ohio by a woman that he had been having an affair with. I guess that "adultery" punishment only applies to women ?

I thought that "Christians" did not agree with individuals with gender issues, yet these works, demonstrates that I have been wrong. I see that this attorney is writing articles about the moral dilemmas of modern society and I remember his "strategy", the persecution of the housewife who was only trying to extract herself from an abusive relationship, who had sought counseling years prior to the separation. The lies and deceit that this Christian used to defend his client. This was a "Crusade" and how far was this individual willing to go on this crusade. Is this how "Christians" are supposed to keep a family together ? Through this individuals actions he destroyed the wife, who he considered chattel in favor of the husband. From "Good Christians" I would expect "support" for both individuals in such a predicament, even I tried to get the marriage back together till I observed this husband's character, the throwing of the child, knocking the woman down upset me, I wanted to go get the jerk right then, that was when sanctuary provider's boyfriend showed me their .357 magnum revolver they had purchased "just in case".

Since they like quotes from the Bible....

Give them according to their deeds, and according to the wickedness of their endeavors: give them after the work of their hands; render to them their desert.(Psalms 28:4)
And deceived themselves by their wicked deeds; and said of the most High, that he is not; and knew not his ways:(Esdras 4:7:23)
Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. (Matthew:7)
For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect.(Matthew:24)
The woman shall not wear that which pertained unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.(Deuteronomy 22:5)
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.(1 Peter 3:7)
Judge not, that ye be not judged. (Matthew 7)
Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:(Luke 6)

This attorney's strategy was effective, the courts believed him, "Church of God" members supported the Christian father. It was a shame that there was no compassion for the wife, the chattel.

One can only see these groups affiliated with the attorney as a great resource for those "men" that choose an alternate lifestyle after making a commitment to a marriage with children. This attorney will destroy the female "chattel", zealously defending the "rights" of the "Christian Brotherhood". The children do not matter as they too become casualties of this individuals "Crusade", discarded with the win. The mantra of these "Christians" is "obey, chattel or be destroyed, thou art slaves", in other words "on your knees bitch". I am still confused by these gender issues as depicted by the husband, just who would be the chattel if the husband succeeded in becoming a woman ? I will leave such questions to our crusader here since I can see from the articles he has written that he knows what he is talking about.

Given the depth of this individuals hatred for women we cannot wonder if we stepped into some "Christian Cult" with secret "Orders" where once one is on their lists one is screwed for life. Much like the current system where once you are on the "records" you cannot prove your innocence, one is presumed guilty.

After this "war" was over, the mother denied contact by the courts, with her minor son - where were these "zealots" for these children ?

This crusader, the Church of God and affiliated Christian organizations choose through the works that are being done an image of tolerance for those that choose complicated lifestyles.

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Ironically the wife was the one going to church, but the betrayal of the church members demonstrated their true nature - "by their works". I have tried to get her interested in church for moral support, some sort of community, but going these "congregations" makes us both feel uncomfortable as we remember the depth of their betrayal. Now my girlfriend does her Bible through correspondence. I tried to get her to go to the church that sponsors her Bible Studies but distrust runs deep and I too am reluctant to participate in such activities.